Five sentences that mislead a woman's life

误导女人一生的5句话

The classic that seems to guide love is actually the "SARS" that stifles love. I don't know how many beauties have lost their lives in these words.

Men are not bad, women do not love

Are women masochistic? In fact, women just don't like those who are rigid, clumsy and uninteresting. Relatively speaking, "bad" men are more interesting. But this "bad" should have a special meaning, that is, the heroine in the old-style movie turned shy and poked her finger at the hero's head: "You are such a bad person!"

The real bad man is terrible. The smart woman will smell the smell quickly and escape in time. The fake and bad man, commonly known as "cool", should become the "disgusting image" of women.

Men like beautiful stupid women

In order to please the prince and maintain her slim figure, Princess Diana began to vomit after eating, and later developed into uncontrollable vomiting. Charles did not feel grateful for this. On the contrary, he recalled in disgust: "My honeymoon was full of vomit." But the old and ugly Camilla, even the person who accused her of destroying the royal marriage, had to say: "Camilla is not only smart, but also very funny." She can talk about literature, art, politics and economy. In private, she is a warm and indulgent lover, When I first met her, she was not as shy as a little girl. She said, "My great-grandmother is your great-grandfather's mistress. What do you think?"

Beauty is something that men attach great importance to women, but love is not a poster or a one-night stand. When the attraction caused by beauty fades, if you face a dull and clumsy lover every day, how can life be boring?

Men should not make women cry

Men are not saviors, women are not clay dolls. In love, tolerance and understanding are necessary; But unlimited and absolute requirements are also unreasonable. Only "equality" can produce healthy and deep love between people.

If this sentence is interpreted as "men can't hurt women cruelly", then it should also be added that "women can't hurt men cruelly". In this way, it means nothing, so let's rest.

Not for ever, but for ever

The third party often said this when they first became the third party, but later most of them cried to "last forever". What's the meaning of self-deception.

Another is the fear of responsibility. I have a friend. The most unbearable thing for her ex-boyfriend is to always make clear that "we are not bound to marry in the future". The friend is finally angry, and even does not want to "have". Her ex-boyfriend was so excited that she suddenly felt unable to leave her and proposed. And she never looked back.

We are together because we don't understand, and separate because we understand

This "maxim" seems to have been circulating for a long time. The theoretical basis is that "distance produces beauty". The so-called "looking at a flower from a distance, looking at a lump of hemp from a distance".

Therefore, this kind of love and marriage guidance has also arisen. It is said that in marriage, both parties should also maintain a sense of mystery, and do not often expose their naked bodies in front of the opposite party. A friend of mine recently divorced, and his ex-wife followed this dogma. When she took a bath, her husband must not go in. If she did not go in carefully, she would shout and cover her body with a bath towel, such as a rogue. The friend's comment was: "Is it necessary? Where haven't I seen her?"

Is it so easy to know someone? In just a few years, you learned about a very different opposite sex from you and got tired of her? Only love based on understanding is profound and lasting.

  看似指导爱情的经典，其实却是扼杀爱情的“非典”。不知有多少红颜的一生，就耽误在这几句话上了。

 
  男人不坏，女人不爱
   难道女人都是受虐狂吗？其实，女人只是不喜欢那些刻板、笨拙、没有情趣的家伙。相对而言，“坏”的男人有意思一点。但这个“坏”应该是有特殊含义的，就是那种旧式电影里的女主角含羞转身，拿手指戳了一下男主角的脑袋：“你这个人，真坏！”
   真正的坏男人是很可怕的，聪明的女人很快就会嗅出气味，及时逃脱。而那种假坏，俗称“扮酷”的男人理应成为女人的“呕像”。

 男人喜欢美丽笨女人
    戴安娜王妃为了取悦王子，保持苗条的身段，在吃下东西以后就开始呕吐，后来发展成为不可遏止的呕吐症。对此，查尔斯并没有心怀感激，相反，他厌恶地回忆：“我的蜜月充满了呕吐的气息。”但是那个又老又丑的卡米拉，却连谴责她破坏皇室婚姻的人都不得不说：“卡米拉不但聪明，还很风趣。”文学艺术，政治经济，她都能侃侃而谈，在私下里，她是热烈而放纵的情人，第一次见面的时候她就不像小女生那样羞怯问好，她说的是：“我曾外祖母是你曾祖父的情妇，你怎么看？”
   美丽是男人在女人身上很看重的东西，但是，爱情不是看海报，也不是一夜情。当美貌引起的吸引力淡去的时候，如果每天面对一个迟钝、笨拙的情人，生活怎不无聊乏味？

 男人不该让女人流泪
     男人不是救世主，女人不是泥娃娃。在爱情中，包容、谅解是应该的；但是无限制的，绝对的要求也是不合理的。只有“平等”，人与人之间才能产生健康、深沉的爱情。
     如果这句话解释为“男人不能狠心地伤害女人”，那么还应该同时补一句“女人也不能狠心地伤害男人”。而这样，又等于什么都没说，还是歇了吧。

不求天长地久，但求曾经拥有
   第三者在刚成为第三者的时候经常这么说，但是后来大多哭着喊着要“天长地久”。自欺欺人，有什么意思。
   另外一种情况是怕担责任。我有一位朋友，她前男友最让她受不了的就是总要明确“我们将来不一定结婚的”，朋友终于恼火了，连“曾经拥有”都不要了。她前男友受此刺激，突然觉得离不开她，居然求婚了。而她，是头也不回了。

因为不了解而在一起，因为了解而分开
   这句“格言”好像流传很久了，理论依据是“距离产生美”，所谓远看一朵花，近看一团麻。
   所以这一种爱情婚姻指导也随之兴起，说是在婚姻中夫妇双方也要保持神秘感，不要经常在对方面前暴露自己的裸体。我的一个朋友最近离婚了，他的前妻就遵奉这样的教条，她在洗澡时候，先生一定不能进去，如果不小心进去了，她就会大叫一声，用浴巾遮住身体，如遇流氓。朋友的评论是：“用得着吗？她身上哪里我没见过？”
   了解一个人难道是那么容易的事情？就几年工夫，你就了解了一个跟你很不同的异性并厌倦了她？只有建立在了解基础上的爱情才是深刻而持久的。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

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