Ten positive attitudes you should have

 你应具备的十大积极心态

A positive attitude is the engine, which makes your car full of power. The road in the world, how much power you have, how far you can go

---Zhuge Changqing

Once put forward, the slogan "Attitude determines everything!" of Roman Vincent Pier, an American success scientist, spread throughout Europe, America and the world as the most sonorous expression of positive thinking power. He himself was made into the film "Life". Napoleon Hill regards positive attitude as the first principle of success. But what kind of positive mentality should we cultivate? Both masters have taken it with one stroke.

A person's mentality is the product of his growth. He has been cultivating his own mentality all his life, some in the direction of positive thinking and some in the direction of negative thinking.

Positive thinking brings good qualities: self-confidence, optimism, integrity, selflessness, generosity, tolerance, loyalty, courage, firmness, firmness, decisiveness, enterprising, fraternity, responsibility, trust, respect, perseverance, etc;

Negative thinking forms all negative qualities: inferiority, pessimism, meanness, narrowness, hypocrisy, cowardice, deception, arrogance, blame, greed, hesitation, fear, depression, resentment, anger, impatience, avoidance of responsibility, etc.

Obviously, a positive attitude brings light to life, while a negative attitude brings darkness to life.

Lin Yutang said that Chinese people are too familiar with three words: impossible! These three words are the characteristics of negative mentality.

The characteristic of positive attitude is still these three words. Just pause when you say these three words, and don't deny them all at once. That is: No, it is possible!

But if that is all, it is still just a vague psychological hint, not a clear and operable positive attitude. After self-learning and various lectures, many people have decided to turn themselves into a truly active person. But where to start is still unknown. Many successful lecturers also know nothing about it, but only encourage it. I conclude that there are ten attitudes that people generally lack, which are also the ten positive attitudes that must be possessed for success.

1 Investment mentality

Investment is to invest existing resources into a project and obtain greater benefits from it. Investment mentality is the mentality of believing that everything you do will be rewarded. Reading is an intellectual investment, doing good is a moral investment, helping people is an emotional investment

2 Normal mentality

The so-called ordinary state of mind is the state of mind that calmly accepts all facts. It may be good or bad. Ordinary mind is not only the attitude towards honor and luck, but also the attitude towards frustration and failure.

3 Risk mentality

Adventure mentality is the psychological state of not being afraid of risk or even actively seeking risk value.

4. Gratitude

Gratitude is the psychological state of being grateful to others and even to nature.

5 Zero mentality

The zeroing mentality is the mentality of clearing everything in your heart and returning everything to zero. A good zeroing mentality is an essential psychological weapon to deal with failure, and it is also a necessary psychological state to keep forging ahead and achieve success.

6 Service mentality

Service mentality is the mentality that you do everything to serve others, society and mankind. One of the principles of success is the service principle, and the service mentality is to implement this principle.

7. Contentment

Greed is one of the six human natures. Many people are often unhappy because of discontent. They spend all their minds on things they don't necessarily need. If it is not greed, how many people will be happy and how many people will achieve!

8 Sharing mentality

The sharing mentality is the psychological state of wanting someone to share the results of labor with themselves.

9. Win-win mentality

The principle of cooperation is one of the principles of success. The win-win mentality is the mentality of self-interest. It is to think for yourself while not forgetting the rights and interests of others, so that both parties can benefit. The win-win mentality is the necessary mentality to achieve cooperation and the only way to success.

10 Childish mentality

The tempering of life makes us mature, but it may also erase one of the most important things in us: childlike innocence. The so-called childish mentality is the mentality of looking at problems like children. There are two characteristics of childlike innocence, one is curiosity and the other is tolerance. Curiosity and tolerance are valuable wisdom in life.

   积极的心态，是发动机，让你这辆车，动力充沛，世界上的路，你有多大动力，你就能走多远......

                                --- 诸葛长青

  美国成功学家罗曼-文森特-皮尔“态度决定一切！” 的口号一经提出就作为积极思维力量的一句最铿锵的表达而传遍欧美，传遍世界。他本人被拍成电影《一生》。拿破仑-希尔把积极心态作为成功的第一原则。可是我们到底要培养什么样的积极心态呢？两位大师都一笔带过。

　　一个人的心态是他成长的产物，人一生都在培养自己的心态，有的向极积思维方向，有的向消极思维方向。

　　积极思维带来优良品质：自信、乐观、正直、无私、慷慨、宽容、忠诚、勇敢、坚定、坚强、果断、进取、博爱、责任、信任、尊重、百折不挠等；

　　消极思维形成所有负性品质：自卑、悲观、吝啬、狭隘、虚伪、懦弱、欺瞒、自大、责怪、贪婪、犹豫、恐惧、抑郁、怨恨、恼怒、急燥、回避责任等。

　　显然积极心态给人生带来光明，消极心态把人生带进黑暗。

　　林语堂说中国人太熟悉三个字了：不可能！消极心态的特征就是这三个字。

　　积极心态的特征还是这三个字，只是在说这三个字时要停顿一下，不要一出口就全盘否定掉了，那就是：不，可能！

　　但若仅此为止的话，那仍然只不过是模糊的心理暗示，而不是清晰的可操作执行的积极心态。许多人经过自我学习和各种讲座，已经决定把自己变成一个真正积极主动的人，可从哪里开始呢，还是不知道。许多成功学讲师也是一无所知，只是一味地激励。我总结有十大心态是人们普遍缺乏的，这也是成功必须具备的十大积极心态。

　　1 投资心态

　　投资就是将现有的资源投入到某一项目并从中获得更大收益。投资心态就是相信自己所作的一切都会有回报的心态。读书是智力投资，做善事是道德投资，帮助人是感情投资……

　　2 平常心态

　　所谓平常心态就是平静地接受一切事实的心态，它可能是好的也可能是坏的。平常心不仅仅是对待荣誉和幸运的心态，它也是对待挫折和失败应有的心态。

　　3 冒险心态

　　冒险心态就是不畏惧风险甚至是积极寻求风险价值的心理状态。

　　4 感恩心态

　　感恩心态就是对别人时怀感激甚至对大自然也怀有感激的心理状态。

　　5 归零心态

　　归零心态就是把自己心灵里的一切清空、一切归于零的心态。良好的归零心态是对付失败必不可少的心理武器，更是不断进取获取成功的必需的心理状态。

　　6 服务心态

　　服务心态就是你做任何事都是在为别人服务为社会服务为人类服务的心态。成功原理之一就是服务原则，服务心态就是贯彻这一原则。

　　7 知足心态

　　贪婪是人的六大本性之一，多少人都是因为不知足而常不乐，他们在自己并不一定需要的东西上耗费了全部心智。如果不是贪婪，将有多少人获得快乐，又有多少人取得成就！

　　8 分享心态

　　分享心态就是希望有人与自己共享劳动成果的心理状态。

　　9 双赢心态

　　合作原则是成功的原则之一。双赢心态就是利已利人的心态，就是为自己着想的同时而不忘他人的权益，使双方都能受益。双赢心态是达到合作的必有心态，也是走向成功的必由之路。

　　10童稚心态

　　生活的磨砺使我们成熟，但是它也可能磨掉我们身上一种最重要的东西：童心。所谓童稚心态就是像儿童那样看问题的心态，童心的两个特点，一是好奇一是包容，好奇心态和包容心态都是人生宝贵的智慧。

 (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

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