Learn to smile

 学会微笑

The face God gives us is not used for making up or eating, but for smiling, If you see someone who doesn't smile, please give him a smile

-----------Zhuge Changqing

I remember a philosopher said that smile is a person's most beautiful look; The ugliest person, as long as he shows a sincere smile, will suddenly become beautiful. Looking back, all smiles are beautiful, and the six palaces are pink and colorless! I'm afraid that's the reason.

Smile is closely related to our life. Smile is an advanced nutritional cream. When applied to our face, we will become more beautiful and moving; Smile is cool mountain water, which moistens your heart and calms others' anger. Smiling with friends is the communication between heart and heart; Smiling at strangers is the shortening of points; Smiling at relatives is caring; Smiling at the enemy is a confident response.

There are thousands of different languages in the world, but smile has no country. It can instantly express your enthusiasm, friendship and goodwill. When you smile when you are alone, it is a sincere smile! Face everyone around you (including yourself) with a sincere smile in life, and then you will become more confident and popular. The marketing god of the Japanese insurance industry, Yuanyiping, is short and unattractive. The secret of his success is his smile. It is said that he can laugh in thirty-eight ways, of which the most praiseworthy is his childlike innocent smile, which is the most moving. The boss of McDonald's said: "Smile is one of the most valuable commodities." Smile is an important element to show the comprehensive quality and taste of the service industry.

Give life a sincere smile—— Whether you are at the peak of success or at the bottom of frustration, whether you are happy for love or sad for hate, as long as you learn to smile, you will find the most essential, primitive and simple tolerance and open-mindedness for your soul at the beginning of life. All laughter and tears will become frank and free, and you will have a vast sky in front of you.

Give life a sincere smile—— Whether you are facing a billionaire or a poor beggar, whether you are meeting old friends or new friends again, as long as you learn to smile, you will understand love and respect, and shake off the triviality, embarrassment and lead dust in life. All the disturbances from the outside and the shackles from the inside will become insignificant, and your surroundings will be full of warmth and friendliness!

Smile is a kind of detached mood, a kind of calm and calm. If you treat marriage, family, life and work with a smile, you will be happy and satisfied. Smile makes you happy.

Smile is a kind of inner temperament, which comes from personal culture and cultivation; Smile is a transcendent realm, which needs the practice of life and sincere appreciation. The hustle and bustle of the world, the busy work, the tired life, the body is bound, the mind is not bound, as long as your mood is clear and cloudless, your life will not be dark and cold. In fact, all this - just a knowing smile is enough.

Smile is a kind of indifference, and smile is a kind of free and easy; Smile is a strong, smile is a mature; Smile is a kind of confidence, and smile is a kind of charm; Smile is a kind of wisdom, and smile is a kind of love.

A smile is a kind of appearance, a kind of demeanor, a kind of language. A sincere smile also gives people respect, hope, encouragement, warmth and fragrance. A smile is the spring breeze in March, which can sweep away the clouds on your face; Smile is the rainbow in the world, which can build a bridge of friendship. Smile is the exposure of virtue; It is the display of wisdom; Smile is a symbol of art.

Smile makes your heart richer, and smile makes your life richer.

Everyone yearns for others to smile at him. Especially when you are a stranger in a foreign country, you feel that the friendly smile others give you is a winter sun and a summer breeze. However, there are not many people who can appreciate this scenery in life. We should learn to smile.

When you learn to smile at yourself, you learn to love life; When you learn to smile at others, you learn to cherish the beauty; Learn to smile at all life, and your life will be full of sunshine everywhere!

Smiling is actually very simple, but the corners of the mouth are slightly upward, and the eyes are slightly narrowed, making the appearance of narcissism. Smiling is just a simple and subtle action. But maybe you can't imagine that the power of smile is magical, and the effect of smile is incomparable. Smile can't be artificial. An artificial smile is awkward, embarrassing and hypocritical. Smiling depends not only on facial muscles, but also on heart. The smile must be from the inside out, real and full of love.

I shouted "one, two, three". Would you please smile with me?

  上帝给我们的脸不是用来化妆、吃饭的，而是用来微笑的.....，如果你看到有人不微笑，请你送给他一个微笑.......

                 ----------- 诸葛长青

  记得有位哲人说过，微笑是一个人最美的神态；长得再丑的人，只要一露出真诚的笑容，就会一下子变得漂亮起来。回眸一笑百媚生，六宫粉黛无颜色！说的恐怕就是这个道理。      

   微笑与我们的生活息息相关。微笑是高级营养霜，涂抹在脸上，我们便会愈加美丽动人；微笑是清凉的山泉水，滋润了你的心田，平静了别人的火气。微笑于朋友，是心与心的沟通；微笑于陌生人，是点与点的缩短；微笑于亲人，是贴心的关爱；微笑于敌人，是自信的回击。

   世界上有上千种不同的语言，惟有微笑没有国度，它可以瞬间表达你的热情、友好和善意。当你一个人独处时笑了，那是真心的笑!生活中要用真心的微笑面对周围的每一个人(包括自己)，然后自己就会变得更加自信和受欢迎。日本保险业的推销之神原一平身材矮小,其貌不扬，他之所以成功的秘诀就是因为他的笑,据说他会三十八种笑,其中最为之称道的是他那婴儿般纯真的笑,最能打动人心。麦当劳的老板则认为：“笑容是最有价值的商品之一。”微笑是展现服务行业综合素质和品位重要的元素。

给生命一个真诚的微笑！——无论你是在成功的颠峰还是在失意的低谷，无论你是为爱而欣喜还是为恨而感伤，只要学会了微笑，你就为自己的心灵找到了生命之初最本质最原始最淳朴的宽容和豁达，一切欢笑和泪水都变得坦荡、洒脱，你的面前将是一片海阔天空。

    给生活一个真诚的微笑！——无论你是面对一个亿万富翁还是一个潦倒乞丐，无论你是重逢亲朋故交还是邂逅生人新友，只要学会了微笑，你就领悟了博爱和尊重，挥别了生活中的繁琐、尴尬和铅尘，一切来自外界的纷扰和来自内心的羁绊也都变得无足轻重，你的周围必将充满温情和友善！   

   微笑是一种超然的心境，是一种淡定的从容。如果用微笑的心情去对待婚姻、家庭、生活、工作，那么你就会很幸福，你就会很满足。微笑让你变得快乐无比。

   微笑是一种内在的气质，气质来源于个人的文化底蕴和修养；微笑是一种超然的境界，境界需要生活的励炼和真心的体味。喧嚣尘世，繁忙的工作，疲惫的生活，受约束的是身体，不受约束的是心灵，只要你的心情是晴朗无云的，你的人生就没有阴暗寒冷。其实，这一切——只要一个会心的微笑就够了。

   微笑是一种淡然，微笑是一种洒脱； 微笑是一种坚强，微笑是一种成熟； 微笑是一种自信，微笑是一种魅力； 微笑是一种智慧，微笑是一种博爱。

    微笑是一种仪表，一种风度，一种语言，真诚的微笑还给人以尊重、希望、鼓舞、温馨和芬芳，微笑是三月的春风，能将脸上的阴云扫荡；微笑是人间的彩虹能架起友谊的桥梁，微笑是美德的外露；是智慧的展示；微笑更是艺术的符号。

   微笑让心灵更丰盈，微笑让生命更富有。

   人都渴望别人对自己微笑。尤其身在异乡为异客者，更觉得别人给自己友善的微笑是一轮冬日的太阳，一缕夏日的清风。然而生活中能领略到这道风景的并不多，我们应当学会微笑。

   学会了对自己微笑，就学会了热爱生活；学会了对别人微笑，就学会了珍惜美好；学会了对一切生命微笑，你的人生便处处充满阳光！

   微笑其实很简单，不过是嘴角微微上翘，眼睛轻轻眯起，做自我陶醉状。微笑只是一个简单细微的动作而已。但是也许你想象不到，微笑的力量却是神奇的，微笑产生的作用是无可比拟的。微笑不能做作，做作的微笑是别扭的，是尴尬的，是虚伪的。微笑不仅要靠面部肌肉，还得用心。微笑必须是由内心自内而外散发出来的，真实的，充满爱心的。
   我喊“一、二、三”，请你和我一起微笑好吗？

 (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

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