Men do three things in their life

男人一生就做三件事情

The smiling style said that men do three things in their life: managing money, women and career. It's quite reasonable.

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The root cause of the failure of men's career is to trifle with money and play with women. Wealth and women are two pillars of career.

Wealth management requires a deep understanding of the world of wealth. Blood should be colder than ice. The light of reason is cold light. Discipline and self-discipline are the sword of Shangfang. Discipline and self-discipline are your best word of mouth, whether you are investing in stocks, running enterprises, engaging in finance, or working as a migrant worker. According to Li Ka-shing, it's not mine. It's mine. I'll take it.

Managing women requires warmth. Lower your enthusiasm and raise your indifference. The first is warmth, the second is enthusiasm, the third is indifference, and the fourth is passion.

The key to managing women is to be self-aware, because women's needs are contradictory. If a man tries to satisfy a woman's needs, he is also satisfying her resentment. She is happy that you accidentally praised her beauty. Then she must wait for that day. You said she was not beautiful. She knows you won't say it. So, if you don't say she is beautiful, you mean she is not beautiful. She cried. She said you destroyed her.

Therefore, if you want to praise the beauty of a woman, you should praise the one who has only met once.

So, what about women who boast all their lives? Praise her for being gentle.

A woman is like this. She will become what you praise her. Women are water.

There are many people who can manage money, but too few who can manage women. So Chinese women are very lonely. Because Chinese men can't manage the indifference of financial management and the tenderness of women. Men who can manage money are often afraid of women. He often mistakenly thinks that women like his money. He often uses money incorrectly to imply his success. He tends to become a typical idiot in managing women. Those who care for women are also frostbitten by the coldness of the money world. Their blood ran on the river bed without dam, spreading completely without scenery. They hate most and are most vulnerable to the heartless burn of money. "I'm afraid". Become a "little man".

Business management is a man's best opportunity. When most people are struggling to survive, if a man has a "career" to justify, he should go all out.

What is a career, in short, is also the whole meaning: helping others.

Big business is to help many people, and small business is to help a few people. Less than one person, your wife, son, father, friend, neighbor, people you meet at work every day

What is help? In short, don't pay for the reward.

If you still care about return, it is not help but exchange. It is a kind of business.

   那一笑的风情说：男人一生就做三件事情：理财，理女人，理事业。还挺有道理的。

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　　男人事业失败的根源，就是轻财、玩女人。财和女人，是事业的两根柱子。

　　理财，需要对财的世界有深刻的了解。应该血比冰还冷。理性的光芒，是冷光。纪律，自律，是尚方宝剑。无论你是炒股，还是办企业、搞金融，或是做个打工仔，纪律和自律都是你最好的口碑。按李嘉诚的说法：不是我的，一分不要。是我的，我就要。

　　理女人，需要温情。把你的热情降降温，把你的冷淡升升温。温情第一，热情第二，冷漠第三，激情第四。

　　理女人的诀窍是要有自知之明，因为女人的需求是矛盾的。如果一个男的试图满足女人的需求，他就同时在满足女人的怨恨。你不小心夸了她漂亮，她高兴。然后她就一定等得到那一天，你说她不漂亮。她知道你不会说的。所以，你不说她漂亮就是说她不漂亮。她就哭了。她说是你毁了她。

　　所以，要夸女人漂亮，就要夸那个只有一面之缘的。

　　那么，夸一生一世的女人什么呢？夸她温柔。

　　女人就是这样，你夸她什么，她就变成什么。女人是水。

　　会理财的人不少，会理女人的太少。所以中国的女人，很孤独。因为中国的男人没有办法调理好理财的冷漠和理女人的温情。会理财的男人，往往怕女人。他往往错误地以为女的喜欢他的钱。他又往往错误地用钱来暗示他的成功。他在理女人方面容易成为典型的白痴。会理女人的，又被金钱世界的冷酷冻伤。他们的血奔腾在没有堤坝的河床上，蔓延得完全没有了风景。他们最讨厌并且最容易被金钱的无情灼伤。"我怕怕"。成了"小男人"。

　　理事业，是一个男人的最好的机会。当大多数人都在生存线上挣扎时，如果一个男人有"事业"可理，那他应该全力以赴。

　　什么是事业，简单地说，也是全部的含义：帮助别人。

　　大事业就是帮助很多的人，小事业就是帮助少些人。少到一个人，你的妻子、儿子、父亲、朋友、邻居，你每天上班遇到的人……

　　什么是帮助？简单地说，不为回报而付出。

　　如果你还在乎回报，就不是帮助，是交换。是生意的一种。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

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