Calm is the real power

 沉着冷静才是真正的力量

Be calm, calm, not limited by the situation, not hindered by the environment. As long as you are the best, you should be calm and stable. Mr. Pan Shiyi wrote this article very well, which is thought-provoking

A particularly close friend told me that he had no mind about what he had done recently. He felt powerless, soft and didn't want to do anything. I talked a lot with him about strength and the source of strength, and I also thought a lot about it.

Around us, whether in real life, or in television, the Internet, or various media, we can see the most power is the power of guns, weapons, especially nuclear weapons. Sometimes it is not even the power of nuclear weapons themselves, but the power that threatens the peace and life of the world in the name of nuclear weapons. At the same time, there are also the power of protest, intimidation, fist, abuse, slander, deception, and so on. But these forces do not seem to have brought benefits to our lives, not only to others, but also to the originator himself. What they have brought is destruction and insecurity. When you abuse and slander others, there will be blank, boredom and emptiness at a loss. In order to make up for this boredom, you have to use worse language to abuse and slander others. The worse the language is, the more serious the emptiness and boredom will appear. These are more pale and powerless than power, because they are the opposite of real power in essence.

What strength does a healthy person and team need? I think it is the power of tranquility, justice, unity, truth, love, science, and benevolent language... These forces can enrich themselves. Only when they are enriched can they do their own things well, and these forces will also help them to do things.

I remember one time last year, I went to a meeting with my colleague. At this meeting, the other party suddenly hurled insults, broke out in a rage, and even personally attacked my colleague. My colleague just sat quietly, without tit for tat, and did not leave his seat. He just sat there politely. After the other party's venting, there was an embarrassing blank, about three or five minutes, but it seemed that three or five hours had passed. From the eyes and expressions of the other party, we can see his inner shame and embarrassment. Then the work and meeting continued. After leaving the conference room, I said to my colleague, "You have done very well, because you believe from the bottom of your heart that the power of justice and the power of benevolent language outweigh the power of intimidation and abuse. This is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of your strength and strength." In fact, he was very moved.

Indeed, the power of love will prevail over the power of guns; The power of honesty and morality will surely defeat the power of deception; The power of science and the pursuit of truth will also defeat the power of superstition. In our life, we should always remind ourselves that we should use the power of justice to defeat the power of evil. Only with the power of justice can we finally defeat the power of evil. Why? There must be a secret behind this. It always lets those shameless people fall into the shackles of their own design. Those who are pure in heart and behave properly can always get your help and enter the kingdom of happiness and freedom. This is exactly what Confucius said: "A gentleman is honest, and a villain is always in distress."

    遇事要冷静，要沉着，不要被形势所限制，不要被环境所阻碍，只要你是最好的，你就要沉着稳定，潘石屹先生这片文写得很好，令人思考，“君子坦荡荡,小人常戚戚。” ---------- 诸葛长青

   一位特别要好的朋友跟我说，他最近做什么事情都没有心思，身上觉得没有力量，软软的，什么事情也不想做。我和他围绕着力量和力量的来源谈了许多，自己也由此想了许多。

　　在我们的身边，无论从现实生活中，还是从电视、网络、各种媒体中，看到最多的力量，是枪炮的力量，武器的力量，尤其是核武器的力量。有时甚至不是核武器本身的力量，而是以核武器之名对全世界的和平和生命发出威胁的力量。同时也有抗议的力量、恐吓的力量、拳头的力量、谩骂的力量、造谣中伤的力量、欺骗的力量等等，但以上这些力量似乎并没有给我们的生活带来好处，不光是没有给别人带来好处，甚至给发力者自己也没有带来丝毫的好处，带来的只是破坏和不安宁。每当你谩骂完、恶意中伤完别人之后，一定会出现无所适从的空白、无聊和空虚，为了弥补这无聊的空虚，只好用更恶劣的语言去谩骂和中伤他人，越是恶劣的语言说出口之后，出现这种空虚和无聊就越严重。与其说以上这些也算是力量，还不如说是苍白和无力，因为它们从本质上来说，都走到了真正力量的反面。

　　一个健康的人和团队需要的是什么力量呢？我想是宁静的力量、正义的力量、团结的力量、追求真理的力量、爱的力量、科学的力量、仁慈语言的力量……这些力量本身就可以使自己充实，只有自己充实了才能做好自己的事，而这些力量也会帮助他们做成事。

　　记得去年有一次，我与我的同事去参加一个会议。这次会议上，对方突然恶语伤人，暴跳如雷地发作，甚至对我的同事进行人身攻击，而我的同事只是安静地坐着，没有以牙还牙地谩骂，也没有离开自己的座位，只是在那里有礼貌地坐着。等到对方发泄结束后，有一阵让对方尴尬的空白，大约只有三、五分钟，但当时的感觉好象是过了三、五个小时。从对方的眼神、表情中我们看到了他内心的羞愧和不好意思。之后工作和会议又继续进行着。出了会议室，我对我的同事说：“你做得很好，因为你从心底相信正义的力量、仁慈语言的力量胜过恐吓和谩骂的力量。这不是软弱的表现，正是你强大，有力量的表现。” 事实上也是如此，他很感动。

　　的确，爱的力量一定会战胜枪炮的力量；诚实品德的力量一定会战胜欺骗的力量；科学和对真理追求的力量也一定会战胜迷信的力量。在我们的生活中，要时时刻刻提醒自己，用正义的力量去战胜邪恶的力量。也只有用正义的力量才能最终战胜邪恶的力量，为什么呢？这背后一定有一个奥秘，总是让那些无耻之徒陷入自己给自己设计的桎梏中。那些心灵纯洁、行为端正的人总是能得到大家的帮助，走进快乐和自由的王国。这也正应了孔子说过的那句话：“君子坦荡荡,小人常戚戚。”

 (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

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