Confucius said in the Analects of Confucius that being a man: four non, three precepts and three fears (picture)

A gentleman should be strict with himself.

... Zhuge Changqing

The world of mortals is rolling, how to restrain yourself?

Confucius "Analects of Confucius" reminds people to pay attention to "four non, three precepts and three fears". Zhuge Changqing believes that these words of Confucius, the sage, deserve our reflection and implementation.

1、 Pay attention to the "four evils" in life

Zhuge Changqing: Confucius reminded people to "do not look, listen, speak and move without ceremony".

Confucius said in the Analects of Confucius:

Yan Yuan asked Ren, and Confucius said, "It is benevolence to take revenge on yourself. One day, the world will return to benevolence. Is it benevolence for yourself, but for others

Zhuge Changqing believes that the basic meaning of this passage is:

Yan Yuan asked his teacher Confucius what benevolence is. Confucius said, "Restrain yourself and make your speech and actions conform to the requirements of propriety is benevolence. If everyone does the courtesy, then the world will enter the world of benevolence. To implement benevolence depends on yourself, is it to be managed by others?" Yan Yuan said, "What is the specific way to implement benevolence?" Confucius said: "Don't look at things that are not polite, don't listen to things that are not polite, don't say things that are not polite, and don't do things that are not polite." Yan Yuan said: "Although I am not smart, please let me do what you say."

2、 A gentleman should follow the "three precepts"

Zhuge Changqing: The sage Confucius reminded people to "abstain from lust, fight and gain".

According to the Analects of Confucius, Confucius said, "A gentleman has three precepts: when he is young, his blood is uncertain, and his abstinence is in color; when he is strong, his blood is strong, and his abstinence is in battle; when he is old, his blood is weak, and his abstinence is in gain."

Zhuge Changqing believes that the basic meaning of this passage is:

Confucius said, "A gentleman should be on guard against three things: when he is young, his blood is not stable, so he should be on guard against infatuation with women; when he is in his prime, he should be on guard against fighting and fighting; when he is old, his blood is weak, so he should be on guard against insatiable greed (not too greedy for material, wealth, status, reputation, etc.)."

3、 Gentlemen should pay attention to "three fears"

Zhuge Changqing: The sage Confucius reminded people to "fear the fate of heaven, fear adults, and fear the words of saints".

According to the Analects of Confucius, Confucius said, "A gentleman has three fears: fear of fate, fear of adults, and fear of the words of saints. A villain does not know fate, but does not fear it, and has sex with adults, and insults the words of saints."

Zhuge Changqing believes that the basic meaning of this passage is:

Confucius said, "A gentleman has three kinds of reverence: reverence for the fate of heaven, reverence for the prince, and reverence for the sage's words

Zhuge Changqing, let's learn from the sage Confucius thought, everyone should be "four evils, three precepts and three fears", and everyone should strive to be a sage and gentleman.

Don't do any evil, and do all good.

Zhuge Changqing, I wish you success.

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君子，应当严格要求自己。

……诸葛长青

红尘滚滚，如何约束自己？

孔子《论语》提醒人们注意做到“四非三戒三畏”。诸葛长青认为，圣人孔子的这些话值得我们反思落实。

一、做人要注意“四非”

诸葛长青：孔子提醒人们做到“非礼勿视、非礼勿听、非礼勿言、非礼勿动”。

《论语》中孔子说：

颜渊问仁，子曰：“克己复礼为仁。一日克己复礼，天下归仁焉。为仁由己，而由人乎哉？”颜渊曰：“请问其目？”子曰：“非礼勿视，非礼勿听，非礼勿言，非礼勿动。”颜渊曰：“回虽不敏，请事斯语矣。”

诸葛长青认为这段话基本意思是：

颜渊向老师孔子问什么是仁。孔子说：“克制自己、使自己的言语行动符合礼的要求，就是仁。如果人人都做到克己复礼，那么天下就进入仁德的世界。实行仁德要靠自己，难道是靠别人来管理吗？”颜渊说：“请问实行仁德的具体途径方法是什么？”孔子说：“不合礼的事不看，不合礼的事不听，不合礼的事不言，不合礼的事不做。”颜渊说：“我虽然不聪敏，请让我照您说的这些话去做。”

二、君子要做到“三戒”

诸葛长青：圣人孔子提醒人们做到“戒色、戒斗、戒得”。

《论语》记载，孔子曰：“君子有三戒：少之时，血气未定，戒之在色；及其壮也，血气方刚，戒之在斗；及其老也，血气既衰，戒之在得。”

诸葛长青认为，这段话的基本意思是：

 孔子说：“君子有三件事应该警惕戒备：年少的时候，血气还没有稳定，要警戒迷恋女色；壮年的时候，血气旺盛，要警戒争强好斗；到了老年的时候，血气已经衰弱，要警戒贪得无厌（不要过分贪求物质、财富、地位、名誉等）。”

三、君子要注意“三畏”

诸葛长青：圣人孔子提醒人们要“畏天命、畏大人、畏圣人之言”。

 《论语》记载，孔子曰：“君子有三畏：畏天命，畏大人，畏圣人之言。小人不知天命而不畏也，狎大人，侮圣人之言。”

诸葛长青认为，这段话的基本意思是：

孔子说：“君子有三种敬畏：敬畏天命，敬畏王公大人，敬畏圣人的言论。小人不知道天命所以不敬畏，轻视王公大人，侮慢圣人的言论。”

诸葛长青，让我们学习圣人孔子思想，人人做到“四非、三戒、三畏”，人人争当圣贤君子。

诸恶莫作，众善奉行。

诸葛长青，祝你成功。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

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