Treatment of depression: How do children get depression?

抑郁症治疗方法：孩子得了抑郁症怎么办？

Buddha said that everything is cause and effect. The problem of causation should be solved from the perspective of causation.

-----Zhuge Changqing

Chinese culture is broad and profound.

Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism are the three pillars of Chinese culture.

Confucianism advocates loyalty, filial piety, benevolence and righteousness. "If you do good and accumulate virtue, you will be rewarded".

Taoism advocates moral purity, "God has no relatives, always with good people".

Buddhism advocates breaking away from the bitter sea and "doing nothing evil and pursuing all good".

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Lao Tzu said, "One is two, two is three, and three is all things.".

Today's Chinese people should draw wisdom from the sea of Chinese culture.

Zhuge Changqing believes that whenever you encounter a problem, you can seek the answer from Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism.

With the Chinese culture as the foundation, we will continue to repent our sins, do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and everything will come true.

Children are the treasure of parents.

Children are the future and hope of the country.

Zhuge Changqing studied the traditional Chinese culture and believed that apart from providing protection and growth environment for children, the most important thing for parents is to do more good deeds and accumulate good fortune for them.

Recently, the parents of a child encountered a thorny problem.

Her child was depressed and didn't want to go to school. She always suspected that teachers and classmates would hurt her.

Why?

There are many reasons for depression.

We should start with causal analysis.

The child's mother said:

Hello, Zhuge Changqing! Thank the teacher for giving! What should teachers do when teenagers are depressed? Junior high school is going to be the third year of junior high school. I feel that nothing is good. I hold my mobile phone to threaten my parents to suspend school. There is really no way out. Many of the suggestions and methods put forward by her friends have also been used, and they all don't work. She always suspects that her classmates scold her, harm her and accuse her. What should we do? Thank you for your guidance!

Zhuge Changqing used the wisdom of traditional Chinese culture to analyze and answer.

amitabha. If you have depression, you can cure it slowly. Don't worry.

Mr. Zhuge Changqing saw your child's depression. The answer to your situation is as follows:

1、 Why depression

Zhuge Changqing believes that the causes and effects of each person's life are different, and the children have different conditions of depression.

There are three main reasons for your child's depression.

1. The parents themselves are at fault. Zhuge Changqing believes that the father is the sky, the mother is the earth, and the middle is the child. If parents are guilty, it will affect children's growth. It's like if the sky is dark and the trees are difficult to grow, and if the parents are wrong, the children will be hindered. Many depression is related to parents.

You should reflect on your own mistakes as parents. For example, reflect on whether you have any mistakes such as killing animals, unfilial parents, abortion, and lewdness.

2. The children's enemies, creditors, attached beings, predestined beings, generations of relatives, ancestors, etc. Zhuge Changqing believes that everyone's growth and happiness are related to the number of children and the size of their crimes in this life. If the crime is serious, there will be more creditors, and more creditors will interfere with the children. There are also some predestined beings, generations of relatives, and ancestors who will also be hindered by various causes. Zhuge Changqing believes that this is an important reason for depression.

3. There is a conflict between your child's school, the creditor of your child's teachers and classmates, all sentient beings, and your child's creditor. When children go to school, they will encounter all kinds of opportunities. Some student creditors will have conflicts with your child's creditors, and some student creditors need to exceed the limit. This is also the reason for your child's depression and fantasy.

2、 Solutions to children's depression

Mr. Zhuge Changqing thought that the ringer should be tied to the bell.

Buddha Sakyamuni said that everything in life is cause and effect. We should solve it from the perspective of cause and effect.

Teacher Zhuge Changqing has a song "Happiness 12345" that changes the fate. If you have time in the future, you can search this song and listen to it.

You should do a good job of repentance and reconciliation and return to merit and virtue, and the child will be better slowly.

Zhuge Changqing suggested that you can do this:

1. Confess your sins. Contrary to the similar questions reminded by the teacher, if any, repent and return.

2. Repent instead of the child. Confess to the parents and creditors whose children are suffering from depression, and return with merits such as releasing, chanting and giving food. Return to the parents and creditors whose children are suffering from depression; Return to the parents and creditors who don't go to school when their children play mobile phones.

Zhuge Changqing suggested that you repent like this.

You can find a clean room, kneel on your knees, put your hands together and say:

Nanwu Amitabha, Nanwu Guanyin Bodhisattva, Nanwu Land Tibetan King Bodhisattva, Nanwu Shifang Sanshi Buddhas and Bodhisattvas.

The Blessed Life and the Infinite Heaven, the Supreme Lord and the Second Emperor save the Bitter Heaven, and all the immortals in the three realms and ten directions;

Jesus, the Virgin Mary; Mohammed, Allah; All immortals in the three realms and ten directions:

My child * * is suffering from depression and does not love to go to school. Dear friends, creditors, attached beings, predestined beings, generations of relatives, ancestors and so on. I am the mother of the child. Today I confess to you for the child. Please forgive my child, and rest assured that I will do such merits as releasing, giving food, and reciting to return to you to get happiness from suffering and to leave beyond life.

My child * * may have done a lot of things to you, may have killed you and hurt you, please forgive me. Please rest assured that I will do such merits as releasing life, giving food, chanting and so on to return to you to get happiness from suffering and to leave the super life. Thank you.

(Zhuge Changqing: repent for 30 minutes in the morning, middle and evening every day, and then give alms and chant Buddhist signs to return)

3. Solve the problem of creditors of children and school teachers. How to solve this problem? Zhuge Changqing suggested that you can do this:

Step 1: Say two words to the direction of the child's school:

The first sentence: Hello, all the immortals and sentient beings of the school where the child * * * is located in * *, * * province * * city * *, * * province. I am the mother of * * *. First of all, I promise not to interfere with your cause and effect. Please rest assured, and please do not interfere with my child, thank you; If you need to exceed, don't worry. You can join my charity to accept the exceeding. I will continue to give food in the future (please refer to Zhuge Changqing's feeding ritual for the method of giving food), and I will call for people who need to take part in the giving. Thank you. (5 to 10 times).

The second sentence: The class of the child * * * is in the third grade * * class of the * * school in * * city, * * province, * * province, and the teachers who have bad relations with the child and the creditors of the friends on the students. Hello, I am the mother of * * *, and I will never interfere with your cause and effect. Please rest assured that if you need to exceed the limit, you can participate in my charity to accept the limit. Thank you. (5 to 10 times).

Say for 10 days. After 10 days, it's enough to do the food call carefully.

Step 2: Learn how to do almsgiving and other merits. The alms call you, your spouse, your children and your children who are suffering from depression and do not want to go to school to all the enemy creditors, attached beings, predestined beings, generations of relatives, ancestors, abortions, ghosts, etc. to participate in the alms; Invite the school where the child * * * lives to participate in the charity; Invite the class of the child * * * to attend the charity, including the class of the third grade of the * * school in * * city, * * province, * *, and the teachers who have bad relations with the child, as well as the creditors of the enemy relatives of the students. Finally, one by one, they were told to leave hardship and happiness, and to leave beyond life. Return to the children's early recovery and return to school as soon as possible.

Usually, people chant Buddhist names and signs, release life, etc.

4. It is recommended that you and your child's family start to be vegetarian. Eating vegetarian food is a good way to keep your heart clean and get rid of sin.

Zhuge Changqing wishes our people happiness and national rejuvenation!

Bless all children in the world to be healthy, happy, intelligent, and become the backbone of China's future talents.

(Text: Zhuge Changqing. Picture: selected from the network)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to work with like-minded people in the world to "inherit traditional Chinese culture, promote good morality, revitalize China, and benefit the society".

 佛说，一切都是因果。因果问题，还是要从因果上来解决。

 ----- 诸葛长青

中国文化，博大精深。

国学儒释道，是中国文化的三大支柱。

儒家提倡忠孝仁义，“行善积德，必有福报”。

道家提倡道德清净，“上天无亲，常与善人”。

佛家提倡脱离苦海，“诸恶莫作，众善奉行”。

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老子说，一生二，二生三，三生万物。

今天的中国人，要从中国文化大海中汲取智慧。

诸葛长青认为，不论何时，当你遇到问题，都可以向儒释道寻求答案。

有了中国文化做根基，持续忏悔罪业，行善积德，一切都会心想事成。

孩子，是父母心中的宝贝。

孩子，更是国家的未来和希望。

诸葛长青研究国学传统文化认为，做父母的，除了为孩子提供保护和成长环境，最重要的是要多为孩子行善积德，为他们积累福报。

最近，一位孩子的父母遇到一个棘手问题。

她的孩子得了抑郁症，不想上学，老怀疑老师和同学们要伤害她。

这是为什么呢？

抑郁症，原因很多。

究其根本，还要从因果分析说起。

这位孩子的母亲说道：

诸葛长青老师好！感恩老师法布施！请问老师青少年抑郁应该怎么做？初中要上初三了，觉得什么都不好，抱着手机以死要胁家长要给办休学。实在是无办法了，很多朋友提出的建议方法也都用了，都不管用，她总怀疑同学都骂她、害她、指责她，怎么办？ 感恩老师指点！

诸葛长青老师用国学智慧进行分析解答。

阿弥陀佛。得了抑郁症，可以慢慢治好，别着急。

诸葛长青老师看了你孩子抑郁症情况。对你的情况解答如下：

一、为什么出现抑郁症

诸葛长青认为，每个人的累世因果不同，孩子出现抑郁症的情况也不同。

你孩子出现抑郁症，主要有三个原因。

1.父母自身有过错。诸葛长青认为：父亲是天，母亲是地，中间是孩子。如果父母有过错罪业，就会影响孩子成长。就好像如果天地阴暗，树木难以成长，同样如果父母有过错，那么孩子是要受到障碍的。很多抑郁症，与父母有关。

你们要反思作为父母，你们自己有什么过错。譬如反思自己有没有杀生、不孝父母、堕胎、邪淫等过错。

2.孩子的冤亲债主、附体众生、有缘众生、累世宗亲、历代祖先等讨债。诸葛长青认为，每个人的成长、是否幸福，与孩子累世、此生罪业大小有关系。罪业大的，债主就多，债主多了就会干扰孩子。还有一些有缘众生、累世宗亲、历代祖先等也会因为各种因缘产生阻挠。诸葛长青认为，这是抑郁症的重要原因。

3.孩子学校、孩子的老师同学的债主、众生等和你孩子的债主产生矛盾。孩子去学校，会遇到各类机缘，有的学生债主会和你孩子债主产生矛盾、有的学生债主需要超度等。这也是你孩子抑郁症、产生种种幻想的原因。

二、解决孩子抑郁症的解决方法

诸葛长青老师认为，解铃还须系铃人。

佛祖释迦牟尼佛说，人生一切都是因果。还是要从因果上解决。

诸葛长青老师有一首改命运的歌曲《幸福12345》，将来有时间，你可以搜索这首歌曲听一听。 

你们要针对做好忏悔化解和功德回向，孩子慢慢就好了。

诸葛长青建议你可以这样做：

1.忏悔自己罪业。对照老师提醒的类似问题，如果有，就忏悔回向。

2.代替孩子忏悔。向孩子有忧郁症的冤亲债主等忏悔，并做放生、念诵、施食等功德回向。回向孩子得忧郁症的冤亲债主等离苦得乐、离开超生；回向孩子玩手机不上学的冤亲债主等离苦得乐离开超生。

诸葛长青建议你可以这样忏悔。

你可以找一个干净房间，双膝下跪，双手合十说：

南无阿弥陀佛、南无观世音菩萨、南无地藏王菩萨、南无十方三世诸佛菩萨。

福生无量天尊、太上老君、太乙救苦天尊，三界十方一切神仙；

耶稣、圣母玛利亚；穆罕默德、安拉；三界十方一切神仙：

我孩子***得忧郁症、不爱上学的各位冤亲债主、附体众生、有缘众生、累世宗亲、历代祖先等你们好，我是孩子的妈妈，今天我替孩子向你们忏悔，请你们原谅我的孩子，也请你们放心，我会做放生、施食、念诵等功德回向你们离苦得乐、离开超生。

累劫以来，我孩子***可能做过很多对不起你们的事情，可能杀害过你们、伤害过你们，请你们原谅。请你们放心，我会做放生、施食、念诵等功德回向你们离苦得乐、离开超生。谢谢你们。

（诸葛长青：每天早中晚忏悔30分钟，然后做施食、念佛号道号回向）

3.解决孩子和学校同学老师债主问题。这个问题怎么做呢？诸葛长青建议你可以这样做：

第一步：对着孩子学校方向说两句话：

第一句：孩子***所在学校南赡部洲**省**市**学校的各位神仙、众生你们好，我是***的妈妈，首先我保证不干扰你们的因果，请你们放心，也请你们不要干扰我的孩子，谢谢；如果你们需要超度，别着急，你们可以参加我的施食接受超度。我以后会持续做施食（施食方法参考诸葛长青老师施食仪轨），会召请需要超度的参加施食。谢谢你们。（连说5-10遍）。

第二句：孩子***所在班级南赡部洲**省**市**学校初三**班以及和孩子关系不好的各位老师和同学身上的各位冤亲债主等你们好，我是***的妈妈，我绝对不干扰你们因果，请你们放心，如果你们需要超度，可以参加我的施食接受超度。谢谢你们。（连说5-10遍）。

连说10天，10天后认真做施食召请超度就可以了。

第二步：学会做施食等功德回向。施食召请你、你配偶、你孩子身上以及你孩子得忧郁症不想上学的各位冤亲债主、附体众生、有缘众生、累世宗亲、历代祖先、堕胎婴灵、孤魂野鬼等参加本次施食；召请孩子***所在学校南赡部洲**省**市**学校需要超度的有缘众生参加本次施食；召请孩子***所在班级南赡部洲**省**市**学校初三**班、以及和孩子关系不好的各位老师和同学身上的各位冤亲债主等参加本次施食。最后逐一回向他们离苦得乐、离开超生。回向孩子早日恢复健康，早日回学校上学。

平时多念诵佛号道号、放生等回向。

4、建议你和孩子家人开始吃素。吃素，是保持内心清净、去掉罪业的好方法。

诸葛长青祝福我们国家人民幸福、民族复兴！

祝福天下所有孩子们健康快乐、智慧超群，成为中国未来栋梁人才。

（文字：诸葛长青。图片：选自网络）

诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“传承国学、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福社会”。

 (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

 （本文是诸葛长青原创文章，图片选自网络。欢迎转发，转发引用请注明出处）

诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

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