Children's education question: what to do with children's irritability

 子女教育疑问：孩子脾气暴躁怎么办

Three things are very important for children's education, that is, filial piety to parents and elders, good deeds and moral integrity, and continuous vegetarian diet.

----Zhuge Changqing

Nanwu Master Sakyamuni Buddha.

Namo Amitabha.

Nanwuliang Weide is free and bright.

Nanwudi Tibetan King Bodhisattva. Nanwukong hides Bodhisattva.

Blessed life is limitless. Lord Lao Zi.

Confucius, the sage.

Children are the hope of parents, and children are the future of the motherland.

It is very important to do a good job in children's education.

How to educate children?

Zhuge Changqing believes that children's education is important in three aspects:

One is to advocate children to respect their parents and elders. In this regard, parents should set a good example. Zhuge Changqing suggested that parents should let their children see their grandparents, grandparents and so on who are filial to their children. The parents demonstrated by themselves, and the children will have no problem.

The second is to encourage children to do good and accumulate virtue. Zhuge Changqing's research found that all successful people in ancient and modern times, without exception, do good deeds and accumulate virtue. Conditionally, children should learn Chinese classics, Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism. Most of those who have made great achievements are Buddhists, Taoists and Confucians. Confucianists who are famous all over the world and all over the country learn Buddhism and Taoism, such as King Wen of Zhou, Jiang Taigong, Confucius, Zhuge Liang, Li Shimin, Li Bai, Su Dongpo, Genghis Khan, Zhu Yuanzhang, Zhao Kuangyin, Shunzhi, Kangxi, Yongzheng, Qianlong, Lin Zexu, Mao Zedong, Zhou Enlai, etc.

Third, we should encourage children to be vegetarian. Vegetarian children are healthier and smarter. Zhuge Changqing suggested that you analyze and see that most of the families who passed the first prize and the Jinshi examinations in ancient and modern times were vegetarian families. Also, since ancient times, beautiful and handsome men were born in beautiful places, and they are vegetarian.

Of course, in the process of children's growth, problems affecting children's growth may arise due to the influence of repeated crimes or family crimes, such as loneliness, loneliness, depression, disobedience, treason, irritability, quarrel, etc.

How to solve these problems?

Zhuge Changqing believed that in addition to doing well in traditional education and psychological counseling, he could return to the enemies and creditors who suffered from these symptoms by giving food, releasing life, chanting Buddhist scriptures, and printing scriptures.

Recently, the "Buddhist Road" lady also encountered this problem.

She left a message to Zhuge Changqing:

Dear Zhuge Changqing, Happy New Year!

Namo Amitabha! Recently, the son of a student has become very irascible and likes to beat others. What's the matter? Also, as long as our adults don't meet his wishes, the children will cry and make noise.

What's the matter, please? How to solve it? amitabha.

Mr. Zhuge Changqing's answer is as follows:

amitabha.

take it easy.

From your child's situation, there are two reasons:

One is that the child has a creditor and needs to repent, communicate and return to excess. They remind children of excesses by playing and crying. You can do this:

1. You call the children who are irascible, like to hit others, and are distressed, all the friends and creditors, and all the sentient beings to participate in the feeding and return.

2. Return the merits and virtues of chanting, releasing and printing scriptures to children.

3. Repent instead of children.

Second, there are "crazy demons" and "often sad demons" on the children who need to communicate and send them away. Sakyamuni Buddha, the merciless Buddha, saw the suffering of the world and analyzed the reasons for people's frequent problems in Shurangama Sutra. Among them, two demons were mentioned in the fifty evil devils - "madness" and "constant worry". Your child has these two kinds of negative energy due to the accumulation of karma and other reasons. They disturb the child to have the symptoms of beating, crying and making noise.

Children are arrogant, arrogant, and contradict their parents. Generally, they are "crazy";

Children cry and feel depressed. Generally, they have "often sad demons";

Zhuge Changqing believes that children should communicate with each other whether they have magic or not.

amitabha. They are also compassionate. As long as they communicate sincerely, they will continue to leave. Don't worry, just confess and send them away.

You can communicate like this:

Amitabha (10-20 times). Blessed life is limitless (10-20 times).

Hello, my child * * has done something wrong to you for many years. Please forgive him and leave, will you? Thank you (3 to 10 times in a row). They left. It can be done for 3 consecutive days.

amitabha. Blessed life is limitless.

Confidence and perseverance will bring good results. come on.

子女教育三件事很重要，即是：孝敬父母长辈、行善积德、持续吃素。

---- 诸葛长青

   南无本师释迦牟尼佛。

  南无阿弥陀佛。

  南无无量威德自在光明如来。

  南无地藏王菩萨。南无虚空藏菩萨。

  福生无量天尊。太上老君。

  圣人孔子。

  子女是父母的希望，子女是祖国的未来。

  抓好子女教育，十分重要。

  如何教育子女呢？

  诸葛长青认为子女教育三点很重要：

  一是倡导孩子孝敬父母长辈。这方面，做父母的要做好榜样、以身示范。诸葛长青建议做父母的要让孩子看到自己孝敬孩子的爷爷、奶奶，外公外婆等，父母以身示范了，孩子自然没问题。

  二是倡导孩子行善积德。诸葛长青研究发现，所有古今成功者，无一例外都是行善积德的。有条件的要让孩子学习国学经典，学习佛法道法儒法。有大成就者多是学佛、学道、学儒家。儒家出身闻名世界、闻名全国的都学习佛法、道法，譬如周文王、姜太公、孔子、诸葛亮、李世民、李白、苏东坡、成吉思汗、朱元璋、赵匡胤、顺治、康熙、雍正、乾隆、林则徐、毛泽东、周恩来等。

  三是倡导孩子吃素。吃素的孩子更健康、更聪明。诸葛长青建议大家分析一下，看看古今那些考上状元、考上进士的多是吃素的家庭。还有，自古美女帅哥，都是出生在山清水秀的地方，他们都是吃素的......。

  当然呢，在孩子成长过程中，由于累世罪业或者家族罪业影响等，会出现影响孩子成长的问题，表现为：寂寞、孤独、忧郁、不听话、叛逆、脾气暴躁、吵架等等。

  这些情况如何解决呢？

  诸葛长青认为，除了搞好传统教育、心理疏导之外，可以通过做施食、放生、念诵佛号佛经、印经书等功德，回向超度孩子出现这些症状的冤亲债主等。

  最近，“学佛路上”女士也遇到这个问题。

  她给诸葛长青老师留言说：

   尊敬的诸葛长青老师，新年好！

  南无阿弥陀佛！最近，学生的儿子脾气变得很暴躁，很爱打人，怎么回事呢？还有，只要我们大人一不符合他的意思，孩子就又哭又闹的。

  请问这是怎么回事？如何解决？阿弥陀佛。

  诸葛长青老师解答如下：
  阿弥陀佛。
  别着急。

  从你孩子情况看有两个原因：

   一是孩子身上有债主，需要忏悔沟通回向超度。他们在孩子身上，通过打闹、哭泣等来提醒超度。具体可以这样做：

   1、你施食召请孩子脾气暴躁的、喜欢打人、苦恼的各位冤亲债主、有缘众生参加施食并回向。

   2、把念诵、放生、印经书等功德回向孩子。

   3、代替孩子忏悔。
   二是孩子身上有“狂魔”、“常忧愁魔”需要沟通送走。无量慈悲的佛祖释迦牟尼佛看到世人苦恼，在楞严经中分析了人们经常出现问题的原因，其中在五十阴魔中提到了两个魔---“狂魔”、“常忧愁魔”。你孩子由于累世业力等原因，身上出现这两种负能量。他们扰动孩子出现打人、又哭又闹的征症状。

   孩子狂妄、骄傲自大、顶撞父母，一般都有“狂魔”；

   孩子哭闹、内心郁闷，一般都有“常忧愁魔”；

    诸葛长青认为，孩子有这些情况，不论是否有魔，都沟通一下。

   阿弥陀佛。他们也是有慈悲心的，只要真诚沟通，他们都会接着离开的。不要着急，忏悔沟通送他们走就可以。
   你可以这样沟通说：

   阿弥陀佛（10-20遍）。福生无量天尊（10-20遍）。

   孩子***身上的“狂魔”、“常忧愁魔”等魔王你们好，我的孩子累世做过对不起你们的事情，请你们原谅他，请你们离开好吗？谢谢（连说3遍--10遍）。他们就离开了。可以连续做3天。
   阿弥陀佛。福生无量天尊。

     坚定信心、持之以恒，必有福报。加油。

 (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

  诸葛长青中国梦  

学习圣贤 弘扬善德

振兴中华 造福世界

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