Cultivation question: how to eliminate your attachment

修行疑问：如何消除自己的情执

amitabha. Eliminating attachment is the key to a rapid leap in practice.

-----Zhuge Changqing

amitabha.

If you want to practice quickly and see results, you need to be clean inside.

Abstaining from killing, releasing and letting go of attachment are the driving forces to promote practice.

On the way to practice, many people encounter a problem, that is, they can't put down their attachment.

Zhuge Changqing believed that it is inevitable to fall in love and get married when practicing in the secular world. These are normal feelings and have no fault. But in old age, if you want to be diligent and become a Buddha, you should learn to take it lightly. Don't always focus on it. If you focus too much on it, you can't go beyond it.

After many people die, they can't be taken away because of their serious emotional attachment (excessive emotional attention to their families).

If you are too persistent, you will be unable to extricate yourself.

amitabha. Blessed life is limitless.

On the way to practice, how to break the attachment? The emotional training of Chuang Tzu, Donghua Shangxian, Tang Monk and Zhu Bajie is an example worth studying.

Recently, "Bodhi Road", a predestined person who learns to give food to Buddha, wrote to Zhuge Changqing to ask how to eliminate attachment.

Zhuge Changqing shares the following with the answer:

Hello, Mr. Zhuge Changqing

amitabha.

Excuse me, teacher. I have serious feelings. How can I eliminate them?

amitabha.

Those who are destined to learn Buddhism: Bodhi Road

Mr. Zhuge Changqing's answer is as follows:

amitabha. If you are motivated, you will be rewarded in the future.

How to eliminate your attachment?

Mr. Zhuge Changqing suggested that you can use the "story learning method" and the "story learning method".

After reading these "three stories", if you meditate again, you will gradually eliminate the "attachment".

First, read the story of "Chuang Tzu and his wife".

You search the story of Chuang Tzu and his wife. After reading it, you will think about the feelings of life; Life is short, what is emotion? What is love? How can Chuang Tzu see through love attachment?

When reading a story, you can change roles: if you are a man, you can think of yourself as a "man Chuang Tzu"; If you are a woman, you should think of yourself as a "woman Chuang Tzu".

Zhuge Changqing believes that when you read it, you will instantly have a thorough understanding of life's emotions.

The second is to watch "Journey to the East", and see how the immortals of Donghua and the peony fairy break the story of love.

One is a handsome man -- Donghua Shangxian.

One is the beauty - the peony fairy.

Handsome men, beautiful women, affectionate and intimate, how to eliminate attachment? How to break the emotional shackles inside?

Zhuge Changqing believes that after reading the stories of the immortals of Donghua and the peony fairy in the Journey to the East, you will get a lot of great wisdom in life. This is the Donghua Immortal and the Peony Immortal's personal expression, so that people can learn how to break the impassive attachment.

Third, look at Journey to the West, see how Tang Monk broke his impassive attachment, and see the story of Zhu Bajie in emotional entanglement.

Journey to the West contains a lot of life wisdom.

Zhuge Changqing believed that Tang Monk and Zhu Bajie personally demonstrated how to break the impassive attachment.

You will understand after reading. Be confident and persevere.

If you do this, you can slowly break your attachment.

The fourth is to act in a three-dimensional way and cut off the attachment.

amitabha.

Why is there love attachment? Love attachment=love robbery.

How to cut off love?

Zhuge Changqing gives the following analysis and suggestions to those who are destined:

1. Why is there love robbery? Zhuge Changqing believed that love disaster=love predestination. It's all fate. For example, if you have been classmates, superiors and subordinates, comrades-in-arms, friends, husbands and wives for many years, you will have familiar feelings in this life.

2. Do meritorious deeds. Return to do a good job of the teacher's "repentance, feeding, release, chanting, vegetarian" and other five-in-one return to cut off love.

3. Adhere to positive progress. Zhuge Changqing suggested that you should read more positive energy Buddhist materials and books, listen to the Dharma Master's lectures and so on, so that you can make progress.

By doing so, we can solve the love crisis.

come on.

amitabha. Be confident and persevere.

 
阿弥陀佛。消除情执，是快速修行飞跃的关键。

----- 诸葛长青

   阿弥陀佛。

   要快速修行见效果，就要内心清净。

   戒杀放生、放下情执，是促进修行的动力。

   修行路上，很多人遇到一个问题，就是无法放下情执。

   诸葛长青认为，在俗世修行，不可避免谈恋爱、结婚等，这些属于正常的感情，没有过错。只是到了年老的时候，要精进成佛，就要学会看的淡一些，不要总是放在心上，过多放在心上，就无法超度离开。

   很多人去世后，因为情执过于严重（对家人的过度感情关注），导致无法被超度走。

   如果过分执著，就会无法自拔。

     阿弥陀佛。福生无量天尊。

   修行路上，如何破除情执？庄子、东华上仙、唐僧、猪八戒的感情磨练，是值得学习研究的榜样。

   最近，学佛施食有缘者“菩提路上”，给诸葛长青老师写信，询问，如何消除情执。

    诸葛长青连同解答一起分享如下：

诸葛长青老师您好：

   阿弥陀佛。

   请问老师您好，自己情执很严重，如何消除情执？

   阿弥陀佛。

                                      学佛有缘者：菩提路上

诸葛长青老师解答如下：

   阿弥陀佛。你有精进心，未来必有果报。

   如何消除自己的情执？

   诸葛长青老师建议你可以用“故事借鉴法”，通过故事借鉴法。

   看完这“三个故事”，你再静心思考，就会慢慢消除“情执”。

    一是看“庄子和妻子”故事。

   你搜索庄子和妻子的故事。看了后你会对人生感情引起思考；人生短暂，情感是什么？爱情是什么？庄子如何看破情执？

     阅读故事时候，可以进行角色转换：如果你是男的，你就把自己看做“男庄子”；如果你是女的，你就把自己看做是“女庄子”的.......。

   诸葛长青认为，当你看了之后，你会瞬间对人生情感有彻底认识。

   二是看《东游记》，看看东华上仙和牡丹仙子如何断绝情执故事。

   一个是帅哥--东华上仙。

    一个是美女---牡丹仙子。

   帅哥、美女，柔情密意，如何消除情执？如何打破内心的情感枷锁？

   诸葛长青认为，看了东游记中，东华上仙和牡丹仙子故事后，你会从中得到很多人生大智慧。这是东华上仙和牡丹仙子亲自表法，让人们从中学到如何断绝情执。      

   三是看《西游记》，看看唐僧如何断绝情执、看看猪八戒在情感纠缠中的故事。

   西游记，包含了许多人生智慧。

   诸葛长青认为，唐僧和猪八戒亲自表法如何断绝情执。

   看了后就会明白。坚定信心持之以恒，加油。

   你做到这些就可以让你慢慢断绝情执。

   四是立体行动，斩断情执。

        阿弥陀佛。
   为何会有情执？情执 = 情劫。

   如何斩断情劫？

    诸葛长青给有缘者分析建议如下：
   1、为何有情劫？诸葛长青认为，情劫 = 累世情缘。都是累世的缘分。譬如累世做过同学、上下级、战友、朋友、夫妻等等，此生就会有熟悉的情执。
   2、做功德回向。回向做好老师的“忏悔、施食、放生、念诵、吃素”等五合一等回向斩断情缘。
   3、坚持正精进。诸葛长青建议大家持之以恒的多看正能量佛学资料书籍、听法师讲经等，使自己正精进。
   如此做，可以化解情劫了。
   加油。

    阿弥陀佛。坚定信心持之以恒，加油。

(This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

  诸葛长青中国梦  

学习圣贤 弘扬善德

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