"Disciple Regulation" educates children: you should set an example for children

《弟子规》教育子女：你要为子女做榜样

How to make children obedient and filial? The most important thing is that parents should set a good example by themselves.

---Zhuge Changqing

Disciple Regulation is a very good classic.

This classic tells the truth of happiness in life and the foundation of success.

How to be a person and regulate yourself? Disciple Regulation is a good textbook.

How to make children filial? Parents should take the lead.

When parents achieve filial piety - "When parents teach, they must listen respectfully; when parents are responsible, they must obey".

Then your child will be filial to you.

When our parents teach us, we should accept and review respectfully.

Zhuge Changqing saw the video of Cai Lixu explaining the contents of Disciple Rules very well. You can take a closer look at it to further understand life and move towards a happy life.

Teacher Cai Lixu is an expert in studying disciple rules, and is worth studying.

Cai Lixu said that today's parents should take the lead in setting an example for their children, which is really worth learning-----

"When parents teach, they must listen respectfully; when parents are responsible, they must obey".

When our parents teach us, we should respectfully accept and respectfully review whether our children have this attitude?

Now it's called "one word and nine tops". How many words does he top?

I once chatted with some teachers. I said that children now seem to talk back when they are seven or eight years old. They said that they would not be seven or eight years old, but three or four years old.

So we should be cautious about these things and set a good example for ourselves;

If you don't want your parents to talk about you, you will fight with him. When you contradict, you don't find that your child is studying beside you. How you treat your parents, your children will treat you.

Zhuge Changqing: According to Sakyamuni Buddha's theory of "karma", if you contradict your parents yourself, your child will certainly contradict you. If you don't believe it, just look around. If the children are unfilial and disobedient, are their parents filial? Do you contradict your parents? Study carefully.

Why don't we talk back when our parents teach us?

From our parents' point of view, when he scolds us, his mood is higher. When his mood is higher, you return to him, the more angry he is, the worse the situation is.

So when our parents are training us, we must listen respectfully.

Zhuge Changqing: Why should we make our parents happy? Why should we tolerate our parents? Because when your parents are angry with you and you contradict, your parents will be angry and sick. Many parents are dizzy by their children. So remember, filial piety is to make parents happy and healthy.

Recommend those who have a chance to search for the video of Mr. Cai Lixu's lecture. The video version is very good.

如何让子女听话孝顺？最关键的是父母要自己做好榜样。

--- 诸葛长青

  《弟子规》，是非常好的一本经典。

  这本经典，说出了人生幸福的真相，说出了成功的基础。

  如何做人，如何规范自己？《弟子规》就是很好的教材。

  如何让子女孝顺？父母要自己带头。

  当父母做到了孝顺---“父母教，须敬听；父母责，须顺承”。

  那么你的孩子肯定会孝顺你。

  父母在教诲我们的时候，我们要恭敬的接受，恭敬的检讨。

  诸葛长青看到蔡礼旭老师讲解《弟子规》内容的视频很好，大家可以仔细看看，进一步理解人生，进一步走向幸福人生。

  蔡礼旭老师是研究弟子规的专家，值得好好学习。

  蔡礼旭讲到现在的父母要带头给孩子做榜样，真是值得学习-----

   “父母教，须敬听；父母责，须顺承”。

  父母在教诲我们的时候，我们要恭敬的接受，恭敬的检讨现在的孩子有没有这种态度？

  现在叫“一言九顶”，讲一句他顶几句？

  我有一次跟一些老师聊天，我说现在孩子好像七、八岁就会顶嘴了，他们说哪还要七、八岁，三、四岁就会了。

  所以这些我们要谨慎对待，自己要先当好榜样；

  你不要父母讲你两句，你就跟他斗起嘴来了，你顶撞的时候，你却没发现，你的小孩就在你的旁边学习。你如何对待你的父母，你的孩子就会如何对待你。

  诸葛长青：根据佛祖释迦牟尼佛“因果报应”理论，凡是自己顶撞父母的，你的孩子肯定顶撞你。不信，你就看看周围，那些子女不孝不听话的，他的父母是否做到了孝顺？是否顶撞父母？仔细研究一下......。

  为什么父母教的时候我们不要去顶嘴？

  我们站在父母的角度来看，当他在训斥我们的时候，情绪比较高涨，当情绪比较高涨，你又回他的嘴，他火气愈大，情况愈糟。

  所以父母在训我们的时候，我们必须恭恭敬敬听。

  诸葛长青：为什么要让父母开心？为什么要忍让父母？因为当父母对你发火，你顶撞了，父母就会气出病来。很多父母是被子女气晕的。所以记住，孝顺父母是让父母开心快乐，健康长寿啊。

  推荐有缘者搜索看看蔡礼旭老师的讲座视频。视频版本非常好。

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