The Analects of Confucius said that wisdom in life: be cautious in making friends in life

论语说人生智慧：人生交朋友要谨慎

On the journey of life, you should make good friends. How to choose to influence your life.

-----Zhuge Changqing

You become who you spend your time with.

What kind of friends you make will produce what kind of results.

The number of good and evil, quality and morality of a person will produce aura and affect the people around him.

A philosopher said: A true friend is a soul conceived in two bodies.

Confucius, the supreme sage of Dacheng, always earnestly teaches his disciples to be careful when making friends.

Zhuge Changqing believes that it is important to choose friends; Good friends with the same ideals can achieve great things; Friends with the same hobbies can promote career; Throughout ancient and modern times, we can find that life contacts and friends have a great impact on life. Cheerful, optimistic, philanthropic, helpful and positive people are good friends who can encourage each other and work together.

For friends, there are also many famous sayings:

For example, it is enough to have a knowledge in life, and the world should regard it with the same mind. A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs. A big man is a hero in the world. The most important thing in life is to know one another. The water in the Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun's love

Looking at history, many people succeed with the help of good friends, and some fail with bad friends.

How does Confucius evaluate making friends?

One day, a disciple visited Confucius: Teacher, I want to make more friends, can I?

Confucius said: Yes. People need friends, otherwise they will "learn alone without friends, and be lonely and ignorant". However, be careful when making friends. Good friends will promote you and bad friends will degrade you.

Confucius explained in detail that friends are divided into beneficial and harmful.

There are three kinds of useful friends and three kinds of harmful ones.

It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people, and knowledgeable people.

It is harmful to make friends with people who are accustomed to evil ways, with people who are good at flattery, and with people who are accustomed to rhetoric.

The disciple said: Thank you, teacher. I see.

Later, these words were recorded by the disciples in the Analects of Confucius.

人生旅途上，要结交益友，如何选择影响人生啊。

----- 诸葛长青

   近朱者赤、近墨者黑。

    你结交什么朋友，就会产生什么样的结果。

　 一个人善恶多少、素质高低、道德高低，会产生气场，影响周围的人。

   一位哲人说：真正的朋友，是一个灵魂孕育在两个躯体里。
   大成至圣先师圣人孔子，总是谆谆教导弟子，交朋友要谨慎。

  诸葛长青认为，选择朋友很重要；志同道合的好朋友，可以成就大事业；爱好相同的朋友可以促进事业；遍览古今，可以发现人生交往，朋友对人生影响十分巨大的。开朗乐观、乐善好施、助人为乐、积极向上的人属于益友，可以相互鼓励、团结奋进。

   对于朋友，也有很多名言：

   譬如：人生得一知已足矣，斯世当以同怀视之。一个篱笆三个桩，一个好汉三个帮。大丈夫处世，当交四海英雄。人生所贵在知已，四海相逢骨肉亲。桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情.......

   看古今历史，很多人成功在好朋友帮助，有的人失败在坏朋友身上。

    对于交朋友，儒家思想孔子是如何评价的呢？

   一天，一位弟子拜见孔子：老师，我想多交朋友，可以吗？

   孔子说：可以的啊。人需要朋友，否则就会“独学而无友，则孤陋而寡闻”。但是，交朋友要谨慎，好朋友会促进你、坏朋友会堕落你。

   孔子详细解释说：朋友分为有益、有害两种。

   有益的交友有三种，有害的交友有三种。

   同正直的人交友、同诚信的人交友、同见闻广博的人交友，这是有益的。

   同惯于走邪道的人交朋友、同善于阿谀奉承的人交朋友，同惯于花言巧语的人交朋友，这是有害的。

   弟子说：谢谢老师。我懂了。

   后来这些话，就被弟子们记录在《论语》中。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

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学习圣贤 弘扬善德

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