Vegetarian Q&A: How to force children to eat meat

素食问答：家人逼迫孩子吃肉怎么办

Vegetarian diet, long life and health, good health, good skin, good memory, and fragrant body.

-----Zhuge Changqing

Nanwu Master Sakyamuni Buddha. Namo Amitabha. Blessed life is limitless.

Eating vegetarian food is good for your health. Eating more grains is good for your health.

According to research, one of the secrets of the long-lived elderly in China is to eat more grains and vegetables.

Zhuge Changqing believes that if you want to live long and healthy, you should eat more vegetarian food.

How to be vegetarian? How to avoid other people talking about you and other problems? Those who have a chance can read the vegetarian article album of Zhuge Changqing's Sina blog:

Zhuge Changqing Vegetarian Culture Album: http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/articlelist_1239807711_12_1.html

Of course, some predestined people also have a situation. They had a good meal, but their family forced them to eat meat and drink broth, which was very helpless.

What shall I do? The following is Mr. Zhuge Changqing's answer to a questioner.

Hello, Zhuge Changqing!

My son is now five months old and has been a vegetarian since he was pregnant.

My son is very cute, very smart and likes to laugh. He will be happy to see everyone.

Because I am the only one in my family who is vegetarian, they can't understand. Although they have always asked me to eat meat, I always said that I can't eat because of the pregnancy reaction. Until now, he has been vegetarian, and his son who drinks breast milk is also vegetarian.

My son has now started to eat complementary food, and his family will now give him broth and fish soup.

I really don't want my son to eat meat. What should I do?

I have been giving food for nearly three months. Every time, I return to my family to cut off evil and cultivate good, to abstain from killing and vegetarian, and to copy the Sangha Sutra.

The family worried that their son's nutrition could not keep up with them. Today, they went to have bone mineral density test, blood routine test and trace element test. The results were normal, but the average values of iron and zinc were slightly lower. As soon as my husband went to the doctor, he said that I was a vegetarian and came to check whether my body was normal. As a result, the doctor said that not eating meat would lead to poor development of children, and there would be problems with intelligence in the future.

Now what if my husband insists on eating meat for his son? Please give me some advice! thank you!

A person who is destined to learn Buddhism

Teacher Zhuge Changqing replied:

Amitabha, you have done very well.

People like you who are diligent and continue to be vegetarian will have great rewards.

Of course, in real life, in the face of many misunderstanders in the family, sometimes we have to improvise.

The teacher suggested that we should stick to vegetarian diet.

1. It's good to be vegetarian. You are vegetarian during pregnancy and your son is smart and lovely after birth, which proves the benefits of being vegetarian. Try to persuade your family that it is better not to eat fish and meat with hormones.

2. The current inspection standard is not absolute. Some medical experts pointed out that the examination data is only a standard, not absolute, but for reference. For example, for the same people, there are 2 meters high and 1.1 meters short. Can you use a numerical standard? Medical experts pointed out that the current medicine is a reference, and did not say what must be done. According to the survey, children who especially like meat often doze off in class and are not responsive. Looking at the society, which of the adults who eat meat today is not high blood fat, high blood sugar, irritable temper and indigestion?

3. It is useful to keep returning to their vegetarian diet although the effect is slow. You should continue to return to your family and support your child to be vegetarian.

4. Invite creditors who love fish, meat and meat to join the charity. Invite all the creditors of the enemy who let their families force their children to eat meat, fish and meat to participate in the charity. Promote the drive to be vegetarian and promote the family to be vegetarian. Then return to these creditors to get rid of hardship and happiness, and immediately go up, return to their families to eat more grains and vegetables, and return to their families not to force their children to eat meat. (Copy scriptures, release life, and add these returns)

5. You can print out the celebrity list of vegetarians and the benefits of vegetarianism, and let your family have a look at them. Look at those celebrities and athletes. They are all good vegetarians and do not lack nutrition at all. Tell them again and again.

6. If your family is strongly opposed, you should also adapt to the circumstances and adopt the way of "first adapt - continue to return - slowly persuade - then return to vegetarianism". If you can't stand it, you can't fight with your family. You can only step back and control the amount of meat your children eat. Then you go back to your family and continue to explain the benefits of vegetarianism at ordinary times. When your family changes slowly, you can let your child go back to vegetarianism.

Amitabha, this is the world. Everywhere is a training place.

Sometimes it can only be changed step by step.

Be confident and persevere.

素食，长寿健康，身体好、皮肤好、记忆力好、身体有香味......。

----- 诸葛长青

    南无本师释迦牟尼佛。南无阿弥陀佛。福生无量天尊。

    吃素，身体好，多吃五谷杂粮身体棒。

    据研究显示，我国长寿老人的秘诀之一，就是多吃五谷杂粮、素食青菜。

    诸葛长青认为，如果你为了长寿，健康，那就多吃素食吧。

     如何吃素？如何避免别人说你等问题，有缘者可以多看诸葛长青老师新浪博客的素食文章专辑：

    诸葛长青素食文化专辑：http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/articlelist_1239807711_12_1.html

   当然，有些有缘者也出现一种情况，本来自己吃的好好的，但是家人强迫自己吃肉喝肉汤，很无奈。

   怎么办呢？以下是诸葛长青老师对一位疑问者的解答。

诸葛长青老师您好！

   我儿子现在有五个月了，怀孕时一直是吃素。

   我儿子很可爱，很有灵气很喜欢笑，见到谁都会开心。

   由于家里就我一个人吃素，他们都不可理解。虽然他们一直要求我吃肉，我都说妊娠反应很大不能吃。一直到现在都是吃素，儿子是喝母乳的也等于是素食。

   儿子现在已经开始吃辅食了，家里人现在都要给他喝肉汤和鱼汤。

   我真不想让儿子吃肉，怎么办？

   我施食已经快个三个月了，每次都有回向给家人断恶修善，戒杀吃素，也在抄写僧伽吒经也都有这样回向。

   家人担心儿子营养跟不上，今天去做骨密度检查、血常规和微量元素的检查，结果都很正常，就稍有点铁和锌平均值偏低。老公一去到医生那就说我是吃素，过来检查身体是否正常，结果医生就说不吃肉会导致小孩的发育怎么不好，以后智力会有问题等等。

   现在老公执意要给儿子吃肉怎么办啊？麻烦老师指点！谢谢！

                                一位学佛有缘者

诸葛长青老师解答说：

   阿弥陀佛，你做的很好。

   像你这样精进、持续吃素的人，必有极大福报。

   当然，现实生活中，面对家人众多误解者，有时候只能随机应变了。

   老师建议，最好坚持吃素食啊。

   1、吃素是很好的。你怀孕期间吃素，儿子出生后又聪明可爱，就是证明吃素的好处。尽量说服家人，现在的鱼、肉有激素等尽量不吃为好等。 

    2、现在的检查标准，并不就是绝对的。有医学专家指出：检查数据仅仅是一个标准，并不是绝对的，是供人参考的。譬如：同样的人，有高2米的，有矮1.1米的，你能用一个数字标准吗？医学专家指出，现在的医学是参考，没说必须如何。据调查发现，特别喜欢吃肉的孩子，上课经常打盹睡觉、反应不敏捷。再看社会，现在那些好吃肉的成年人，哪个不是血脂高、血糖高、脾气暴躁、消化不良？
  3、持续回向他们吃素虽然效果慢，但是有用的。你要持续回向家人吃素，支持你孩子吃素。
   4、施食招请加入：招请让家人爱吃鱼吃肉吃荤的债主参加施食。召请让家人强迫孩子吃肉吃鱼吃荤的所有冤亲债主，参加施食。促进吃素动力，推动全家吃素。然后回向这些债主离苦得乐、立刻超升，回向家人多吃五谷杂粮、素食青菜，回向家人不强迫孩子吃肉等。（抄经书、放生回向中，也加入这些回向） 

     5、你可以把吃素的名人名单、吃素好处等打印出来，让你家人都看看，看看那些名人、运动员，吃素的都很好，根本不缺营养，反复讲述。

   6、如果家人强烈反对，你也要随机应变，采取“先适应---继续回向---慢慢劝说---再回归吃素”的方式。如果你就是顶不住，也不能和家人激烈对抗。只能你先后退一步，平时控制孩子吃肉数量就可以。然后你继续回向家人吃素、平时持续讲解吃素的好处，打“吃素宣传持久战”。等你家人慢慢转变了，你再让孩子改回吃素。

    阿弥陀佛，世界就是这样啊。处处都是磨练人的道场啊。
   有时候只能是循序渐进、慢慢改变。

   坚定信心持之以恒，加油。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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