Education of Buddhists' Children: How to Improve Children's Achievements

学佛者子女教育：如何提高孩子成绩

Persevere and sincerely repent, do more good deeds, and all release, feeding, chanting and so on should be conscientiously returned.

-----Zhuge Changqing

If you do good deeds, accumulate virtue and persevere, you will make a leap.

Each person has different causes and effects and different induction time.

Therefore, we should have confidence and perseverance in eliminating karma, resolving creditors and changing our destiny.

Recently, some people who are destined to learn Buddhism have raised the question of how to improve their children's performance.

One of them said:

Hello, Mr. Zhuge Changqing

Teacher, I have been feeding for more than a year. I recite the Great Compassion Mantra, the six-character mantra, and the mantra every day. But the children's learning has not improved, but has become worse and worse. In the final exam, the child worked hard, but his grades were worse than any other time. He was so shocked that he didn't want to go to school. What should I do? Thank you for your reply.

On the other hand, children can't learn. They usually study well, but they can't answer the questions. It seems that they are under a spell. When they take the exam, they are either wrong here or there, or they don't get good grades. This is the last two years. Previously, children studied very well.

At the beginning of feeding, the child's performance was half better, and then worse, and the performance fell sharply, from the second or third in the class to the twenty or thirty.

A person who is destined to learn Buddhism

Zhuge Changqing's answer is as follows:

amitabha.

After reading your message, the teacher understands your mood very well. Don't worry.

Your child's situation is caused by the debt collection of the enemy creditors. It would be better to continue to repent, do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and return earnestly. You said that "children can't learn, but they can't learn at ordinary times, or they can't answer the questions, as if they have been cursed", which is the feeling that the enemy creditors come to collect debts. They are anxious to collect debts and remind them in this way. It will be good to be firm and persistent.

Zhuge Changqing suggested:

First, conduct a self-control check to see whether it conforms to the ritual and whether it returns.

1. Check whether the feeding ritual you have made conforms to the ritual? Is the feeding place clean, etc? At present, Zhuge Changqing only answers the questions that are in line with the teacher's ritual of giving food, and those that are not in line with Zhuge Changqing's ritual are inconvenient and cannot be answered. If you say that it has been a year since giving food, it has no effect. It is likely that you have not followed the ritual. In particular, you may not return to your and your child's enemy creditors.

2. Check whether you recite the Great Compassion Mantra, the six-character mantra and the Zhunti Mantra every day? Judging from your situation, you may not have done anything back. In particular, you may not return to your and your child's enemy creditors.

3. Check whether you are returning to yourself, your family and your children? In return, the giver himself must also return. Remember, give food, recite, and so on, all must return to the enemy and the creditor seriously.

4. Check whether you pass the penitence ditch every day instead of your child? Confession communication is very important. Only when you repent thoroughly can you win the forgiveness of your enemy creditors.

5. Check the children's family, have they eaten fish, meat, etc? If you eat it, you should release your life to pay off your debts. Many of the lives eaten are spiritual and should be repaid.

6. Reflect more and see what you, your family and your children have done that is not in line with the good way.

Make a comprehensive evaluation of the above six items. If the above six items are checked, you think they are qualified. Then, it means that your child has many karma and creditors, and needs to be patient to resolve and repay the debt. As long as you have firm confidence and perseverance, your child's performance will be better. If there is any unqualified place, it should be modified.

The second is to take serious actions to do good and accumulate virtue.

1. Continue to repent and communicate. Instead of your child's confession, ask the enemy creditors who block the child's learning to understand your child and support your child. You vow to give them food, recite the Great Compassion Mantra, Buddha's name, and so on. Confession communication is very important and should be carried out for a long time. See related blog posts for details.

2. Give food, recite, release, and so on. Among them, you should return to yourself and your child's enemy creditors, return to the enemy creditors who affect your child's poor exam, return to your child's careful listening in class, careful examination, good study, and so on.

3. Usually, we can release more animals and pay off the debt of killing animals and eating meat and fish.

4. Be filial to your parents, eat more vegetarian food, have a healthy attitude and study hard.

5. Encourage children to be confident and optimistic. Let children learn to relax.

6. Find out where you, your family and your children are not in line with the good way, and modify them.

Third, we should be confident and persistent.

1. Dialectically treat everyone's long-term karma and creditors.

Everyone has different karma and different feelings.

If there are few karmic creditors, the reaction will be faster. On the contrary, it will take longer.

According to the article of Supreme Sensation, there will be changes no later than three years.

Because we don't know how many karma children have suffered over the years, we need to repent more.

Teacher Zhuge Changqing saw that if there are few karmic creditors, it will be effective to release and give food several times. If there are more karmic creditors, it will be effective in half a year. If there are more karmic creditors, it will be effective in three years.

2. We should treat and understand the problem of creditors' door-to-door debt collection dialectically.

Don't complain and worry about those creditors who come to collect debts. They are poor people.

They have been killed and eaten for many years, which makes it difficult for their enemies to enter the Buddhist world, the divine world and the hell. Do you think they can not vent their hatred? The resentment should always be vented, otherwise, where can they revenge?

For example, if your child has been a general who likes to eat fish and loach for many years, he may have hurt the members of the dragon family. It's natural for them to come to collect debts, isn't it? So, be normal.

3. Have confidence and perseverance. Sincere repentance, serious feeding, serious release, return, and perseverance are all right. We should be firm and persistent.

4. Look more at the teacher's blog. There are many cases in the teacher's blog.

The above points are for your reference.

I wish you good luck and your child's success!

amitabha. Don't do any evil, and do all good. Persistence and responsiveness.

持之以恒真诚忏悔、多做善事，凡放生、施食、念诵等都要认真回向。

----- 诸葛长青

  行善积德、持之以恒，必有飞跃。

   每个人的累世因果不一样，感应时间长短也不一样。

  所以，消除业障、化解债主、改变命运方面，要有信心、有恒心。

   最近，一些学佛的有缘者，提出了如何提升子女成绩的疑问。

  其中一位有缘者说：

诸葛长青老师您好：

   老师，我施食一年多了，每天念大悲咒，六字真言，准提咒，可孩子的学习不但没有起色，反而越来越不好。这次期末考试，孩子很用功，可是成绩比任何一次都差，他倍受打击，连学也不想上了，我该怎么办？望老师在百忙中给予答复，谢谢。

  另，孩子不是学不会，平时学习还行，就是会的东西答不到卷子上，好像中了魔咒一样，考试的时候，不是这儿不对就是那儿不对，就是得不是好成绩，这是最近两年的事情，以前，孩子学习很好。

  刚开始施食的时候，孩子的成绩好了一半次，再后来就又不好了，而且成绩跌的很厉害，从班里的二、三名，直接跌到二三十名。

                一位学佛有缘者

诸葛长青解答如下：

  阿弥陀佛。

  看了你的留言，老师很理解你的心情，别着急。

  你孩子的情况是冤亲债主上门讨债所致，持续忏悔、行善积德、认真回向就好了。你说的“孩子不是学不会，平时学习还行，就是会的东西答不到卷子上，好像中了魔咒一样”，就是冤亲债主上门讨债的感应。他们着急讨债，通过这种方式提醒。坚定信心持之以恒，会很好的。

  诸葛长青建议：

  一是进行自我对照检查，看是否符合仪轨、是否回向等。

  1、检查你做的施食仪轨符合仪轨吗？施食地点干净吗等等？诸葛长青老师目前只解答符合老师施食仪轨的问题，不符合诸葛长青老师仪轨的，不方便也无法解答。如果你说施食一年了，没效果，很可能是没按照仪轨进行。尤其是你可能没有回向你和孩子的冤亲债主。

  2、检查你每天念大悲咒、六字真言、准提咒等，是否做了回向？从你的情况看，你可能没做回向的。尤其是你可能没有回向你和孩子的冤亲债主。

  3、检查回向中，是否回向了你自己、你的家人、你的孩子？回向中，施食者本人也是必须回向的。记住，施食、念诵等，都要认真回向冤亲债主的。

  4、检查是否每天都代替孩子忏悔沟通过？忏悔沟通很重要啊。忏悔透彻，才会赢得冤亲债主原谅。

  5、检查孩子家人，吃过鱼类、肉类等？如果吃过，就要放生还债。吃过的生命中很多是有灵性的，应当偿还债务的。

  6、多反思一下，看看自己、家人和孩子有哪些做得不符合善道的地方。

   对以上六条进行综合评价。如果以上六条，你经过检查，认为都是合格的。那么，就说明，你孩子的业障和债主多，需要耐心化解偿还债务。只要坚定信心持之以恒，你孩子的成绩就会变好的。如果有不合格的地方，要修改。

  二是采取认真的行善积德行动。

  1、持续忏悔沟通。代替你孩子忏悔，请求阻挠孩子学习的冤亲债主理解你孩子、支持你孩子，你发愿会施食、念大悲咒、佛号等回向给他们。忏悔沟通很重要，要长期坚持进行。具体看相关博文。

  2、施食、念诵、放生等，都要回向。其中，要回向你自己、你孩子的冤亲债主，回向影响你孩子考试考不好的冤亲债主，回向你孩子上课认真听讲，考试认真细致，学习好等等。

  3、平时可以多做放生，偿还杀生吃肉、吃鱼的债务。

  4、做到孝敬父母、多吃素食，健康心态、认真学习。

  5、多鼓励孩子，坚定信心、开朗乐观。让孩子学会放松心态。

  6、查找自己、家人、孩子不符合善道的地方，修改之。

  三是坚定信心持之以恒。

  1、辩证看待每个人的累世业障、债主。

  每个人的累世业障不一样，感应也不一样。

  业障债主少的，感应快一些，相反，就要时间长一些。

  《太上感应篇》说，最迟三年，必有改变。

  因为不知道孩子累世业障多少，所以要多做忏悔回向。

  诸葛长青老师看到，业障债主少的，放生、施食几次就有感应，业障债主较多的半年有效果，业障债主多的要三年有效果啊。

  2、要辩证的看待、理解债主上门讨债问题。

  不要埋怨、烦恼那些债主们上门讨债，他们很可怜人啊。

  他们累世被杀害、被吃掉，导致他们的冤魂佛界难入、神界难进、地狱难收，你说他们能不把自己的仇恨发泄出来吗？怨恨之心，总要发泄出来啊，否则他们的冤仇，哪里去报呢？

   譬如，假如你孩子累世曾经是喜欢吃鱼、吃泥鳅的大将军，可能伤害过龙族成员啊，他们上门讨债理所当然啊，对不对？所以，要平常心态啊。

  3、要有信心、恒心。真诚的忏悔、认真的施食、认真的放生、回向，持之以恒的去做，这就可以的。要坚定信心持之以恒。

  4、多看老师博文，老师博文中，有很多案例等，多看以开悟智慧。

  以上几点，供你参考。

  祝福你吉祥如意、祝你孩子成绩飞跃！

 阿弥陀佛。诸恶莫作，众善奉行。持之以恒、有求必应。

What are the acts of abstaining from killing and releasing

 戒杀与放生的行为包括哪些

 1. Do not kill a living being with your own hands.

　　2. Do not abet others to kill.

　　3. Do not help others to kill.

　　4. Abstain from eating meat.

　　5. Do not engage in trades related to killing.

　　6、Whenever there is worship, regardless of what is being worshipped, use vegetarian dishes, flowers and fruit, not animal gifts.

　　7. If you see someone killing a human being, you should discourage them or buy the animal to be slaughtered with money and release it. If this does not work, or if the person does not sell the animal, then you should have compassion for the slaughtered animal, and even better if you can recite the Buddha's name or mantra for it.

　　8. Do not abuse the animal.

　　9、Other actions that are contrary to killing.

　　10. Abstain from killing and releasing animals yourself, and advise others to do the same. 

   1、不亲手杀生。

　　2、不教唆别人杀生。

　　3、不帮助别人杀生。

　　4、戒除肉食。

　　5、不从事与杀生有关的行业。

　　6、凡有祭拜，不管拜的是什么，一律用素菜、鲜花、水果，不用牲礼。

　　7、见人杀生，应加劝阻，或用钱将临宰之动物买而放之。若劝阻无效，或他不卖，则应对被杀之动物起同情心，若能为它念佛号或往生咒更好。

　　8、不虐待动物。

　　9、其他与杀生行为相反之行为。

　　10、自己戒杀放生，也劝别人戒杀放生。 

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

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