Ten aphorisms to change fate: parents are unfilial, and it is no good to serve God

改命运十条警句：父母不孝，奉神无益

In life, we should pay attention to ten things, such as filial piety to our parents, which is the basis of a good fate.

------Zhuge Changqing

Lin Zexu, a Chinese talent, loves Buddhism, Confucianism and Taoism and has a thorough understanding of life.

He summed up his life in middle age and wrote the famous aphorism "Ten Benefits", which was very shocking.

Zhuge Changqing shared the aphorism of Lin Zexu's "Ten Benefits" with the predestined:

1. The geomantic omen is of no benefit if you are not well-intentioned;

2. Parents are unfilial and it is useless to serve God;

3. It is no good to make friends if brothers disagree;

4. If you misbehave, reading is useless;

5. It is useless to be clever when you behave perversely;

6. It is useless to be arrogant and knowledgeable;

7. To be rich is not benevolent, and to accumulate is not beneficial;

8. It is useless to rob people and give alms;

9. Medicine is useless at all costs;

10. Bad luck makes it useless to seek.

Zhuge Changqing believed that what Lin Zexu said was very good and thought-provoking, which could be regarded as ten aphorisms to change fate. People in the world should think deeply and practice it; Only when we respect our parents can we be protected by Buddha, Bodhisattva, good gods and heaven and earth.

The "Filial Piety", "Disciple's Rules", "Three Generations of Cause and Effect", and "The Supreme Emperor's Induction" are all worth learning. It tells about the importance of filial piety. Those who are destined to see more.

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Teacher Cai Lixu, who promotes disciple Gui of traditional Chinese culture, has explained disciple Gui in detail. Those who have a chance can search the video to see it, which is very good. Teacher Cai Lixu likes to tell this content to those who have a chance.

Teacher Cai Lixu said: "There is one article in the" Ten Benefits "called" Parents are unfilial and it is not beneficial to serve God ". If even parents are unfilial today, they will not do it according to these holy teachings. If they do not do it according to the holy teachings, they will not get real benefits and real blessings. Because Fukuda still depends on his own heart to cultivate, and the most important thing in Fukuda is Endon. Don't be more generous than your parents. If you don't even repay your parents' kindness, there is no blessing at all. And we feel that when we see a person who is not filial to his parents, will we respect him? That's impossible. People can feel the same feeling. People who are unfilial feel very uncomfortable. Parents who are unfilial are not beneficial to worship God.

Even if the parents have made mistakes, they should never speak in front of others. They must not talk about their family's ugliness. The so-called "thinking about the virtues of their ancestors far away, and thinking about the faults of their parents near". We will never publicize our parents' mistakes, and then we will try our best to persuade them to adopt such an attitude as "pleasing my face and softening my voice". The fate between father and son, parents and children, as long as we are very sincere, we can "be sincere and open", and we can persuade our parents' mistakes to the right way. We can see from the history that his parents, like Da Shun, are not happy with him and will hurt him. But he is still extremely filial, moving his parents and people all over the world. When people all over the world saw the demeanor of Da Shun, they said that even Da Shun knew how to be filial. Is there any reason for us to be unfilial? Including the story of Min Ziqian that we mentioned yesterday, it is the performance of filial piety.

We have heard of Mahayana Buddhism and Chinese culture today, so we should do our filial piety to achieve the goal of "parents' separation from dirt and children's achievement", and to help parents break the obsession and realize enlightenment, get happiness from suffering, and have such a state of mind. It is necessary to break the obsession and achieve enlightenment. Only Buddhism and positive Dharma can do it; All these external wealth positions can't help at all. So parents must be able to learn Buddhism. How do parents learn Buddhism? It depends on how we behave.

We showed great filial piety. Our parents were moved. He would have high confidence in the Dharma. So it is filial piety and thorough filial piety to follow the teachings and make parents happy. If we change quickly after learning, our parents are closest to us and feel the most direct. So for those of us who study, if our parents can't be moved, then we should be ashamed and introspective. Any sacred teaching must begin with filial piety. Therefore, the first is that parents are unfilial and it is useless to serve God.

人生在世，要注意孝敬父母等十条内容，这是好命运的基础啊。

------ 诸葛长青

  中国英才林则徐，喜爱佛学、儒学、道学，对人生感悟的十分透彻。

  他中年总结人生，写下了闻名天下的警句《十无益》，令人十分震撼。

  诸葛长青把林则徐的《十无益》警句分享给有缘者:

  1、存心不善，风水无益;

  2、父母不孝，奉神无益;

  3、兄弟不和，交友无益;

  4、行止不端，读书无益;

  5、做事乖张，聪明无益;

  6、心高气傲，博学无益;

  7、为富不仁，积聚无益;

  8、劫取人财，布施无益;

  9、不惜元气，医药无益;

  10、时运不济，妄求无益。

   诸葛长青认为，林则徐说的非常好，发人深省，可以看做改命运的十条警句。天下人当深思之、践行之；唯有孝敬父母，才会得到佛菩萨、善神、天地的保护啊。

  《孝经》、《弟子规》、《三世因果经》、《太上感应篇》等值得天下人学习。讲述了孝道的重要性，有缘者可以多看。

   诸葛长青推荐喜欢儒学《弟子规》的有缘者，可以看看“弟子规公益网”，http://www.dizigui.cn/clsfx_130125d.asp，这个网站，非常好，很多文章值得反复阅读。

   弘扬国学弟子规的蔡礼旭老师，对弟子规有过详细讲解，有缘者可以搜索视频看看，非常好。蔡礼旭老师喜欢把这个内容讲给有缘者听。

  蔡礼旭老师说道：《十无益》有一条叫“父母不孝，奉神无益”。今天连父母都不孝了，那根本就没有依照这些神圣的教诲去做，没有依照神圣教诲做，就不可能得到真实的利益、真实的福分。因为福田还是靠自己的这颗心去耕耘的，而福田当中首要的就是恩田。恩莫大於父母之恩，连父母的恩都不去回报，那根本就无福可言。而且我们感受感受，当我们看到一个人连父母都不孝，我们会尊重他吗？那不可能的。人同此心，都可以感觉得到，不孝的人给人很不舒服的感觉，父母不孝，奉神无益。

　　以至於父母有过失了，绝对不在他人的面前讲，一定是不言家丑，所谓“远思扬祖宗之德，近思盖父母之愆”。对父母的过失，我们绝对不宣扬，然后非常用心的去规劝父母，所谓“怡吾色，柔吾声”，这样的态度。那父子，父母跟子女之间的这分缘分，只要我们为人子非常的至诚，一定可以“精诚所至，金石为开”，一定可以把父母的过失能够规劝到正确的路上来。我们从历史上都可以看得到，像大舜他的父母对他都到了看他不顺眼，都要伤害他的情况，但是他还是一分至孝，感动了他的父母，也感动了天下的人。天下的人一看到大舜的风范都说，连大舜这样都懂得行孝，那我们还有不孝的理由吗？包含我们昨天提到闵子骞的故事，那都是至孝的表现。

　　我们今天听闻大乘佛法，听闻中国文化，那我们尽这分孝要尽到“父母离尘垢，子道方成就”，是要帮助父母破迷开悟，离苦得乐，要有这样的心境。那要破迷开悟，离苦得乐，唯有佛法、唯有正法才能够做得到；所有外在的这些财富地位，都完全帮不上忙。所以一定要让父母能够学佛。父母如何学佛？那就看我们如何表现。

  我们表现得非常的至孝，父母感动了，他会对正法产生高度的信心。所以依教奉行，让父母生大欢喜，这都是尽孝，尽彻底的孝道。假如我们学了以后，改变的很快，父母离我们最亲近，感觉得最直接。所以我们修学的人，假如父母不能感动，那我们要惭愧反省，所谓德未修，感未至。任何神圣的教诲，一定是从孝顺父母开始做。所以这第一条是父母不孝，奉神无益。

What are the acts of abstaining from killing and releasing

 戒杀与放生的行为包括哪些

 1. Do not kill a living being with your own hands.

　　2. Do not abet others to kill.

　　3. Do not help others to kill.

　　4. Abstain from eating meat.

　　5. Do not engage in trades related to killing.

　　6、Whenever there is worship, regardless of what is being worshipped, use vegetarian dishes, flowers and fruit, not animal gifts.

　　7. If you see someone killing a human being, you should discourage them or buy the animal to be slaughtered with money and release it. If this does not work, or if the person does not sell the animal, then you should have compassion for the slaughtered animal, and even better if you can recite the Buddha's name or mantra for it.

　　8. Do not abuse the animal.

　　9、Other actions that are contrary to killing.

　　10. Abstain from killing and releasing animals yourself, and advise others to do the same. 

   1、不亲手杀生。

　　2、不教唆别人杀生。

　　3、不帮助别人杀生。

　　4、戒除肉食。

　　5、不从事与杀生有关的行业。

　　6、凡有祭拜，不管拜的是什么，一律用素菜、鲜花、水果，不用牲礼。

　　7、见人杀生，应加劝阻，或用钱将临宰之动物买而放之。若劝阻无效，或他不卖，则应对被杀之动物起同情心，若能为它念佛号或往生咒更好。

　　8、不虐待动物。

　　9、其他与杀生行为相反之行为。

　　10、自己戒杀放生，也劝别人戒杀放生。 

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

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