Buddhism Changes Destiny: How to Seek a Good Marriage

求婚姻，可以集中求观世音菩萨。观世音菩萨，有求必应。

----- 诸葛长青

Hello, Mr. Zhuge Changqing.

   Could you please write an article on marriage?

   I have seen many people struggling to find a good marriage.

   Many people (including me) are praying that the person they broke up with will come back to them, wanting to forget but finding it hard to forget, wanting to get back but doing many things without success, wandering between giving up and not giving up every day is very painful.

  So I pray that you will start to help these people who are stuck in love and have not been able to find a good marriage.

                               A student of Buddhism with a destiny

Teacher Zhuge Changqing's answer is as follows.

 Amitabha Buddha.

 Hello, I understand your feelings and the answer is as follows.

 How do I seek marriage?

 I. To seek marriage, you can focus on seeking "Guanyin Bodhisattva".

 1, Guan Shi Yin Bodhisattva, is "a thousand places to ask for a thousand answers", hear the sound to save suffering, very spiritual.

 2. You can devote yourself to chanting Guanyin Bodhisattva and the Puranas. If you ask for it, it will be answered.

 3. Guanyin, the Bodhisattva of Compassion on earth, will answer all your requests and strengthen your faith.

 2. How to ask for a good marriage?

 1. Make a wish.

(Zhuge Changqing: It is recommended to issue five major wishes. (Find a clean room, when no one is disturbed, kneel down on both knees and make a silent wish).

 1) Make a wish to abstain from killing and releasing life. Release life once a month and give food continuously. Refer to the rituals and give back carefully. Pay homage to the wrongdoers who have obstructed your marriage and to have a happy marriage.

 Make a vow to be a vegetarian for the rest of your life. If it is difficult to do so at the beginning, you can start by eating three kinds of clean meat.

 (3) Vow to stop evil and do good deeds. Respect your parents, do good deeds, speak good words and do good deeds throughout your life.

 (4) Make a vow to abstain from evil deeds. Do not watch pornography, do not read pornographic novels, do not commit evil deeds, do not spoil other people's families, etc.

 ⑤ Make a vow to propagate the Dharma. To benefit the living beings and to vigorously promote Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism. Donate to the printing of scriptures.

 2. Repentance.

(Zhuge Changqing: If there are the following three items you must repent, at least for 60 days)

 ① If you have committed evil acts, have seen pornographic pictures, pornographic novels, evil sex, have destroyed other people's families, etc., you must repent. You can confess: confess that you should not look at yellow pictures, yellow films, etc.

 ② You must repent if you have committed acts of killing.

 ③If you have not been filial to your parents, you must repent.

 ④If you do none of the above three things, you may not repent.

 3. Prayers.

(Zhuge Changqing: Concentrate on asking the Bodhisattva Guanyin for help. Concentrate on chanting "Namo Kuan Shi Yin Bodhisattva + "Guan Shi Yin Bodhisattva's Purification" and do it every day.)

 (1) Concentrate on chanting "Namo Kuan Shi Yin Bodhisattva + "Guan Shi Yin Bodhisattva Pu Men Pin".

 (2) Recite the Guanyin Purana at least 3 times a day, and recite "Namo Kuan Shi Yin Bodhisattva" 100 times before reciting.

 After reciting it, pray to the wrongdoers who are obstructing your marriage and pray to Guanyin Bodhisattva to give you a happy marriage.

 It is recommended that you do this both in the morning and in the evening. You can rest before 10pm and get up at 4am in the morning.

 Recite "Namo Kuan Shi Yin Bodhisattva" more often and ask him to bless your marriage.

 4. Perseverance

(Zhuge Changqing: firmly believe that the great Goddess of Mercy will answer all your requests and be persistent in doing so).

 ①Be determined to do what you wish for.

 ----- Let go of life and give food every month. Don't be stingy with money. 

 ----- Eat vegetarian every day. It is healthier to be a vegetarian. Read more articles on Zhuge Changqing's Sina blog on vegetarianism.

 ----- Have the heart to do good deeds every day. Show respect to your parents.

 ----- Only read good articles and books every day, forbid reading pornographic books, pictures, etc., and forbid evil prostitution.

 ----- Every day you can promote Buddhism with the help of the internet, etc. If you donate to the printing of sutras, you can write at the end of the book, "I pray to those who have obstructed my marriage to be reborn in the Western bliss world and to have a happy marriage.

 ② Have faith. Have faith that Goddess of Mercy will give you a good marriage.

 (iii) Have perseverance. The timing and manner of marriage realisation is generally related to one's accumulated karma.

 Zhuge Changqing: Blessing all those who have done good deeds and accumulated virtue in the world with wealth, prosperity and happiness in life.

Zhuge Changqing blesses all those who have the good fortune to honour their parents, do good deeds, give food, and donate scriptures for printing, with great wealth and prosperity.

  Amitabha Buddha. Do not do evil and practice all good deeds. Be persistent and answer all your requests.

诸葛长青老师您好：

   能否请您写一篇关于姻缘的文章？

   因为我看到许多人在苦苦寻求一份好的姻缘。

   还有许多人（包括我在内）在祈求分手的人可以回心转义，想要忘记却又难忘记，想要挽回做了许多事情却未果，每天徘徊在放弃与不放弃之间很是痛苦。

  所以祈求老师您开始一下这些为情所困，未能求到一份好姻缘的众生，感恩老师。

                               一位学佛有缘者

诸葛长青老师解答如下：

 阿弥陀佛。

 你好，你的心情我很理解，解答如下。

 如何求婚姻？

 一、求婚姻，可以集中求“观世音菩萨”。

 1、观世音菩萨，是“千处有求千处应”，闻声救苦，十分灵验。

 2、可以全力以赴念观世音菩萨和《普门品》。只要你求,就有求必应。

 3、观世音菩萨，是人间的慈悲菩萨，有求必应，坚定信心。

 二、如何求得好婚姻？

 1、发愿。

（诸葛长青：建议发出五大愿望。找一个干净房间，无人干扰的时候，双膝下跪默默发愿）。

 ①发愿戒杀放生。每月放生一次、持续施食。放生施食要参照仪轨、认真回向。回向阻挠自己婚姻的冤亲债主，回向有一个幸福婚姻。

 ②发愿一生吃素。一开始难以做到的可以先吃三净肉。

 ③发愿止恶行善。孝敬父母，一生行善积德，说好话、办好事。

 ④发愿戒除邪淫。不看黄片、不看黄色小说、不邪淫、不坏别人家庭等。

 ⑤发愿弘扬佛法。造福苍生，大力宣传佛法、道法、儒法。捐印经书。

 2、忏悔。

（诸葛长青：如果有下列三条内容必须忏悔，最少忏悔60天）。

 ①如果有邪淫的行为，看过黄色图片、黄色小说、邪淫、破坏过别人家庭等，必须忏悔。你可以忏悔：忏悔不应该看黄色图片、黄色电影等。

 ②如果有杀生的行为，必须忏悔。

 ③如果不孝敬父母，必须忏悔。

 ④如果以上三点，都没有，可以不忏悔。

 3、祈求。

（诸葛长青：集中求观世音菩萨帮助。集中念“南无观世音菩萨+《观世音菩萨普门品》，每天都做好。）

 ①集中精力，念诵“南无观世音菩萨+《观世音菩萨普门品》”。

 ②每天最少念诵《观世音菩萨普门品》3遍，念之前念“南无观世音菩萨”100遍.

 ③念完之后，回向阻挠自己婚姻的冤亲债主，回向请观世音菩萨赐给自己有一个幸福婚姻。

 ④建议可以早晚都进行。晚上10点前休息、早上可以4点起床。

 ⑤平时多念“南无观世音菩萨号”，请他赐福给你好婚姻。

 4、持之以恒

（诸葛长青：坚信伟大的观世音菩萨有求必应，持之以恒做好）。

 ①发愿的事情坚决做到。

 ----- 每月都放生、施食。不要吝惜钱财。 

 ----- 每天吃素。吃素更健康。多看诸葛长青老师新浪博客素食文章。

 ----- 每天都有做善事之心。孝敬父母。

 ----- 每天只看好的文章书籍，禁止看黄色书籍、图片等，禁止邪淫。

 ----- 每天可以借助网络等弘扬佛法。可以捐印经书，捐印经书的，最后写上“回向阻挠自己婚姻的冤亲债主离苦得乐往生西方极乐世界等，回向有一个幸福婚姻。

 ②有信心。坚信观音菩萨会给你一个好婚姻。

 ③有恒心。婚姻实现的时间、方式，一般都跟自己的累世因果有关系。

 诸葛长青：祝福天下行善积德的有缘者，富贵吉祥、人生幸福。

诸葛长青祝福天下孝敬父母、行善积德、放生施食、捐印经书的有缘者富贵吉祥、福报巨大。

What are the acts of abstaining from killing and releasing

 戒杀与放生的行为包括哪些

 1. Do not kill a living being with your own hands.

　　2. Do not abet others to kill.

　　3. Do not help others to kill.

　　4. Abstain from eating meat.

　　5. Do not engage in trades related to killing.

　　6、Whenever there is worship, regardless of what is being worshipped, use vegetarian dishes, flowers and fruit, not animal gifts.

　　7. If you see someone killing a human being, you should discourage them or buy the animal to be slaughtered with money and release it. If this does not work, or if the person does not sell the animal, then you should have compassion for the slaughtered animal, and even better if you can recite the Buddha's name or mantra for it.

　　8. Do not abuse the animal.

　　9、Other actions that are contrary to killing.

　　10. Abstain from killing and releasing animals yourself, and advise others to do the same. 

   1、不亲手杀生。

　　2、不教唆别人杀生。

　　3、不帮助别人杀生。

　　4、戒除肉食。

　　5、不从事与杀生有关的行业。

　　6、凡有祭拜，不管拜的是什么，一律用素菜、鲜花、水果，不用牲礼。

　　7、见人杀生，应加劝阻，或用钱将临宰之动物买而放之。若劝阻无效，或他不卖，则应对被杀之动物起同情心，若能为它念佛号或往生咒更好。

　　8、不虐待动物。

　　9、其他与杀生行为相反之行为。

　　10、自己戒杀放生，也劝别人戒杀放生。 

(This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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