Motivation for success: positive thinking is necessary for success

   成功励志：要成功必须积极正面思维

Successful people are optimistic, optimistic and positive thinking. Think well and say well to make your dream come true!

-----Zhuge Changqing

Looking through the ancient and modern history, you will find that successful people are positive, optimistic and optimistic.

Zhuge Changqing found that positive thinking can make you succeed quickly!

You are positive and optimistic, and your friends around you like you.

You are positive and optimistic, so your dreams come true all the time.

Work hard and always think positively.

Always think positively and dream positively, and you will succeed.

Those who are destined can read more successful inspirational books. Help yourself establish positive thinking.

There is an article on the Internet about positive thinking, which is excerpted below and shared with those who have a chance.

The following ten principles can help you cultivate and strengthen your ability of positive thinking.

1、 Behave like you want to be

Zhuge Changqing: Imitate the winner, conceive your dream with passion at all times, firm your goal at all times, and have high morale at all times, and you will enter the track of success.

Many people always wait until they have a positive feeling before putting it into action. These people put the cart before the horse. Positive action will lead to positive thinking, and positive thinking will lead to positive attitude towards life.

Attitude follows action. If a person starts from a negative mood and waits for the feeling to lead him to action, he will never become a positive thinker he wants to be.

2、 Have a winning and positive mind

Zhuge Changqing: Positive thinking can keep you in a positive energy range and promote your success.

Andrew, American billionaire and industrialist. Carnegie said, "A person who has complete control over his own heart will also have control over anything else he is entitled to." When we begin to think in a positive way and consider ourselves as successful, we begin to succeed.

Whoever wants to harvest a successful life must be a good farmer. We must not sow only a few seeds of optimism. Then I hope to get something for nothing. We must water these seeds and fertilize the seedlings. If we neglect these, the negative weeds will grow and take the nutrients from the soil until the crops die.

Take care of the vigorous crops and don't water the weeds. As the Bible says, "All those who are true, honorable, fair, clean, lovely, and famous, if there is any virtue, if there is any praise, these are what you should consider."

3、 Use positive attitudes, good feelings, confidence and goals to influence and drive others

Zhuge Changqing: You are positive yourself and inspire others to be positive, so you have a positive atmosphere. In addition, gratitude is the foundation of your success.

Remember, no one likes to stay with a grouchy and depressed person.

As your actions and thoughts become more and more positive, you will gradually gain a sense of happiness in life, and your confidence will multiply, and your sense of purpose in life will become stronger and stronger. Next. Others will be attracted to you because people always like to be with positive optimists.

Use the positive response of others to develop a positive relationship and help others gain this positive atmosphere.

4、 Value and respect everyone you interact with

Zhuge Changqing: If you respect others, others will respect you.

We live in a fast-paced world. Most people come and go in a hurry and concentrate on the task to be completed. They often fail to make time to talk with the people they contact.

If you can do this and give them comprehensive care in a positive way, it will produce good results for them. You will make their life more valuable, and they will give you generous rewards.

5、 Make everyone you meet feel important, needed and appreciated

Zhuge Changqing: Affirm and praise others, and others will also praise you. With more people praising you, you will succeed faster.

Everyone has a desire to feel the importance of himself and the need and gratitude of others. This is the core of our common people's self-consciousness. If you can satisfy this desire in others' hearts, they will have a positive attitude towards themselves and you, and a situation of "hello, hello, everyone" will be formed. Just like Ralph, a 19th century American philosopher and poet. Waldo. Emerson said, "One of the most beautiful compensations in life is that after people sincerely help others, they also help themselves.

Another benefit of making others feel important is to make them feel important in turn.

In most cases, others will treat you as you treat others. Your attitude towards others is the same as others' attitude towards you.

6、 Find everyone's strengths

Zhuge Changqing: Look at the advantages of others. All things that come to your mind are happy. So you have no shortcomings to see. So you are happy. If you don't believe it, try it.

Looking for the best things in everyone is similar to making others feel appreciated. The worst people also have advantages; The most perfect person also has shortcomings. You can see what your eyes are fixed on.

I am lucky to have a wonderful family, excellent friends and colleagues. This is a gift from God, but it is also the result of my positive and optimistic attitude towards the people around me. You should learn to give 10 points to everyone you meet. In other words, if you measure others with the 10-point system, you might as well imagine that everyone can get 10 points and believe that they can. In most cases, they will really rise to the height of your positive expectations.

Find the best things in others, which will make them feel good about themselves, promote their growth, strive to do better, and create a positive and excellent environment.

7、 Don't talk about your health unless you have to

Zhuge Changqing: Notice, never talk about useless things, but think about health, charm and happiness. In this way, you will become healthier and more ambitious and charming.

There are few other things in life that cause people to have negative emotions faster than talking about their physical discomfort. People will sympathize with you for the first time or two; They will be tired of talking about it again; Finally, they don't want to see you. A person's health problems can only be discussed with his family and closest friends.

8、 Learn everywhere and find the best new ideas

Zhuge Changqing: Read more, consult more, and learn from all excellent people and ideas.

Positive thinkers are always looking for the best new ideas. These new ideas can increase the success potential of positive thinkers. As the French writer Victor Hugo said, "Nothing is as powerful as a timely idea."

Some people believe that only talented people in the world can have good ideas. In fact, to find a good idea depends on attitude, not ability. An open-minded and creative person can go wherever he has good ideas. In the process of searching, he does not easily throw away an idea until he thoroughly understands the advantages and disadvantages of the idea. It is said that some of the outstanding inventions of Edison, the world's greatest inventor, were born after thinking about a failed invention and trying to find an additional use for the failed invention.

9、 Give up trifles

Zhuge Changqing: Notice what you focus on, you will get. You focus on good things and great events such as wealth, health and career, and then good things come.

Positive thinkers don't spend their time and energy on small things, because small things make them deviate from the main goals and important matters. If a person reacts to a trivial matter - -- a response to a big deal - -- this deviation will occur. The following absurd reactions to small things are worth reference:

Sweden fought Poland in 1654 because the Swedish king had only two additional titles after his name in an official document, while the Polish king had three additional titles after his name.

About 900 years ago, a war that ravaged the whole of Europe broke out because of a dispute between two Italian cities, Modena and Bologna, about a bucket.

Someone accidentally splashed water from a glass on the head of Marquis Tolay, which led to a war between Britain and France.

A boy threw pebbles at the Duke of Gruys, leading to the Vassi massacre and the 30-year war.

Although each of us is unlikely to launch a war because of a small matter, we can certainly make ourselves and the people around us unhappy because of a small matter. Remember: A man's heart is as big as he gets angry about something big!

10、 Cultivate a spirit of dedication

Zhuge Changqing: If you give up, you will get it. With the intention of benefiting others in society, you will plant the seeds of wealth, and you will have more success.

The purpose of life is to serve others and to show the passion and willingness to help others. The greatest contribution that a positive thinker can make is to give to others.

Harry, former chairman of General Flour. Bliss once gave the advice of a subordinate salesman: "Forget your sales task and focus on what you can do for others." He found that once people concentrate on serving others, they will become more motivated, more powerful and more unable to refuse. After all, who can resist a person who tries his best to help himself solve problems?

Bliss said, "I tell our salesmen that if they think this way when they work every morning:" I will help as many people as possible today "instead of" I will sell as many goods as possible today ", they can find a easier and more open way to deal with buyers, and the sales performance will be better. Whoever tries to help others live a happier and more natural life will achieve the highest level of sales promotion.

Giving has become a way of life. It is not yet possible to predict the positive results of giving. For example, a man who was climbing a snowy mountain met a dying man. He carried the man on his back in spite of the opposition of his companion. The man woke up on the way. They helped each other through the snowy mountain, but his companion was frozen to death on the way.

The result of positive thinking -------- positive life

Positive thinking can change your life. With positive thinking, you will be invincible. The following is a list of the main characteristics of positive thinkers. Of course, there are other characteristics, but these main characteristics are enough to set a person on the road to success.

   成功者，都是乐观开朗，积极正面思维。想好的、说好的，以使你梦想成真！

                       ----- 诸葛长青

    翻阅古今历史，你会发现，成功者都是积极者、乐观开朗者。

    诸葛长青研究发现，积极的正面思维，可以使你迅速成功！

   你自己积极乐观开朗，周围的朋友因而喜欢你。

   你自己积极乐观开朗，所以始终梦想成真。

    好好努力吧，时刻积极正面思维。

    始终积极思维、积极梦想、就会走向成功。

    有缘者可以多看一些成功励志书籍。帮助自己树立积极思维。

    网络上有一篇文章，说了积极思维的事情，摘录于下，与有缘者分享。

     下面十条原则，可以帮助你培养和加强积极思维的能力。
　　一、言行举止像你希望成为的人
　　诸葛长青：模仿成功者，时刻激情构想你的梦想，时刻坚定你的目标，时刻斗志昂扬，你就会进入成功的轨道。

   许多人总是等到自己有了一种积极的感受再去付诸行动。这些人在本末倒置。积极行动会导致积极思维，而积极思维会导致积极的人生态度。

   态度是紧跟行动的。如果一个人从一种消极的心境开始，等待着感觉把自己带向行动，那他永远成不了他想做的积极思维者。
　　二、要心怀必胜、积极的想法

   诸葛长青：积极思维，可以使你时刻处于正能量范围，促进你成功。
　　美国亿万富翁、工业家安德鲁。卡内基说过：“一个对自己内心有完全支配的人，对他自己有权获得的任何其他东西也会有支配能力。”当我们开始用积极的方式思维并把自己看成成功者时，我们就开始成功了。
　　谁想收获成功的人生，谁就要当个好农民。我们决不能仅仅播下几粒积极乐观的种子。然后就指望不劳而获。我们必须给这些种子浇水，给幼苗培土施肥。要是疏忽这些，消极的野草就会丛生，夺取土壤的养分，直至使庄稼枯死。
　　照看好生机勃勃的庄稼，别给野草浇水。正如圣经所说：“凡是真实的、可敬的、公平的、清洁的、可爱的、有美名的、若有什么德行，若有什么称赞，这些是你们都要考虑。”
　　三、用积极的态度、美好的感觉、信心与目标去影响带动别人

   诸葛长青：你自己积极向上，激发别人积极向上，于是你就有一个积极的氛围。此外，感恩，是你成功的基础。

   记住，没有人喜欢和一个牢骚满腹、郁闷者呆在一起。
　　随着你的行动与思维日渐积极，你就会慢慢获得一种美满人生的感觉，信心倍增，人生中的目标感也越来越强烈。紧接着。别人就会被你吸引，因为人们总是喜欢跟积极乐观者在一起。

    运用别人的这种积极响应来发展积极的关系，同时帮助别人获得这种积极氛围。

　　四、重视尊重与你交往的每一个人

  诸葛长青：你尊重别人，别人才会尊重你。

　　我们生活在一个快节奏的世界里。大多数人来去匆匆，一心想着要完成的任务。他们往往疏于腾出时间与他们所接触的人谈谈心。
　　如果你能够这样做，并以积极的方式给他们全面的关怀，就会对他们产生很好的结果。你会使他们的人生更有价值，他们也会给予你丰厚的报答。
　　 五、使你遇到的每一个人都感到自己很重要、被需要、被感激

   诸葛长青：肯定别人、赞美别人，别人也会赞美你。赞美你的人多了，你就成功的步伐更快了。
　　每个人都有一种欲望，既感觉到自己的重要性，以及别人对他的需要与感激。这是我们普通人的自我意识的核心。如果你能够满足别人心中的这一欲望，他们就会对自己，也对你抱积极的态度，一种你好我好大家好的局面就形成了。正如美国19世纪的哲学家兼诗人拉尔夫。沃尔都。爱默生所说：“人生最美丽的补偿之一，就是人们真诚的帮助别人之后，同时也帮助了自己。
　　 使别人感觉自己重要的另一个好处，使他们反过来会使你自己感到重要。
　　 在大多数情况下，你对别人怎样，别人就怎样对待你。你对别人的态度跟别人对你的态度是一样的。
　　六、寻找每个人的优点

   诸葛长青：多看别人优点，出现你的脑海的都是快乐的事情，于是你就没有缺点可看，于是你就快乐，不信你就试试吧。

　　寻找每个人身上最好的东西，这一点跟使别人感到受赞赏是相似的。最差劲的人身上也有优点;最完美的人身上也有缺点。你眼睛盯住什么，你肯定就能看到什么。
　　我很幸运有一个极好的家庭、极好的朋友和同事。这都是上帝所赐的礼物，但也是我积极乐观地对待周围人的结果。要学会给自己遇到的每一人打10分，换言之，如果你以10分制来衡量别人，你不妨设想每个人都可以拿10分，并在内心里相信他们能。在大多情况下，他们就真的会上升到你积极期待的高度。
　　 寻找别人身上最好的东西，这会使他们对自己有良好的感觉，能促使他们成长， 力做到更好，并且创造一个积极的、卓越的环境。
　　七、除非万不得已，否则不要谈自己的健康问题

   诸葛长青：注意，永远不要谈论无用的东西，要想着健康、魅力、快乐。这样你就会越来越健康，越来越斗志昂扬、魅力无限。　　

   生活中很少有其他东西比大谈自己身体不适更快地使人们产生消极情绪的了。头一两次谈这个问题，人们会同情你;再讲他们就会反感厌烦;最后，他们就不想见你了。一个人的健康问题，只能跟家人及最亲密的朋友谈。
　　八、到处学习、寻找最佳的新观念

   诸葛长青：多读书，多请教，善于向一切优秀的人、优秀的理念学习。

　　积极思维者时刻在寻找最佳的新观念。这些新观念能增加积极思维者的成功潜力。正如法国作家维克多雨果所说：“没有任何东西的威力比得上一个适时的主意。”
　　有些人认为，只有世界上的天才人物才会有好主意。而事实上，要找到好主意靠的是态度，而不是能力。一个思想开放有创造性的人，哪里有好主意就往哪里去。在寻找的过程中，他不轻易扔掉一个主意，直到他对这个主意可能产生的优缺点都彻底弄清楚为止。据说，世界最伟大发明家爱迪生的一些杰出发明，是在思考一个失败的发明，想给这个失败的发明找一个额外用途的情况下诞生的。
　　九、放弃鸡毛蒜皮的小事

   诸葛长青：注意，专注于什么，你就会得到什么。你专注于财富、健康、事业等好事情、大事情，于是就有好事情来临。

　　积极思维者不把时间精力花在小事情上，因为小事情使他们偏离主要目标和重要事项。如果一个人对一件无足轻重的小事情作出反应-----------小题大做的反映---------这种偏离就产生了。以下这些对小事情的荒缪反应值得参考：
　　 瑞典于1654年与波兰开战，原因是瑞典国王在一份官方文书中他的名字后面只有两个附加的头衔，而波兰国王的名字后面有三个附加头衔。
　　大约900年以前，一场蹂肅了整个欧洲的战争竟然是因为摩德纳与波洛尼亚这两个人意大利城市之间关于一个打水桶的争吵而爆发的。
　　有人不小心把一个玻璃杯里的水溅在托莱侯爵的头上，就导致了一场英法大战。
　　 一个男孩向格鲁伊斯公爵扔鹅卵石，导致瓦西大屠杀和30年战争。
　　虽然我们每个人不大可能因为一点小事而发动一场战争，但我们肯定能因为小事而使自己及周围的人不愉快。记住：一个人为多大的事情而发怒，他的心胸就有多大！
　　 十、培养一种奉献的精神

   诸葛长青：舍得舍得，有舍才有得。有造福社会他人之心，于是你就种下了富贵的种子，于是你就会有更多成功。
　　人生的目的是服务别人，是表现出助人的激情与意愿。一个积极思维者所能做的最大贡献是给予别人。
　　前任通用面粉公司董事长哈利。布利斯曾下属推销员这样的忠告：“忘掉你的推销任务，一心想着你能给别人什么服务。”他发现人们一旦思想集中与服务别人，就马上变得更有冲劲、更有力量，更加无法拒绝。说到底，谁能抗拒一个尽心尽力帮助自己解决问题的人呢？
　　布利斯说：“我告诉我们的推销员，如果他们每天早晨干活时这样想：“我今天要帮助更可能多的人”，而不是“我今天要推销尽可能多的货”，他们就能找到一个跟买家打交道的更容易、更开放的方法，推销的成绩就会更好。谁尽力帮助其他人活的更愉快更潇洒，谁就实现了推销术的最高境界。
　　给予别人成了一种生活方式。现在还无法预测给予所带来的积极结果。例如：一个爬雪山的人途中遇到一个奄奄一息的人，他不顾同伴的反对而背起这个人，途中被救得人醒了，他们相扶度过雪山，可他的同伴却被冻死在途中。
　　 积极思维的结果--------积极的人生
　　积极思维能改变你的一生。有了积极思维，你就能无往而不胜。下面列举积极思维者的几个主要特点，当然还有别的特点，但这几个主要特点足以使一个人走上成功之路。

   (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

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