Parents must read 1: Dad, I will grow up if you don't accompany me

父母必读1：爸爸，你再不陪我我就长大了

amitabha. Parents in the world should be vigilant when raising or not teaching.

----Zhuge Changqing

amitabha.

Blessed life is limitless.

Confucius, the supreme teacher of Dacheng.

The core of Confucianism is to educate the people, benefit the society, and cultivate one's moral integrity, rule the country and balance the world.

To rule the country first, to rule the country first, to rule the family first, and to cultivate one's moral integrity first.

How to cultivate oneself? We should start with cleaning, filial piety and respect for teachers, and family harmony.

Zhuge Changqing believes that Confucianism uses "loyalty, filial piety, benevolence and righteousness" to promote the healthy development of society.

However, in recent years, people have downplayed Confucianism, neglected filial piety and family harmony, and have been gradually dispersed by money worship, liberalism and individualism.

Without Confucianism, society began to have problems.

The most frightening thing is that family children do not obey management.

Nowadays, many families have problems with their children.

Many children are disobedient and disobedient to management. They collide with their parents and teachers and discredit their ancestors.

Many rich second generations have done a lot of wrong things, which is regrettable and chilling.

"Disciple Regulations" said, "Parents should not wait for their calls". Look around. Parents call their children. How many children immediately agree?

"Disciple Regulations" said, "Parents should not be lazy". Look around. Parents arrange children. How many children take immediate action?

"Disciple Regulations" said, "Parents should teach and listen respectfully". When you look around, how many parents educate their children and how many of them immediately and patiently accept them?

"Disciple Regulations" says that "parents should be responsible and obedient". Look around. Parents criticize children. How many of them are immediately submissive?

Parents should wake up

We are pleased to see that many people of insight in China have consciously launched activities such as the dissemination of disciple rules, the dissemination of filial piety, etc., especially the aspiring people represented by Chen Dahui have launched the Forum of Chinese Traditional Culture, vigorously advocating filial piety education, which has played a great role.

All sectors of society should go all out to promote the education of disciple rules. Let Disciple Gui enter thousands of households.

Zhuge Changqing believed that the root cause of the problem of family children's education was the lack of Confucianism, filial piety and parental care.

The Three-character Classic says that raising or not teaching is the fault of the father.

But now many families are mostly mothers who take care of their children.

But when a father is busy making money and making friends all day, he is called to develop interpersonal relationships and establish contacts.

Poor children, without their father's guidance, lack confidence in self-reliance.

The father is like a mountain, giving the child confidence and fortitude is the strong backing of the child and the cornerstone of the child's growth. Children without father's love are full of inferiority complex, irritable and rebellious

Motherly love is like water. It gives children love and care. It is a gentle quilt for children and the love for children's growth. Children without maternal love are cold, callous and selfish in their hearts

Zhuge Changqing believed that all parents in the world should pay attention to their parents' simultaneous education. You can't leave your child to a mother. I spent my time and became a handsome brother.

To raise or not to teach is to blame the father.

A father should take responsibility.

Zhuge Changqing recommended a good article "China Business Network - China Business Daily", "Dad, I will grow up if you don't accompany me"

Father's love is great, but the understanding of what is father's love may be different. There is a saying that true love must let children see your existence, play with you, listen to your teaching, and grow healthily with your attention and love.

The child said, "I am very happy to play with my father."

On June 12, our newspaper surveyed 52 students in Class 6, Grade 4, West Airlines Third School, Weiyang District, Xi'an City (see the drawing for data). For the reasons why many children like the company of their father, the children gave the following statement: "It's fun to play with their father." The boy Yang Yang said, "We can exercise together"; Xiaoxu, a boy, said that "Dad always tells some jokes"; The boy Hao Hao said, "Because my mother talks a lot of nonsense"; Wen Wen, a girl, said that "usually my mother accompanies me, so I prefer my father to accompany me". Some children also said that "because my father is very generous". The girl naturally wrote the reason that "because my father always takes me out to play, my mother always lets me study"; The girl Xiaoyu said, "Because my father will tell me a lot of knowledge".

What is the reason why I like my mother's company? The girl Xinxin said, "My mother understands my psychology, but my father is very laborious"; Most of the reasons why I like my mother's company are "more concerned about me".

Dad is always busy. I hope he can accompany me more

When asked what I want to say to my father most, 31 of the 52 children wrote: "Dad, I love you!" But many children made wishes to my father: I hope my father will drink less, I hope my boss will let my father work in Xi'an, I hope my father will play less computer and accompany them more, and I hope my father will not always eat out. Most of the children who raised hopes had a "weekend father" or "late night father", accounting for 48% in the survey.

The girl Ma Ruiyi's father works as a teacher in Baoji and only returns to Xi'an on weekends to reunite with her family. Ma Ruiyi said that her father doesn't go home at ordinary times. She is always with her mother. On weekends, her father will accompany her to practice calligraphy and draw pictures when he comes home. She especially hopes to travel with her father and mother. "The last time we went out together was 4 years old, and my father took me to Fengxian."

"My father is very busy every day, and I rarely see him." Hu Tianyi's father works as a worker in a hospital in Gaoling. He often comes home late, and occasionally comes back early. His father will help him with his homework, but his father can hardly accompany him on weekends because he is always busy.

Mother said this: My husband is often away from home, and my daughter's character is affected

Zhuge Changqing suggested that parents should lead their children to learn Disciple Rules together.

Di Zi Gui is the essence of Confucianism and the basic teaching material for family harmony and children's talent.

Learn disciple rules first, then other knowledge.

If the child is not filial, the more knowledge becomes more and more problematic.

If the father often works in other places, he should accompany the children at least on Saturday and Sunday. Let children feel happy and happy.

Chen Anyi, a senior reporter from Taiwan, recently wrote an article that resonated with many people. She put forward the concept of "fake single mother", that is, the husband is busy at work, comes home very late, and can't speak to the child two words a day, or goes out early and returns late, and can't see the face of the child. Sometimes, even if the husband stays at home on Sunday, he is only limited to eating, sleeping, watching TV and playing games. Usually, neither of his eyes is placed on the child or his mother.

Ms. Lei, who lives in Chang'an District, Xi'an City, thinks she is a fake single mother. Her husband works in communication engineering. She stays away for years and occasionally comes back on weekends. She is a full-time wife. Ms. Lei said that she could not cook before giving birth to a child, and she did not care about water and electricity at home. Since her husband worked outside, she has taken care of everything at home and brought children alone. After his husband comes back at the weekend, he will drive his wife and his wife out to "let them go". "Only at this time, can he feel like a home. The daughter who is more than 2 years old is unfamiliar with her father because she has not seen him for a long time, and sometimes is unwilling to let him hold her." Zhuge Changqing believes that in this case, the father should often go home to care for his children, educate them, and let his wife and children get care.

Ms. Lei said: "A child can't grow up without his father's company. A father can give the child a sense of security. Her daughter is now timid and introverted. I think it has a lot to do with her father's lack of company."

Dad said this: "Dad at the weekend" is very helpless. We have to support our family first and then love

Mr. Liang, a citizen, is a software engineer with a 3-year-old daughter. Speaking of the company of children, Mr. Liang admitted that without his wife, he did not work well. His working hours were very irregular and he often went on business trips. In most cases, he could only go home on weekends.

Mr. Liang said that it was because he had children that he had to concentrate more on his work than before. "The reality is that you have to support your family hard before you can say love."

He said that if he didn't go on business, he would spend about 13 hours on work every day, and sometimes he would need an extra shift. "When I get home, I feel tired and dizzy. In most cases, I will not spend any time with my children."

In order to solve the problem of children's education, Mr. Liang often quarrels with his wife, and often reflects on how little time he spends with his children. "But sometimes his strength is not enough." Zhuge Changqing believes that it is important to make money, but as long as life is basically guaranteed, it is good. There is no need to become a billionaire or something. Think about it. Life is a hundred years. Is it worth sacrificing family harmony and happiness?

Only by accompanying children often can we find and correct problems

The son of Mr. Liu Benben, a citizen of Xi'an, is 8 years old and is in the second grade of primary school. He enjoys the time with his children very much. When he comes home from work, he likes to chat with his son everywhere. As long as he is free on weekends, he will take his son to the library, the college gate and other places.

"A father must have a broader vision than a mother." Mr. Liu believes that in family education, boys should be made masculine and girls gentle. The existence of a father is crucial. Nowadays, many fathers have lost the company and education of their children on the pretext of working hard to earn money, which has led to many phenomena of "feminization of boys and feminization of girls".

Mr. Liu said that when his son was in kindergarten, he said goodbye to him once, and that gesture suddenly made him feel like a girl. He was a little worried, and became even more worried after learning about it in the kindergarten. There was no male teacher in the whole kindergarten, only one chef was male. "I told the teacher about my worries, but the teacher, as a woman, didn't realize it at all." Mr. Liu said that it was because of constant companionship that he noticed the changes of the child and corrected some problems in time. For example, when his son stood up, Mr. Liu would often remind him to stand up and raise his head, "A man should stand up."

Expert opinion: Father ranks behind netizens in the ranking of "confiding objects of middle school students"

"I hope that fathers can remember their roles." Yesterday, at the "Red Scarf Lecture Hall" held by the Provincial Youth League Committee and the Provincial Youth Working Committee, Sun Yunxiao, the deputy director of the China Youth Research Center, the vice president of the China Youth Research Association, the chief editor of the magazine Children's Research, and the famous educator, suggested earnestly that fathers should not be absent from their children's education.

Sun Yunxiao published a famous reportage in 1993, "The Battle of Summer Camp", which recorded that during a grassland exploration summer camp held in Inner Mongolia in August 1992, Chinese children

There is a huge gap between Japanese children and Japanese children in terms of physical quality and viability. CCTV said that this article promoted the transformation of Chinese education from exam-oriented education to quality education. At the beginning of 1994, the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League and the National Youth Working Committee launched the "China Youth Young Eagle Action", which is also based on the influence of this article.

"The lack of family education has been very serious. According to the survey data, in the minds of middle school children, the number one is same-sex friends and the second is heterosexual friends. Mothers barely squeeze into the top five. Only less than 20% choose fathers, ranking sixth and even behind 'netizens'." Sun Yunxiao said. Sun Yunxiao used a picture with the theme of elephant to tell the importance of his father in education. "According to the observation of zoologists, after the elephant group loses its adult male elephant, the small elephant, especially the small male elephant, will become more aggressive. The same is true of human beings. According to the research of American sociologists, it is found that seven out of the prisoners in custody lack fatherly love."

Adolescents need idols. Sun Yunxiao believes that fathers are more qualified to become role models. For boys, they can become the goal of efforts, and for girls, they can become the benchmark for measuring the opposite sex. "With an example, children are not easily confused."

Sun Yunxiao explained that the two main directions of human life character should include intimacy and independence, and intimacy is mainly brought by mother. "The mother takes care of the child very tightly, and the range of activities for the child is very small, while the father is more able to deal with emergencies. Generally, taking the child will release the initiative of the child, and give the child a sense of novelty and excitement. When he is young, he will fly high and low with the child, and when he grows up, he will exercise and take risks with him, and show strength, authority, and strain when necessary." Therefore, the father should teach the child to be brave, and the children brought up by the mother, especially boys, They are often gentle and even cowardly, with poor independence and resilience. Sun Yunxiao urged fathers to spend more time with their children no matter how busy they are at work.

Expert: fatherly love affects children's intelligence and social interaction

Du Cuihong, a national second-level psychological consultant and Shaanxi Sunshine Psychological Research Institute, said that fatherly love also has a great impact on children's intelligence. A survey conducted by researchers from the University of Michigan found that children who had more opportunities to contact with their fathers had advantages in sensitivity to external stimuli, sense of independence in life and self-confidence in learning. More information shows that children who often stay with their mothers have more interest in novelty and stronger social skills, while children who deal with their fathers more often have higher math scores. Children are more willing to observe and imitate their father's behavior frequently, which has a beneficial impact on their learning ability and problem-solving ability. If the relationship between father and son or father and daughter is relatively negative, it will have a negative impact on children's intellectual development and learning ability.

In addition, fathers have a greater impact on children's social interaction. With the growth of children's age, the scope of exploration of external things gradually increases, and the demand for interpersonal communication is gradually strong, which no longer meets the social categories and methods given by the mother. The father brings the children fresh stimulation of external society, rich social experience, and meet the psychological needs of the children.

(Duan Xiaoning, Zhao Ruili, Yang Haoting, intern Wang Cui, the reporter of "China Business Network - China Business Daily", selected from the network)

阿弥陀佛。养不教，父之过，天下父母要警醒啊。

---- 诸葛长青

   阿弥陀佛。

   福生无量天尊。

   大成至圣先师孔子。

   儒家思想，核心是教化人心、造福社会，修身齐家治国平天下。

   要平天下先治国，要治国先齐家，要齐家先修身。

     如何修身？要从洒扫清除、孝亲尊师、家庭和睦开始。

    诸葛长青研究认为，儒家思想用“忠孝仁义”推动社会健康发展。

   可是，近些年来，人们淡化了儒家思想，忽略了孝道、忽略了家庭和睦，慢慢被拜金主义、自由主义、个人主义等冲散了。

   没有儒家思想，社会开始出现问题。

   最可怕的是，家庭孩子不服从管理。

   现在社会很多家庭子女出现了问题。

   很多子女不听话、不服管理，冲撞父母、顶撞老师，给祖先抹黑。

   很多富二代，做了很多错事，令人惋惜、令人心寒。

   《弟子规》上说，“父母呼、应勿缓”。你看看周围，父母呼叫孩子，孩子有几个立刻答应的？

   《弟子规》上说，“父母命、行勿懒”。你看看周围，父母安排孩子，孩子有几个立刻行动的？

   《弟子规》上说，“父母教、需敬听”。你看看周围，父母教育孩子，孩子有几个立刻耐心接受的？

   《弟子规》上说，“父母责、需顺承”。你看看周围，父母批评孩子，孩子有几个立刻柔顺承受的？

   当父母的要惊醒啊......

   我们欣喜的看到，国内许多有识之士，自觉发起了传播弟子规、传播孝道等等活动，尤其是以陈大惠等为代表的有志者，发起了中华传统文化论坛，大力倡导孝道教育，起到了很大作用。

   社会各界要全力以赴推进弟子规教育。让弟子规进入千家万户。

   诸葛长青认为，家庭子女教育问题追其根本，是因为没有用儒家思想、没有孝道、没有父母的关爱。

   《三字经》上说：养不教、父之过。

   而现在很多家庭，多是当妈妈的带孩子。

   而当父亲的整天忙着赚钱、交朋友，所谓开拓人际关系、所谓建立人脉。

   可怜的孩子们，缺少了父亲的教导，就缺少自立自强的信心。

   父亲如山，给孩子信心、刚强，是孩子的坚强后盾，托起孩子成长的基石。没有父爱的孩子，内心充满自卑、容易暴躁、容易叛逆......

   母爱如水，给孩子以慈爱、关心，是孩子的温柔被窝，给孩子成长的关爱。没有母爱的孩子，内心冷若冰霜、冷漠无情、自私自利......

   诸葛长青认为，天下的父母都要重视父母的同时教育。不能把孩子扔给当妈妈的。自己花天酒地、当了潇洒哥。

   养不教、父之过。

   当父亲的要承担责任啊。

   诸葛长青推荐“华商网-华商报”一篇好文章“爸爸，你再不陪我我就长大了”

       父爱是伟大的，但对什么才是父爱的理解，也许不尽相同。有一句话是这样讲的：真正的爱，必须让孩子看见你的存在，和你一起玩耍，聆听你的教导，在你的关注和关爱中健康成长。

　　孩子这样说:和爸爸在一起玩我很快乐

　　6月12日，本报对西安市未央区西航三校四年级六班的52名学生做了调查(数据见制图)。对于众多孩子喜欢爸爸陪伴的原因，孩子们给出这样的说法：“和爸爸在一起玩很快乐。”男生阳阳说“我们可以一起健身”；男生小旭表示“爸爸总会讲一些笑话”；男生豪豪说“因为妈妈废话很多”；女生文文说“平时都是妈妈陪，所以更喜欢爸爸陪”，也有小朋友表示“因为爸爸很大方”，女生然然写出的理由是“因为爸爸总带我出去玩，妈妈总让我学习”；女生小雨说“因为爸爸会给我讲很多知识”。

　　喜欢妈妈陪伴的理由是什么呢？女生欣欣说“妈妈懂得我心理，爸爸却很吃力”；大部分喜欢妈妈陪伴的理由是“更关心我”。

　　爸爸总是很忙,希望能多陪陪我

　　问起最想对爸爸说的一句话，52个孩子中有31个孩子写的都是：“爸爸，我爱你！”但还有不少孩子对爸爸提出愿望：希望爸爸少喝酒、希望老板让爸爸到西安上班、希望爸爸少玩电脑多陪他们、希望爸爸别老去外面吃饭。这些提出希望的孩子大都拥有一个“周末爸爸”或“深夜爸爸”，调查中这些爸爸占到 48%。

　　女孩马睿怡的爸爸在宝鸡当老师，只有周末才会回到西安和家人团聚。马睿怡说，爸爸平时都不回家，她总是和妈妈在一起，周末爸爸回家后就会陪她练字、画画，她特别希望能和爸爸妈妈出去旅游，“上一次一起出游还是4岁，爸爸带我去了凤县。”

　　“我爸爸每天都很忙，我很少能见到他。”胡天翼的爸爸在高陵一家医院当工人，经常很晚才回家，偶尔回来得早，爸爸就会给他辅导作业，但周末爸爸几乎不能陪他，因为他总是很忙。

　　妈妈这样说：老公常不在家,女儿性格受影响

　　诸葛长青建议，当父母的要带领孩子一起学习《弟子规》。

   《弟子规》，是儒家精华，是让家庭和谐、让子女成才的基本教材。

   先学弟子规，然后是其他的知识。

   如果孩子不孝顺，知识越多越出问题。

   如果当父亲经常在外地工作，至少周六周日要陪孩子。让孩子感到自己很幸福、很开心。

   台湾资深记者陈安仪最近写了一篇文章引起很多人共鸣，她提出了“假性单亲妈妈”的概念，就是老公工作很忙、很晚回家、一天跟孩子说不到两句话，或是早出晚归、见不到孩子的面。有时候，即使老公星期天待在家里，也只限于吃饭、睡觉、看电视、打游戏，通常两只眼睛都不会摆在孩子或孩子的妈身上。

　　家住西安市长安区的雷女士觉得自己就是假性单亲妈妈，她老公是做通信工程的，长年驻在外地，周末偶尔回来，她则是全职太太。雷女士说，生孩子前她不会做饭，家里水电气什么事她都不管。自从丈夫在外工作后，她除了打理家里所有事情外，还单独带孩子。老公周末回来后，会开车带娘俩出门“放风”，“只有这个时候，才觉得像个家。2岁多的女儿因为长期见不到爸爸，对爸爸有了陌生感，有时候都不愿意让爸爸抱。”诸葛长青认为，这种情况，当爸爸的更要经常回家关心子女，教育孩子，让妻子孩子得到关爱。

　　雷女士说：“孩子的成长，不能没有父亲的陪伴。父亲能给孩子安全感，女儿现在有些胆小内向，我觉得和父亲陪伴少有很大关系。”

　　爸爸这样说：“周末爸爸”很无奈,得先养家再说爱

　　市民梁先生是一名软件工程师，有个3岁的女儿。说到对孩子的陪伴，梁先生承认，没有妻子做得好，他的工作时间很不固定，经常出差，大多情况下只有周末才能回家。

　　梁先生说，正是因为有了孩子，他才要比以前更加专注工作。“现实就是，你得先拼命养家，其次才能说爱。”

　　他说，如果不出差的话，他几乎每天用在工作上的时间在13个小时左右，有时候还需要加个班。“回到家就累得晕头转向的，多数情况都不会再花心思陪孩子了。”

　　为了孩子的教育问题，梁先生也没少和妻子拌嘴，也经常反省陪孩子的时间太少了，“但有时候确实力不从心。”诸葛长青认为，赚钱很重要，但是只要生活基本有保障，就很好，没必要非要成为亿万富翁什么的。想一想，人生就是一百年，牺牲了家庭和谐幸福，是否值得呢？

　　经常陪伴孩子,才会发现并纠正问题

　　西安市民刘先生的儿子奔奔今年8岁，上小学二年级。他很享受和孩子在一起的时光，下班回家后，他喜欢和儿子天南海北什么都聊。周末只要有空，他就会带儿子去图书馆、书院门等地方。

　　“当父亲的肯定比母亲视野开阔些。”刘先生认为，家庭教育中，应该让男孩子阳刚，让女孩子温柔，父亲的存在是至关重要的。现在很多父亲都以工作忙挣钱为由，少了对孩子的陪伴和教育，导致很多“男孩女性化，女孩女汉子”的现象。

　　刘先生说，儿子上幼儿园时，有一次和他说再见，那个手势突然让他觉得像个女孩。他有些担忧，到幼儿园了解后更加担忧，整个幼儿园没有一名男老师，只有一个大厨是男的。“我就给老师说了我的担忧，可老师作为女性，根本意识不到。”刘先生说，正是因为经常陪伴，才会注意到孩子的变化，并及时纠正一些问题，比如儿子站立时，刘先生会经常提醒他挺胸抬头，“男子汉就要站有站姿。”

　　专家观点：“中学生倾诉对象”排名,父亲排在网友后面

　　“希望父亲们能记住自己的角色。”昨日，在团省委、省少工委举办的“红领巾大讲堂”上，中国青少年研究中心副主任、中国青少年研究会副会长、《少年儿童研究》杂志总编辑、著名教育家孙云晓语重心长地建议，父亲们不要在孩子的教育中缺位。

　　孙云晓1993年曾发表过一篇著名的报告文学——《夏令营的较量》，记录了1992年8月在内蒙古举行的一次草原探险夏令营活动中，中国孩子在

　　身体素质、生存能力方面和日本孩子存在巨大差距。央视称此文推动了中国教育由应试教育向素质教育的转变。1994年初，共青团中央、全国少工委发起“中国少年雏鹰行动”，也是基于此文的影响。

　　“家庭教育的缺失已经非常严峻，根据调研数据，中学孩子心目中寻求解决问题的途径和倾诉者的排名，排在第一的是同性朋友，第二位是异性朋友，母亲勉强挤进前五，选父亲的只占不足20%，排在第六，甚至在‘网友’后面。”孙云晓说。孙云晓用一张以大象为主题的照片讲述父亲在教育中的重要性。“根据动物学家的观察，象群失去成年公象以后，小象尤其是小公象就会变得更富有攻击性。人也是如此。根据美国社会学家的调研，发现在押罪犯中有七成都是缺乏父爱的。”

　　青少年阶段都会需要偶像。孙云晓认为，父亲更具备成为榜样的条件，对男孩而言，可以成为努力的目标，对女孩而言，可成为衡量异性的标杆。“有了榜样，孩子不容易迷茫。”

　　孙云晓解释说，人一生性格的两大方向应该包括亲密性和独立性，亲密性主要由母亲带来。“母亲带孩子都抓得很紧，给孩子活动的范围很小，而父亲更有能力应对突发情况，一般带孩子会放开孩子的主动性，给孩子新鲜感和刺激感，小时候抱着孩子飞高荡低，长大后带着他运动、冒险，必要时展现出力量、权威、应变等。”因此，父亲应该教会孩子担当勇敢，而由母亲带大的孩子尤其男孩，往往温柔甚至性格懦弱，独立性和应变力较差。孙云晓劝诫父亲们，不论工作多忙，一定要多抽时间陪孩子。

　　专家：父爱影响孩子智力和社交

　　陕西阳光心理研究所、国家二级心理咨询师杜翠红表示，父爱对孩子的智力影响也很大。美国密执安大学科研所人员调查发现，有较多机会与父亲接触的孩子对外界刺激的敏感性、生活独立感和学习自信心具有优势。更多资料显示，常与母亲在一起的孩子对新奇事物兴趣更浓、社交能力更强，而与父亲打交道多的孩子数学成绩较高。孩子更乐意经常观察和模仿父亲的行为，对他学习能力和解决问题能力产生有利影响。如果父子或父女关系比较消极，对孩子的智力发展及学习能力产生负性影响。

　　此外，父亲对孩子的社会交往产生更大的影响。随着孩子年龄的增长，对外界事物的探索范围逐步增大，对人际交往的需求逐渐强烈，不再满足母亲之前给予的社交范畴和方式，父亲则带给孩子外界社会的新鲜刺激，丰富的社会阅历，满足孩子的心理需求。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

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