We should learn to be grateful: what is gratitude?
做人要学会感恩：什么是感恩？
amitabha. Gratitude is to be grateful for everything with sincerity
------Zhuge Changqing
amitabha.
Without parents, we have no life;
Without heaven and earth, we cannot stand;
Without our motherland, we cannot live in peace;
We cannot live without the people;
Without sunshine, we can't see clearly;
Without rain and dew, we can't drink;
Without Buddha, Bodhisattva and sages, we have no wisdom;
Without the PLA and the armed police, we have no security;
Without all industries and professions, we have no harmony;
Without teachers, we cannot learn knowledge;
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amitabha. We should be grateful.
Zhuge Changqing believes that one should be grateful for living in the world.
Only with a heart of gratitude can we conform to the principles of heaven and earth and continue to develop.
Those who are grateful have great blessings. This is the virtue of heaven.
We should be grateful for everything. With a heart of gratitude, heaven and earth will bless you with energy.
Zhuge Changqing believes that we should be grateful for the heaven and earth, the Buddha and Bodhisattva, the good gods, the sages, the parents, the motherland, the leaders, the People's Liberation Army, the armed police, and people from all walks of life As parents, we should not only take the lead in thanksgiving, but also educate our children to be grateful. As a leader, we should not only be grateful for ourselves, but also drive our subordinate employees to be grateful
Gratitude is to express gratitude for the help given by others. It is a philosophy of life and also a great wisdom in life. A wise man should not haggle over what he does not have, nor should he blindly take and inflate his selfish desire. Learn to be grateful, be grateful for what you have, and appreciate everything life gives you.
When Zhuge Changqing studied the traditional culture such as the "Disciple Regulations" with the Chinese traditional culture research communicator, the Buddha's great light, the Buddha's light shines on the universe, the auspicious rain, and Tang Ning, everyone agreed that it was very important for children to learn to be grateful.
Zhuge Changqing saw a good article written by the benevolent Buddhist monk on the "Buddhist Learning Network" - "Gratitude, what is feeling? What is grace?" shared with the predestined.
A girl had a big fight with her mother and rushed out of the door in anger. She decided not to go back to this disgusting home again!
She spent the whole day wandering outside, purring when she was hungry, but it happened that she didn't bring money out, but she couldn't bear to go home for dinner.
Until evening, she came to a noodle stall and smelled the fragrance.
She really wants to eat a bowl, but she has no money and can only swallow water.
Suddenly, the owner of the noodle stall asked kindly, "Little girl, do you want to eat noodles?"
She replied sheepishly, "Well, I don't have any money with me."
The boss laughed and said, "Ha ha, it doesn't matter. It's my treat today!
The girl couldn't believe her ears. She sat down. After a while, the noodles came, and she ate with relish and said, "Boss, you are so nice!"
The boss said, "Oh? What do you say?"
The girl replied, "We don't know each other, but you are so kind to me. Unlike my mother, you don't understand my needs and ideas at all. It's really annoying!"
The boss smiled again: "Ha ha, little girl, I just gave you a bowl of noodles, and you are so grateful to me. Then your mother has cooked for you for more than 20 years. Aren't you more grateful to her?"
Hearing what the boss said, the girl suddenly woke up from a dream and burst into tears! She didn't care to eat the half bowl of noodles left, and immediately ran home.
When she arrived at the alley in front of her house, the girl saw her mother from a distance and was anxiously looking around the door. Her heart immediately pulled together!
The girl felt sorry a thousand times and wanted to tell her mother. But before she could speak, she saw that her mother had come forward and said, "Oh, where have you been all day? I'm so worried! Come in and wash your hands and have dinner."
That night, the girl deeply realized her mother's love for her.
Zhuge Changqing suggested that everyone in the world should tell this story to their family, to their younger generation, to their children, and to all the people who are destined. The story is simple and clear, thought-provoking and touching. It will make people feel grateful.
In real life, we often ignore what we have and take it for granted. For what we don't have, we will complain about the unfairness of fate, as if the world owes us a lot.
In fact, gratitude can also be a positive attitude towards life. As some people have heard, be grateful to those who hurt you, because they have tempered your will; Appreciate those who cheat you, because they enrich your experience; Be grateful to those who despise you, because they have awakened your self-respect... Be grateful to your fate with a grateful heart. Be grateful for everything that is mature for you and everything around you.
To have a grateful heart, we need to observe with our heart, feel with our heart, and love with our heart. The vegetation grows vigorously in order to repay the grace of spring; The birds search for food desperately in order to repay the kindness of feeding; The seedlings grow vigorously in order to repay the moist grace of the stream; Children work hard to repay their parents for their upbringing.
Learn to be grateful! You are grateful for life, and life will give you brilliant sunshine; You may end up with nothing! isn't it? The clouds are rolling and the flowers are blooming and falling. We should appreciate the moon and the sun!
What are the ten greatest blessings?
1. The grace of heaven and earth. People live between heaven and earth. Food and clothing take the essence of heaven and earth, enjoy the light of the sun and the moon, grow healthily, and enjoy life. We should repay the kindness of heaven and earth, and take care of the environment. Heaven is the top, and the ground is the seat. It is our feelings, and it is our responsibility.
2. The kindness of parents. The baby is conceived in October, and the baby is delivered in one day. The baby is carefully fed, painstakingly raised, and the baby is expected to be a success. Children travel thousands of miles and mothers are worried, and the success or failure of cold and warm is in the minds of parents. Parents' great kindness should be reported for life. Don't be unfilial offspring.
3. Good teacher training. A person's education, from the beginning of enlightenment, the role of teachers is huge, sometimes even decisive. Whether learning literature and martial arts, or studying film, industry, agriculture, business, or scientific research, if guided by a good teacher, they will benefit or determine the direction and future for life. The grace of your teacher should be rewarded with rings. Zhuge Changqing believes that we should also thank Confucius, Laozi, Mencius and other sages for giving us wisdom, Confucius' Confucianism, Laozi's Taoism, Sakyamuni Buddha's Buddhism, and sages for the "University", "The Doctrine of the Mean", "The Analects of Confucius", "Mencius", "The Book of Changes", "The Four Commandments of the Liaofan", "Heart Sutra", "Disciple's Rules", "Tao Te Ching", "South China Sutra" The Vajra Sutra, the Sutra of the Six Ancestors, the Sutra of the Earth, the Sutra of Dharma, the Sutra of Huayan, the Sutra of Amitabha and other classics.
4. Thank you for your help. Thousands of miles of horses are often there, but Bole is not often there. How many thousands of miles of horses are depressed and frustrated, and finally become a sleeping horse? In one's life, if you can meet one or two noble people who appreciate you and give you opportunities (superiors, respected people, dignitaries, etc.), you will struggle for many years less. Don't forget your kindness.
5. A wise man is good at giving advice. There are many steps to take in one's life, but the key is just a few steps. From being lost, learning is disoriented, the subject is blocked, and life is disoriented. If there are wise people (not necessarily those with higher education than you, but more importantly those with more experience than you) who give guidance at the critical time, and give thought sparks, so that you can either make a breakthrough and avoid getting into the wrong direction, or stop at the precipice to avoid going astray and falling into a hopeless situation, so as to have a bright future. The kindness of pointing out the maze should be doubled.
6. The grace of rescuing from danger. In life, it is inevitable that there will be some bumps and bumps in life. There will be unexpected circumstances, and people will have sudden misfortunes and blessings. In the event of emergency, when the body is in a desperate situation, friends or passers-by will show their skills in the time of crisis, pay money and even bleed, so that they can survive in a desperate situation. What a great kindness! In life, when there is nothing, there are many friends. Once there is something, there are more excuses.
7. The green leaves foil the grace. A hero has three gangs, and the red flower needs green leaves. In one's life, there will be more or less opportunities to stand alone. The support and cooperation from parallel organizations and internal organizations will help him to hold the scene smoothly and win the glory of life. When you become a red flower, don't forget the foil of the green leaves around you and behind you.
8. The husband and wife are considerate. The husband and wife are birds of the same fate, and support each other when the disaster comes. Every successful person can't do without the support and dedication of the other half. The husband and wife jointly manage the family, have children, support the old and feed the young, and share weal and woe. One day the husband and wife still owe 100 days. Don't be swallowed by the customs of utilitarian society.
9. Brotherhood. Brothers, like brothers and sisters, are the blood of their parents, the genetic inheritance of their parents, the growth of the same family, and the hope of their parents. The same family has the same root. Although the brotherhood destroyed by money and power is a rare phenomenon, we should not take it as a warning. Brotherhood is deep and brotherly.
10. The kindness of knowing each other. The world of mortals is full of worries. Everyone is faced with many worries, such as the dignitaries of temples, farmers of villages, and merchants of cities. There is more or less unspeakable pain in their hearts. In the vast sea of people, if there is one or several people who understand your hair, beauty, blue face, forgetfulness If you can share your happiness and pain in time, life is wonderful because of your confidant, you must be grateful and cherish it.
Gratitude is a kind of life attitude. Always be grateful, repay virtue with virtue, show gratitude with gratitude, be worthy of your heart, and walk freely in the world!
(Reference materials for this article: articles and online pictures of Benevolent Buddhist scholars on "Xuefo Network")
阿弥陀佛。感恩，就是用真诚心感恩一切......
------ 诸葛长青
阿弥陀佛。
没有父母，我们没有生命；
没有天地，我们无法立足；
没有祖国，我们无法安身；
没有人民，我们无法生存；
没有阳光，我们无法明目；
没有雨露，我们无法饮水；
没有佛菩萨、圣贤，我们没有智慧；
没有解放军、武警，我们没有安全；
没有各行业、职业，我们没有和谐；
没有老师，我们无法学到知识；
......
阿弥陀佛。我们要感恩啊。
诸葛长青认为，一个人生存于世界，要知道感恩。
有感恩之心，才会符合天地之道道，才会持续发展。
感恩的人，有巨大福报，这是天德，功德很大。
我们要感恩一切，有了感恩之心，天地会给你加持能量。
诸葛长青认为，我们要感恩天地、感恩佛菩萨、感恩善神、感恩圣贤、感恩父母、感恩祖国、感恩领导人、感恩解放军、感恩武警、感恩社会各个行业的人......作为父母，不仅要自己带头感恩，而且要教育子女感恩。作为领导，不仅自己要感恩，还要带动下属员工感恩......
感恩，是对别人所给的帮助表示感激，是一种处世哲学，也是生活中的大智慧。一个智慧的人，不应该为自己没有的斤斤计较，也不应该一味索取和使自己的私欲膨胀。学会感恩，为自己已有的而感恩，感谢生活给予你的一切。
诸葛长青在和国学研究传播者佛国大光明、佛光照乾坤、吉祥雨、唐宁老师等一起研究《弟子规》等传统文化时，大家一致认为，让子女学会感恩十分重要。
诸葛长青看到仁德居士在“学佛网”写了一篇好文章---《感恩，什么是感？什么是恩？》分享给有缘者。
有个女孩跟妈妈大吵了一架，气得夺门而出，决定再也不要回到这个讨厌的家了！
一整天她都在外面闲逛，肚子饿的咕噜咕噜叫，但偏偏又没带钱出来，可又拉不下脸回家吃饭。
一直到了晚上，她来到一家面摊旁，闻到了阵阵香味。
她真是好想吃一碗，但身上又没钱，只能不住的吞口水。
忽然，面摊老板亲切的问：“小姑娘，你要不要吃面啊？”
她不好意思地回答：“嗯！可是，我没有带钱。”
老板听了大笑：“哈哈，没关系，今天就算我请客吧！
女孩简直不敢相信自己的耳朵，她坐下来。不一会儿，面来了，她吃得津津有味，并说：“老板，你人真好！”
老板说：“哦？怎么说？”
女孩回答：“我们素不相识，你却对我那么好，不像我妈，根本不了解我的需要和想法，真气人！”
老板又笑了：“哈哈，小姑娘，我不过才给你一碗面而已，你就这么感激我，那么你妈妈帮你煮了二十几年的饭，你不是更应该感激她吗？”
听老板这么一讲，女孩顿时如大梦初醒，眼泪瞬间夺眶而出！她顾不得吃剩下的半碗面，立刻飞奔回家。
才到家门前的巷口，女孩远远地看到妈妈，正焦急地在门口四处张望，她的心立刻揪在一起！
女孩感觉有一千遍一万遍的对不起想对妈妈说。但她还没来得及开口，就见妈妈已迎上前来：“哎呀！你一整天跑去哪里了啊？急死我了！快进家把手洗一洗，吃晚饭了。”
这天晚上，这个女孩才深刻体会到妈妈对她的爱。
诸葛长青建议：天下有缘者都把这个故事告诉家人、告诉晚辈、告诉子女、告诉给所有的有缘者听。这个故事简单明了，令人深思、令人感动。会让人内心发出感恩之心。
在现实生活中，我们往往忽视了自己已有的，认为他们是理所当然，对于自己没有的，又会抱怨命运的不公，仿佛这个世界欠我们很多。
其实，感恩也可以是一种积极的生活态度。正如有些人听说，要感激那些伤害你的人，因为他磨练了你的意志；感激那些欺骗你的人，因为他丰富了你的经验；感激那些轻视你的人，因为他觉醒了你的自尊…要怀着一颗感恩的心，感谢命运，感激一切是你成熟的人，感恩周围的一切。
拥有感恩的心，需要我们用心去观察，用心去感悟，更需要我们去爱。草木旺盛地生长，为的是报答春晖之恩；鸟儿拼命觅食，为的是报答哺育之恩；禾苗茁壮地成长，为的是报答溪水的滋润之恩；孩子努力学习，为的是报答父母的养育之恩。
学会感恩吧！你感恩生活，生活将赐予你灿烂的阳光；你怨天尤人，最终可能一无所有！不是吗?云卷云舒，花开花落都值得我们去珍惜，感激月亮，更要感激太阳！
知恩感恩，什么是十大恩？
1、天地呵护之恩。人在天地之间，衣食取天地之精华，享日月之灵光，健壮成长，享度一生。应报天地之恩，爱护环境，天为顶、地为席、是情怀，更是责任。
2、父母养育之恩。十月怀胎，一朝分娩，精心喂养，呕心沥血，养育成人，望子成龙，极尽财力精力。儿行千里母担忧，冷暖成败均在父母惦记之中。父母大恩终身当报。切莫做不孝子孙。
3、良师培养之恩。一个人所受教育，从启蒙开始，教师的作用是巨大的，有时甚至是决定性的。无论学文习武，还是士工农商影戏科研，如遇良师导引，终身受益或决定方向前程。恩师之恩当衔环相报。诸葛长青认为，我们还要感恩孔子、老子、孟子等圣贤给我们智慧，感恩孔子的儒家思想、感恩老子的道家思想、感恩释迦牟尼佛的佛家思想，感恩圣贤他们给人家留下的《大学》、《中庸》、《论语》、《孟子》、《易经》、《了凡四训》、《心经》《弟子规》、《道德经》、《南华经》、《金刚经》、《六祖坛经》、《地藏经》、《法华经》、《华严经》、《阿弥陀经》等等经典。
4、贵人提携之恩。千里马常在，伯乐不常有，多少千里马郁郁不得志，更终成为卧槽马？人的一生，如果能遇到一两位赏识自己并给自己机会的贵人（上司、尊者、权贵等），将会少奋斗很多年的。贵人之恩，没齿不忘。
5、智者指点之恩。人的一生有很多步路要走，但关键的就那么几步。小至迷路，学无方向，课题阻滞，大至人生迷向，若有智者（不一定是学历比你高的人，更多的是那些阅历比你广的长者）在关键时予以指点，施以思想火花，让你或者茅塞顿开少钻牛角尖，或者悬崖勒马免入歧途，避免走上歧途陷入绝境，从而前途一片光明。指点迷津之恩当加倍相报。
6、危难救急之恩。人生在世，难免有些磕磕碰碰，天有不测风云，人有旦夕祸福，遭遇急难之事、身处于绝境之时，友人或路人在危难之时显身手，出钱出力甚至出血，使己绝处逢生，此恩莫大善焉！生活中，没事时，朋友很多，一旦有事，借口更多。
7、绿叶烘托之恩。一个好汉三个帮，红花需要绿叶衬，一个人的一生，多少会有那么几次独挡一面的机会，来自平行组织和组织内部的支持与配合，使自己顺利撑住场面，赢得人生的辉煌。当你成为红花时，不要忘记身边和身后的那些绿叶的烘托之恩。
8、夫妻体贴之恩。夫妻本是同命鸟，大难来时互扶持。每个成功的人士，都离不了另一半的支持奉献。夫妻共同经营家庭，生儿育女，赡老哺幼，同苦共甘。一日夫妻还百日恩。夫妻之恩切莫被功利社会之俗所吞。
9、兄弟手足之恩。兄弟如手足，同是父母的血脉，同是父母基因遗传，同一家庭成长，同是父母的希望。同样的亲情同一个根。被钱权利色毁灭的手足情虽是极个别现象，不可不引以为戒。兄弟情深，手足之恩。
10、知己相知之恩。红尘滚滚多烦忧，庙堂之显贵、村野之农夫、都市之商贾，每个人都面临很多烦忧之事，内心都或多或少有些说不出的苦。茫茫人海中，如果有那么一位或几位懂你的发小、红颜、蓝颜、忘年交......能及时分享你的幸福，及时分担你的痛苦，人生因为知己而精彩，一定要心怀感恩，倍加珍惜。
感恩，是一种生活态度，常怀感恩之心，以德报德，知恩图报，无愧于心，潇洒坦然在人世间走一回！
（本文参考资料：“学佛网”仁德居士文章、网络图片）
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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.
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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream
Learn from sages and carry forward virtue
Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world
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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。
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