Teacher Zhao said cause and effect: changing fate begins with filial piety and supporting parents

赵老师说因果：改命运从孝顺供养父母开始

Amitabha. To change our destiny, we should be filial to our parents, respect our teachers, stop evil and do good.

-----Zhuge Changqing

Everyone says to change fate.

Change fate depends on cause and effect.

Good cause and effect requires doing good from stopping evil.

To stop evil and do good, we should start from honoring our parents.

Zhuge Changqing invites those who are destined to settle down, sit down and settle accounts for themselves:

How many times have you visited your parents?

How many times did you greet your parents?

What did you buy for your parents?

What have you done for your parents?

Have you ever contradicted your parents?

Have you ever hated your parents?

Have you ever scolded your parents?

Do you care about your parents?

Have you ever supported your parents?

Have you ever complained about your parents?

......

Zhuge Changqing suggested:

If you do well, continue to work hard;

If it is not done well, try to improve it;

If you have contradicted or resented your parents, you should kneel on your knees and repent.

If you want to make your parents live a long and healthy life, you can do three things well:

The first is to provide for parents with filial piety and let them worry about their finances (Zhuge Changqing suggested that if parents are not short of money, they can often buy goods, organize them to travel, do some things they like, and so on. Think about the appropriate way for themselves)

The second is to make parents happy and laugh for ten years (Zhuge Changqing suggested that we should find ways to make parents become cheerful and optimistic, say something to make them proud and happy for you, and so on, so that parents will be happy every day. When we are happy, we will be happy physically and mentally, and we will live longer);

Third, we should do more good deeds such as releasing life, printing scriptures, and giving food, and then return our merits to our parents.

(Zhuge Changqing suggested that we can do more good deeds such as releasing life, giving food, donating and printing scriptures, donating money to build temples, and so on. We should return to the middle of the merit and virtue, and join in the return to the parents of the enemy relatives and creditors who have left the pain and happiness immediately, and return to the parents' health.)

amitabha.

We should be grateful to our parents, filial to them, and support them.

The Disciple Regulations said: parents should not delay their calls, parents should not be lazy in their orders and actions, parents should listen respectfully to their instructions, and parents should obey their responsibilities. For parents.

Confucius said in the Book of Filial Piety that "filial piety is the foundation of virtue".

The Sutra of the Infinite Life Buddha teaches the three blessings of pure karma: one is to be filial to parents, serve teachers, be merciful and not kill, and cultivate ten good karma; The second is to accept the three rules, and to abide by the precepts without violating the dignity; The third is to develop Bodhicitta, believe in cause and effect, read Mahayana, and persuade the progressives.

Zhuge Changqing studied the experience of successful people in ancient and modern times, and found a common characteristic. All people who have the fortune to repay success and who have a lasting reputation are those who respect their parents and do good deeds.

Speaking of the importance of filial piety to parents, it involves some causes and effects; Speaking of cause and effect, Zhuge Changqing recommended a teacher who spoke about cause and effect to the predestined: Zhao, teacher of Hongyu Culture Media.

With compassion and selfless dedication, Mr. Zhao has been preaching cause and effect, urging people to do good and accumulate virtue, and urging people to take the right path and learn the right method for ten years in a row. In addition, we have built teaching buildings, set up moral lecture halls, and trained talents from all over the country for free, which is immeasurable and admirable.

Miss Zhao spoke very well about cause and effect. She started from the things around her. It was easy to understand and understood at a glance. In addition, there were lecture videos.

The content of Zhao's lecture on cause and effect is gathered in the video of "Lecture on Cause and Effect Education in the World". You can search online to see it, or log in to Zhao's website "Hongyu Culture Media" and click to learn.

Teacher Zhao said that the cause and effect Hongyu Culture Media website: http://www.ihywh.com/ 。

If you want to learn how to talk about cause and effect, how to understand fate, and if you want to promote and spread traditional culture, you can also participate in free learning. They are located in Harbin, Heilongjiang. When you go, you'd better make a phone call and ask about your study plan.

1、 About Zhao Xiuying.

Zhuge Changqing: Amitabha. Miss Zhao, a talented woman, has a bodhisattva heart, practices the way of sages and sages, and is willing to talk about cause and effect, persuade people to do good, and change people's hearts. She has traveled all over the country and held more than 2000 public benefit lectures with witticism. Education has changed countless people. It is admirable.

Miss Zhao Xiuying, chairman of Hongyu Culture Media Co., Ltd., and national second-level psychological consultant.

In 2002, in response to the negative phenomenon caused by the lack of social moral education, Mr. Zhao devoted himself to the research and practice of moral education with his pure heart of caring for the country and the people, and with the compassion and fraternity of serving the motherland and benefiting humanity.

In 2004, she stepped onto the podium, starting with improving the moral quality education of the whole people, starting from the professional ethics of official ethics, business ethics, teachers' ethics, medical ethics and other professional ethics, to guide the people's outlook on life and values, so that people's hearts can be washed and purified, understand self-regulation, learn to self-examine and self-respect, use ethics to restrain themselves, and consciously abide by national laws and regulations. It injects "moral blood" into people's correct walk in life and brings "bright light of wisdom". Especially for the compulsory education of teenagers, for the future of the motherland, she has poured a lot of effort to make tens of thousands of children return to the normal life track, enter the ideal school, and let many families regain happiness.

Before the deadline, she had given more than 2000 lectures on moral education for the public. In order to enable this kind education to promote the realization of the Chinese dream of enriching the country and strengthening the people as soon as possible, she worked more than ten hours a day for ten years. She spared no effort, did not seek fame and fortune, and made selfless contributions. With her practical actions and all her efforts, she showed the world the noble moral sentiment of serving the people wholeheartedly.

2、 Mr. Zhao Hongyu Culture Media Co., Ltd.

Zhuge Changqing: Amitabha. Mr. Zhao set out to build a modern "Hongyu Culture School of Traditional Chinese Studies", including teaching buildings, accommodation and learning, with predestined friends. Here, she and the predestined people spread the thoughts of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, received and cultivated many kind-hearted people, spread the cause and effect principle throughout the people's hearts, and spread the culture of filial piety throughout the society, with great merit. Has made great contributions to the rise of the Chinese nation.

Hongyu Cultural Media Co., Ltd. is located in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, a beautiful ice city. It is a cultural media company with the mission of promoting moral education and building a harmonious society. It is a diversified education platform jointly established by many caring people led by Ms. Zhao Xiuying (a second-level psychological consultant), the chairman of the board of directors. It is mainly responsible for research, practice and obligation to undertake public welfare moral education for all sectors of society. It aims to improve the moral quality of the whole nation.

Over the years, Hongyu Company has launched a cultural and moral education system of Hongyu through research and practice aiming at the prominent contradictions and problems in the society, as well as social phenomena such as moral anomie and lack of integrity in some fields, and distortion of some social members' outlook on life and values. It draws on the essence of traditional culture and psychology, and with its unique educational philosophy and mode, it carries out free public lectures (which have now reached more than 2000 sessions). Relying on living facts, it analyzes, guides, and answers individual quality, family problems, social harmony, trivial matters, practical efforts, and natural disasters to human health.

At the same time, Hongyu Company has also answered hundreds of thousands of people's questions and doubts by means of telephone consultation, network consultation, visitor reception, etc. Up to now, the click-through rate of online video of Hongyu Moral Lecture has exceeded 7 million times.

The spread of Hongyu culture and moral education has spread to all provinces and cities in the country and overseas. Countless facts have proved that this new type of education is an awakening education born in response to the needs of the times! A kind of guidance education! A lifelong education that everyone needs!

In particular, the education of teenagers reflects the sense of responsibility and mission of all employees of Hongyu Company to the country and society. In view of many problems such as disobedience to parents, squandering money, early love and cohabitation that are common among teenagers, and in view of how to improve students' academic performance, improve their comprehensive quality, and solve employment problems, Hongyu Company uses the annual winter and summer holidays to carry out a voluntary youth moral education public welfare forum, and launched a video lecture album of youth moral education, and for teenagers with special problems and students who need further study with good learning foundation, We have carried out half-yearly compulsory training, benefiting tens of thousands of young people. They have learned to correct their words and deeds and use wisdom to deal with the problems they face; Learn how to be filial to parents, respect teachers, be grateful and tolerant; Cultivated the moral sentiment of self-improvement, solidarity and mutual assistance, honesty and trustworthiness, and love and dedication; It has laid a solid foundation for walking in life and becoming an excellent successor of the motherland in the future. In this case alone, the contribution of Hongyu Culture to the country cannot be measured in money.

Hongyu has become a gas station of life and the cradle of youth's success!

Hongyu, a diversified educational platform, is gradually showing its vitality, and continuously delivering the treasure of wisdom to more people.

I hope more people of insight will join in this great cause and contribute to the happiness and well-being of the people, the prosperity of the motherland and the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation!

3、 Teacher Zhao talks about cause and effect: why to change fate from filial piety to parents

Zhuge Changqing: Mr. Zhao said a lot, which was gathered in the "Lecture on earthly causal education". This lecture on earthly causal education covers all aspects:

The Current Cause and Effect Education corrects some problems such as evil knowledge and evil opinions, partial hearing and superstition, and superstitious activities of labor, people and money, so that people can establish correct knowledge and correct opinions and take the correct path of practice. Help the country to fundamentally solve the problem of educating and transforming ignorant believers.

The present cause and effect education is to improve the quality of the whole people, the best education to build spiritual civilization, and the code of conduct and guide for all walks of life. In view of the phenomenon of people's moral confusion, greedy manufacturing and various diseases and disasters in the current era, the real veil of karma and karma for thousands of years has been deeply and subtly removed, and many people have been alert and awakened to consciously abide by the law.

With the widespread circulation of the cause and effect education in the world, the number of beneficiaries is increasing. They are grateful to the times and have uploaded the videos of the cause and effect education on the Internet and the click rate is rising.

Facts have proved that the concept of modern causal education is a kind of auxiliary education urgently needed in the development of modern society, which brooks no delay. It teaches people the psychological adjustment methods that should be actively solved in the face of psychological difficulties and obstacles, which cannot be provided by the modern education model. It is an "innovative education" that stands out from many disciplines. What we do and talk about is the essence of Chinese traditional culture and the harmonious society advocated by the national leaders.

Cause and effect education is a valuable asset that everyone needs. The fruitful achievements in the past few years have fully demonstrated its economic contribution, educational contribution and potential development space to mankind. The cause and effect education in the world has developed rapidly, taking off the interests of the country and contributing to mankind.

The cause and effect education in the world is the platform of the world, the platform of the world's attention, and the platform of the world's urgent need. This is the education for the benefit of the country and the people. Causal education is not only the needs of the Chinese nation, but also the needs of the people of the world.

When Mr. Zhao talked about the cause and effect of filial piety to parents, he said:

Life change always begins with filial piety to support parents.

Buddha said: What is precepts, filial piety is precepts. If there is no Buddha, you should treat your parents as Buddha to serve them. If you recite filial piety and provide your parents with a small amount of things at a time, this kind of merit is more than that you have provided for a hundred eminent monks for thousands of trillions of years. This is true, not a metaphor.

Filial piety to support parents is a blessing in the present world. The blessing is too great. Even if it is a miserable fate, it can't stop its own blessing.

Being filial to your parents, even if you only do it for one day, your life will have an incredible change. One year, you don't resist contradicting your parents, and you can put an end to 30 years of anger. After that, what you lack will come together, and what is not good will automatically succeed. Even if you take a month of filial piety to support your parents and make them happy, the trouble you have will be solved automatically.

If you want to accumulate great benefits and the benefits you can enjoy in the world (such as good marriage, smooth work, wealth accumulation, excellent performance in important examinations, various applications are not rejected, and even all the benefits in real life are satisfactory), as long as you do not resist contradicting your parents, smiling gently at your parents, and talking softly and happily with your parents, these basic things are unimpeded. The ghosts and gods see you filial to your parents, He respects you very much and dare not hinder you at all. It's a pity that everyone doesn't know such a good way to change your life.

If you want to have a good career, you are usually the person who has not resisted his parents since he was young, because he has been inspired and helped by his parents every day since he was young. Another thing is to pay attention not to say bad things about ancient Chinese sages such as Laozi, Confucius, and eminent monks. You will be ruined if you say that. Don't want to be promoted unless you repent.

Be respectful to your parents and make them happy. There is a good thing that should be used to support them.

Be respectful to your parents. This is the fastest way to increase your official salary. There is no faster way than this. If you are respected, then naturally you should be respected; Providing for parents is the fastest growing asset. Say something you don't like to hear, no matter how one says his filial piety, one doesn't support his parents, his poor word is very big on his face.

Therefore, what the Buddha taught us is filial piety. After that, there is another sentence: There are many small things to support your parents.

At ordinary times, you should take out property to support your parents more or less. Don't hold it so tight. Don't make excuses to say that your wife and children need money for their house. You look like this. When you get old, your children will not support you. Even the excuses are the same as you. This is called "father shaped son Xiao". How can people who resist and contradict their parents change?

1. In front of the Buddha statue, repent well for resisting and contradicting your parents and teachers, thinking one thing at a time, and repenting one thing at a time. If you can think of it, repent at once After karma, repent as soon as possible, and repent as much as you can. Then think about the good things you feel about yourself from your parents one by one, and tell the Buddha one by one

Then come to the point, start kowtow, kowtow one more time, don't hurry up, just say: I will never resist contradicting my parents from now on You have to kowtow 108 times, and you have to say one word

2. It is very important to get parents' forgiveness. Call your parents, for fear that you are embarrassed to say something disgusting and sensational (in fact, it is time to say it, because this is how to solve the grievance and get the truth). It is also good for you to say it casually in the form of small talk. For example, I think it is wrong to always resist and contradict you before. Alas, I'm sorry I used to make you angry and make you not healthy enough. Oh, I'm sorry. I think if I had a child like me, I would always be angry and unhappy

My friend said that he was always surprised by his parents and said, "No, I'm sorry. In fact, you were very good when you were young." As a result, his parents began to praise him, and he was even more surprised

3. Frequently send text messages to care about parents, such as father going to bed early at night and drinking less alcohol

I'm sure your parents will read this message over and over again

People who resist and contradict their parents from childhood should send a message every day to care about their parents, or to greet their parents, or to laugh at their parents with humorous words

4. From now on, don't contradict and hate your parents, and smile at them more.

When my parents talk, my mouth should be like a curve, and my face is the most stupid If you are angry loudly, the sound will be worse than the wolf. If my parents are right, I am right

That's right. I'm right, too. It's reasonable

I can't accept it, so I have no choice but to smile Isn't it difficult for me to pretend to be naughty and cute?

What are you arguing about? Argument can never solve problems, it only makes parents sad

Do I want the children in the future to contradict you in a loud voice? If you don't want to change it quickly, or the cause and effect can't escape. Every day, you are irritated by children, at least for 20 years

5. Don't contradict your parents, and don't contradict other elders and superiors. If I want to be expensive, I must be respected, otherwise I will not be expensive When I contradict my parents, I should understand that this is what the ancients called "cheap", and this is the place to decide between high and low

Why does Bodhisattva always obey all sentient beings?

Because he is blessed and wise, he will not do anything to compromise. We unlucky people always do things that compromise their blessings, and those who contradict their parents are the most unlucky people. Nothing goes well in life.

Don't hit the smiling face with your hand. It is very important to smile. My parents are angry at me. My parents are angry at me. My parents are not happy. I quickly come forward and ask what is the matter. How can my parents be angry with me when I treat my parents with such a gentle and lovely smile? I am ashamed to even criticize This is the most important and effective way to transfer parents My friend's mother was angry and angry when she saw her. She said anything that hurt people. She was hysterical. It had been twenty years. But she had been smiling and soft-spoken to her parents for a month. After that, her mother looked at her very well and didn't want to criticize her at all

If I want to have the attitude of turning my parents around, I will turn them around with a soft and lovely smile Instead of them getting angry, I will fight. I am turned and possessed If you ignore your parents and make them suffocate, it will be mentioned immediately below. It is very serious. I often say sorry to my parents over and over again in my heart, and I sincerely say sorry to my teachers and all sentient beings I have hurt

6. If parents are not happy with what I said. I must remember not to let my parents stay angry in my heart, because this is actually very serious

My parents were choked with anger. My work, exams, and even general affairs would not go smoothly that day Moreover, my parents are suffocating. He will get sick and I will have a headache. If I know that my parents are angry, it is really too serious. This is the omen of a long bad day. The ancients know what is wrong with you when they look at you. You resist contradicting your parents, and write poverty on your face, so that people who can see it clearly

If my parents hang up on my phone and drop my phone, I will try to call them as soon as possible and eliminate their anger as soon as possible. I must accompany them well and remember that the purpose is to defuse their anger. What I say is not important, and what they say is not important

7. In the past, I was so resistant to contradicting my parents, and the benefits of belittling my elders were too great To get Fude back, you have to wash your parents' feet with filial piety and gratitude every day. You should carry water and pour water on your own. You should wash it carefully. You should use a dry towel to wipe it very dry (it is easy to rot the skin if it is not dry). You should wear your parents' socks well. Pay attention not to wear wrinkles in your socks. Otherwise, you should put down the bottom of your socks, be careful, gentle, and have love.

8. In any case, part of the monthly salary should be taken out to support the parents. If the parents are not short of money, they can buy goods to visit their parents. Respectful and filial, taking property to support parents is very good for improving wealth

9. When our parents call us, we should respond immediately and not delay. Our parents told us to do things. We should do it right away. We can't be lazy. If a person is unhappy in life and suffers from all kinds of pain, it is usually because he resists and contradicts his parents from childhood. I have observed that the most painful thing for many girls on the Internet is their feelings. Marriage is the word "harmony". They often contradict and contradict their parents. There is no harmony at all. They get angry all over, so they can't have a smooth and harmonious relationship

10. What are parents, elders and superiors?

My parents gave birth to me, so they helped me;

Elders, superiors, elders and children also help me;

11. What is the object of affection?

Object, object, relative image, is to hedge with you;

Without parents and teachers to help you, you will be bullied if your object comes to hedge against you

So if you want to have a good marriage relationship, the first thing is to stop contradicting your parents and teachers, and often make them happy, and let them help you in life, so that feelings can't bully you

From now on, change immediately, and within a year, a good marriage will come

The qi produced by filial parents is the most precious and precious qi in the world. It can support all kinds of happiness and can withstand all kinds of unhappiness in life, including worry, worry and fear.

弥陀佛。改命运，要孝亲尊师、止恶行善，从孝敬父母开始。

----- 诸葛长青

    人人都说改命运。

    改命运，要看因果。

    好因果，需要从止恶行善。

    止恶行善，要从孝敬父母开始。

    诸葛长青请有缘者，静下心，坐下来，给自己算算账吧：

     你看望过父母几次？

   你给父母问候过几次？

   你给父母买过什么父母喜欢的东西？

   你给父母做过什么？

   你顶撞过父母吗？

   你恨过父母吗？

   你骂过父母吗？

   你关心过父母吗？

   你供养过父母吗？

   你埋怨过父母吗？

   ......

   诸葛长青建议：

   如果你做的很好，要继续努力；

   如果做得不好，要努力改进；

   如果顶撞过、怨恨过父母等，要双膝下跪、净心忏悔。

   如果要让父母健康长寿，可以做好三点：

   一是孝顺供养父母，让父母经济无忧（诸葛长青建议：如果父母不缺钱，可以经常买物品、组织他们外出旅游、办一些他们喜欢的事情等。自己思考合适的方式）

    二是让父母开心，笑一笑十年少（诸葛长青建议：要想办法让父母变得开朗乐观，说些话让父母为你自豪、为你高兴等等，这样父母就会每天乐滋滋的。一快乐，就会身心愉悦，身心愉悦，就长寿了）；

    三是多做放生、印经书、施食等善事，然后把功德回向给父母。

  （诸葛长青建议：可以多做放生、施食、捐印经书、捐资建寺庙等善事，功德回向中，加入回向父母身上的冤亲债主离苦得乐立刻超生，回向父母身体健康）

   阿弥陀佛。

   要感恩父母、孝顺父母、供养父母啊。

   《弟子规》上说：父母呼、应勿缓，父母命、行勿懒，父母教、须敬听，父母责、须顺承。对于父母。

   孔子在《孝经》上说：“夫孝，德之本也”。

   《观无量寿佛经》开示净业三福：一则孝养父母，奉事师长，慈心不杀，修十善业；二则受持三归，具足众戒，不犯威仪；三则发菩提心，深信因果，读诵大乘，劝进行者。

    诸葛长青研究古今成功者的经历，发现一个共同特点，所有有福报成功的人，名垂千古的人，都是孝敬父母、行善积德的人。

   说到孝敬父母重要性，这就牵涉到一些因果；说到因果，诸葛长青给有缘者推荐一个讲因果的老师：宏宇文化传媒的赵老师。

   赵老师发慈悲心，无私奉献，连续十年讲因果、劝人行善积德，劝人走正路、学正法。而且盖起了教学楼，办起来道德讲堂，免费培养全国各地人才，功德无量、令人赞叹啊。

   赵老师讲因果讲的非常好，她从身边的事情说起，简单易懂，而且一听就明白，而且还有讲座视频。

    赵老师的讲因果内容都荟萃在《现世因果教育讲座》视频中，大家可以网上搜索看看，也可以登录赵老师的网站“弘宇文化传媒”点击学习。

   赵老师讲因果弘宇文化传媒网站：http://www.ihywh.com/。

    如果你想学习如何讲因果，如何认识命运，如果你发心弘扬传播传统文化，也可以去参加免费学习。他们地点在黑龙江哈尔滨市。去的时候最好打个电话，询问一下学习计划安排等情况。   

    一、赵秀英老师简介。

   诸葛长青：阿弥陀佛。赵老师，一个才华横溢的女子，她内涵菩萨心肠，践行圣贤之道，发愿心讲因果、劝行善、改人心，足迹走遍做过大江南北，妙语举办公益讲座两千多场，教育改变了无数人，功德无量，令人赞叹啊。

    赵秀英老师，弘宇文化传媒有限公司董事长，国家二级心理咨询师。
    2002年，针对社会道德教育缺失而出现的不良现象，赵老师以其忧国忧民的拳拳赤子之心，以报效祖国、慧利人类的慈悲与博爱，全身心地投入到道德教育的研究和实践中。
    2004年，她走上讲台，从提高全民道德素质教育入手，从官德、商德、师德、医德等职业道德讲起，对民众的人生观、价值观予以导正，让人们的心灵得到洗涤净化，懂得自我规范，学会自查自省，用道德来约束自己，自觉遵守国家的法律法规。为人们正确地行走人生注入了“道德的血液”，送来了“智慧的明灯”。尤其是针对青少年的义务教育，为了祖国的未来，她更是倾注了大量的心血，使数以万计的孩子重新回到正常的人生轨道，考上理想的学校，让许许多多的家庭重拾欢乐。
   截止日前，她已义务为民众做了二千余场道德教育讲座。为了让这个善的教育推动富国强民的中国梦想早日实现，她十年如一日，每天工作十几个小时，不辞辛苦、不求名利、无私奉献，以她的实际行动和全部心血，为世人展现了全心全意为人民服务的高尚的道德情操。

   二、赵老师弘宇文化传媒有限公司简介。

    诸葛长青：阿弥陀佛。赵老师发心和有缘者建起了一个包含教学楼、住宿、学习的现代化“弘宇文化国学学校”。在这里，她和有缘者一起，传播儒释道思想，接待、培养了诸多有善心的人，让因果道理遍布人心，要孝顺文化遍布社会，功德巨大。为中华民族崛起，做出了巨大贡献。

    弘宇文化传媒有限公司坐落于美丽的冰城黑龙江省哈尔滨市，是一家以弘扬道德教育、构建和谐社会为己任的文化传媒公司，是由董事长赵秀英女士（二级心理咨询师）带领众多爱心人士携手创办的一个多元化的教育平台，主要研究、实践和义务承担着对全社会各个阶层的公益道德教育。旨在提高全民族道德素质。
   多年来，弘宇公司针对社会的突出矛盾和问题，对于一些领域道德失范、诚信缺失，一些社会成员人生观、价值观扭曲等社会现象，通过研究和实践，推出了弘宇文化道德教育体系。它汲取了传统文化以及心理学的精华，以其独特的教育理念和教育方式，无偿开展公益讲座（现已达两千余场次），以一个个活生生的事实为依托，从个人品质、家庭问题到社会和谐，从细微琐事到实干兴邦，从自然灾害到人类健康，都给与一一剖析、引导、解答。
   同时，弘宇公司还以电话咨询、网络咨询、来访接待等方式，为民众答疑解惑已达数十万人次，截止目前，弘宇道德讲座网络视频点击率已突破七百万次。
   弘宇文化道德教育的传播已遍布全国各省市地区，并已传播到海外。无数事实证明，这项新型的教育是应时代渴求而生的一种觉醒教育！一种导正教育！一种人人需要的终身教育！
    尤其是对青少年的教育，更体现了弘宇公司全体员工对国家和社会的责任感和使命感。针对青少年中普遍存在的忤逆父母、挥霍金钱、早恋同居等诸多问题，针对学生如何提高学习成绩，提高综合素质，解决就业等问题，弘宇公司利用每年寒暑假义务开展青少年道德教育公益论坛，推出了青少年道德教育视频讲座专辑，并对有特殊问题的青少年和学习基础优良需要深造的学生，开展半年期义务培训，使数以万计的青少年受益。他们学会了修正言行和启用智慧处理所面对的问题；懂得了如何孝养父母、尊敬师长、感恩和包容；培养了自强不息、团结互助、诚实守信、爱心奉献的道德情操；为未来行走人生、成为祖国优秀的接班人奠定了坚实的基础。仅此一项，弘宇文化为国家所做出的贡献就无法用金钱来衡量。
   弘宇，已经成为一个生命的加油站，成为青少年走向成功的摇篮！
   弘宇，这个多元化的教育平台正逐渐展现出它的勃勃生机，将智慧宝藏源源不断地输送给更多的人。
   愿更多有识之士投身到这项伟大的事业中，为人民的幸福安康，为祖国的繁荣富强，为中华民族的伟大复兴，贡献我们的力量！

    三、赵老师讲因果：为何改命运从孝顺父母开始

      诸葛长青：赵老师讲了很多内容，荟萃在《现世因果教育讲座》之中，这个现世因果教育讲座内容涵盖各个方面：
   《现世因果教育》针对一些邪知邪见，偏听偏信,劳民劳财的迷信活动等问题进行矫正，使人们树立了正知正见，走正确的修行之路。帮助国家从根本上解决无知信众的受教、转化工作。
   现世因果教育是提高全民素质,是建设精神文明最好的教育，是各行各业的行为规范和指南。针对当今时代人们道德上的迷惑颠倒，贪婪造业及种种病苦灾难等现象，深入细微地拨开了几千年来因缘果报的真实面纱，让众多的人们警觉醒悟，自觉遵纪守法。
   随着现世因果教育的广泛流通，受益人群不断增加，他们感恩倍至，纷纷将现世因果教育的视频上传互联网而且点击率不断攀升。
   事实已经证明，现世因果教育理念是现时代社会发展中急需的一种辅助教育，刻不容缓。它教给人们面对心理困难、心理障碍时应积极解决的心理调节方法，是现代教育模式无法提供给人们的，它是在多项学科中脱颖而出的一项“创新教育”，我们所做的、所讲的理念正是中国传统文化的精髓，正是国家领导人倡导的和谐社会。
   现世因果教育是人人都需要的宝贵财富。几年来的丰硕成果已经充分展示了它对人类的经济贡献、教育贡献和潜在的发展空间。现世因果教育迅速发展腾飞利益国家，奉献于人类。
  现世因果教育是世界的平台，是世人瞩目的平台，也是世人急需的平台，这是利国利民的教育。因果教育不仅是中华民族的需求，也是世界人民的需要。
    赵老师讲孝敬父母的因果时候说：

    改命，永远是从孝顺供养父母开始的。

   佛说：什么是戒，孝顺父母就是戒，如果没有佛，就把父母当做佛来侍奉，你一念孝顺，供养一次父母一丁点东西，这样的福德就超过你供养一百位高僧百千万亿年。这是真实的话，并不是比喻。
    孝顺供养父母，这个福报是现世报，福德太大了，就算是苦厄命运，也根本挡不住自己的福德。
    孝顺供养父母，哪怕只是做一天，生活都会有不可思议的改变，一年不抵触顶撞父母，能灭尽三十年戾气，之后你缺少的，一齐到来，不顺的，都自动顺遂。你就算拿一个月孝顺供养父母，让父母高高兴兴，你手头上的这件烦恼事都会自动化解的。
    如果要积累大福德，积累现世就可以享受的福德（如顺利好姻缘，工作顺利，资财积聚，重要考试发挥出色，各种申请不被拒，乃至现实生活一切福德顺意），只要不抵触顶撞父母，面容柔和笑对父母，和父母说话柔声软语快快乐乐，这些基本的东西要拥有是没有阻碍的，鬼神看你孝顺父母，他非常尊敬你，丝毫不敢障碍你，这么好的改命方法，大家却不知道，太可惜了。
    如果想要仕途顺意，通常是从小就不抵触父母的人，因为他从小每天都受父母印气生助，非常强大，别人比不过。还有就是注意不要说中国古代圣贤如老子，孔子，高僧大德的坏话，一说就完蛋，别想升迁，除非大忏大悔。
   毕恭毕敬的对父母，让父母高兴喜悦，有一点好东西，都要拿来供养父母。
   毕恭毕敬对父母，这是增长官禄最快的，没有比这更快的，你尊长，那自然你也要成为长，受人尊；供养父母，则是增长资财最快的。说句大家不爱听的话，不管一个人怎样说自己的心地孝顺，一个人不供养父母，他这个穷字非常大的写在脸上。
   所以，佛陀教导我们的是一念孝顺，一念孝顺之后还有一句是：些许微物供养父母，你不能光有一念孝顺，念完就没有供养的下文啊。
   平时多少都要拿出财物供养父母，不要抱那么紧，不要找借口说老婆孩子房子需要钱，你这个样子，以后你老了，你孩子一样不会供养你，连借口都和你一样，这叫：父形子肖。抵触顶撞父母的人，怎样改过来呢？
   1. 佛像前好好忏悔自己抵触顶撞父母师长, 一件一件事的想, 一件一件的忏悔。你想得出来的, 马上忏悔. 造业后要尽早忏 悔, 能忏悔多少忏悔多少。然后把你感觉到父母对自己好的事一件一件的想, 一件一件对佛说
然后来重点了, 开始磕头, 磕头磕下去一个, 别急着起来, 要说一句:弟子从今以后再也不抵触顶撞父母了. 要磕头108个, 磕一个要说一句.
   2. 得到父母原谅, 这一点至关重要。打个电话给父母, 怕你不好意思说肉麻煽情话(其实就是应该说的时候了, 因为这就是解怨结真言啊), 你闲聊式的不经意说说也好, 比如: 我觉得以前老是抵触顶撞你们真是不对, 哎, 对不起噢. 以前我经常惹你们生气, 让你们身体都不够好, 哎, 对不起噢, 我觉得我要是有我这样的小孩, 我一定经常都堵气在心里经常都不开心.
   我朋友这样来一句, 从来都恶声气对他的父母很意外, 然后说: 没有对不起, 其实你小时候很乖. 结果变成父母开始赞美他, 他更意外.
   3. 经常发短信关心父母, 比如爸爸晚上早点睡, 少喝点酒.
   我敢肯定你的父母会把这条短信偷偷反复看上无数遍.
   从小抵触顶撞父母的人, 要每天发一条短信关心父母, 或者问候父母, 或者说点幽默话逗笑父母, 每天都要.
   4. 从此再也不要抵触顶撞嗔恨父母, 多对父母笑笑。

   父母说话我的嘴角要像上弯, 绷着脸最笨了. 而高声发气, 声音会比狼叫还难听。父母说得对, 我就说对.
   说得不对, 我也说对, 有道理.
   说得实在我接受不了, 我就无奈又可爱的笑笑. 叫我装个顽皮可爱, 不是难事吧?
   口舌上争什么呢? 口舌争从来解决不了问题, 只会让父母难过.
   我想不想将来的小孩子高声抵触顶撞摆脸色你? 不想就赶快改过来, 不然这个因果逃不掉, 每天都被小孩惹一肚子气, 至少二十年如此, 够呛.
   5.不抵触顶撞父母, 也不要再抵触顶撞其他长辈, 上司。我要贵, 就一定要尊长, 否则我贵不起来的. 我抵触顶撞父母的时候, 要明白, 这就是古人说的"贱", 这就是定贵贱的地方.
   菩萨为什么恒顺众生?
   因为他福大, 智慧大, 所以他不会去做折福事。我们没福气的人, 就老是做折福事, 而且抵触顶撞父母的人, 就是最没福报的人,生活中没有一样顺遂的, 我见过就算聪明读书成绩好, 可关键考试却会砸。

   伸手不打笑脸人。笑一笑很重要, 父母嗔我笑, 父母怒我笑, 父母不高兴, 我连忙软语上前谦虚可爱的问有什么事.我这样柔顺可爱笑容的对待父母, 父母怎么可能对我冲得起来? 连批评我都不好意思. 这个是转父母最重要, 最有效的方法. 我朋友的母亲看她就发怒发嗔, 什么话伤人就说什么, 歇斯底里得很, 就这样已经二十年了, 可是她就做了一个月对父母始终是笑颜软面软语, 搞定了, 母亲看她可顺眼了, 一点儿不想批评她.
   我要有转父母的态度, 我就用柔顺可爱笑容民主去转他们. 而不是他们发气, 我就顶, 我这是被转了, 入魔了. 如果不理睬父母, 让父母有气憋心中, 下面马上会提到, 很严重。经常在心里一遍一遍的对父母说对不起, 一遍一遍真诚的对师长, 对自己伤害过的众生说对不起.
   6、父母如果不高兴我说的话。我切记不要让父母留气在心中, 因为这样其实很严重.
   父母心中堵一丝气, 我当天的工作, 考试, 乃至般般事, 都不会顺利的. 而且父母自己憋气在心, 他自己要生病, 我自己要生头痛病.我要是知道父母有气不管, 那真是太严重了, 这就是长期倒霉日子的预兆.古人看你气色就知道你什么不顺, 你抵触顶撞父母, 脸上马上大大的写上贫贱,让会看的人看得清清楚楚.
   如果父母挂我的电话, 摔我的电话, 我要尽量短的合适时间就打过去, 尽早的消除父母的气, 我一定要陪好话, 要记住: 目的就是化解父母心里的气, 我说什么不重要, 父母说什么, 不重要.
   7. 过去自己如此抵触顶撞父母, 轻贱尊长毁灭的福德太巨大了. 要把福德找回来, 只有每天带着孝顺感恩的心给父母洗脚, 自己端水倒水, 要细致的洗, 洗干净要用干爽的毛巾擦很干(擦不干容易烂表皮), 把父母的袜子穿好, 注意袜子不要穿出褶皱, 不然咯脚的, 穿好袜子裤脚要放下来，要细心，要温柔，要有爱。
   8. 每个月的工资无论如何都要抽部分出来供养父母.父母不缺钱的，可以购买物品看望父母。恭敬孝顺拿财物供养父母对改财运是非同一般的好.
   9.爸妈叫我们，我们要马上应声，不能拖拉。爸妈叫我们做事，我们要马上去做，不能偷懒。如果一个人生活上般般都不如意, 受尽各种痛苦折磨, 这一般都是因为从小抵触顶撞父母。我观察到网络上很多女孩子最痛苦的就是感情.姻缘本来就是和合二字, 经常抵触顶撞父母, 是丝毫和合气都没有的, 搞到全身戾气, 所以无法有顺遂和睦的感情.
   10.父母, 长辈, 上司是什么呢？
   父母生我, 所以是生助我;
   长辈, 上司, 长生幼, 也是生助我;
   11.感情对象是什么呢？
   对象, 对象, 相对之象, 就是和你对冲;
   没有父母师长生助你, 对象来和你对冲, 你就要受欺负.
所以想要姻缘好, 第一个就是不要再抵触顶撞父母师长, 经常让父母师长喜悦, 让父母师长来生助你, 这样感情就欺负不了你.
   现在开始, 立刻改, 不出一年, 好姻缘就到.
   孝顺父母生出的气蕴, 是天地间至贵至珍生气最强的气蕴, 养得住一切福德, 镇得住生活中各种不顺包括担心忧愁恐惧。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

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