Six words to change fate: no excuse

改变命运六个字：没有任何借口

Amitabha, from today on, you should say: there is no excuse. And practice in action!!

-----Zhuge Changqing

amitabha.

Blessed life is limitless.

Dear predestined person, do you always find excuses for yourself?

As many people said in their letters to Zhuge Changqing and Sina blog messages---

I want to read and study, but I have no time;

I want to start my own business, but I'm afraid;

I want to work hard, but I hate my colleagues;

I want to do good deeds to change my fate, but I am very upset;

I want to exercise, but I can't get up in the morning;

I want to go to bed early, but I always like to stay up late;

I want to do volunteer work, but I have no time;

I want to donate blood voluntarily, but I am afraid of pain;

I want to learn to release, but I have no time;

I want to get up and feed, but I can't get up in the morning;

I want to eat vegetarian food, but I can't do it;

I want to learn Buddhism, release life and give food, but I'm afraid of others saying;

I want to get married, but I'm afraid I can't find the right one;

........

Amitabha! How many excuses do you have!!

Dear predestined person, you know, life is short!!

How many successes and things have been wasted by your excuse!

Zhuge Changqing suggested that you act immediately and stop complaining!!

Become your leading role immediately - your life movie, you are the director!

Say goodbye to sleeping late at once - sleeping late will make you lazy!!

Forget the past at once - the past is useless!

Stop worrying at once - it's useless to worry too much!

Set goals immediately - goals will make you succeed!!

Stop complaining at once - it's no use complaining!!

Do good deeds and accumulate virtue immediately - this is the foundation of good fortune!!

Study hard at once - this is the way to increase your ability!!

Strive and act immediately - action will succeed!!

.......

Work hard towards your goal!!

Nothing is difficult in the world, only for those who have heart!!

Zhuge Changqing recommends a book "No Excuses" for those who have a chance to learn to act immediately without excuses.

There is no excuse - the author of this book is Jay Rifenbury, a graduate of the United States Military Academy at West Point. He is a famous American speaker, training master and consultant, and graduated from the United States Military Academy at West Point. He served as an air force commando and military commander. For more than ten years, Jay, with his outstanding experience and training in the military field, has effectively integrated military principles with commercial competition and enterprise management, and has a prominent reputation in the field of training and consulting. The world's top 500 enterprises under his guidance and training have made great strides.

Jay used to be timid, aimless, unplanned and ineffective. Later, after receiving training at West Point, he made a rapid leap.

When I was a student at West Point, I realized the spiritual power of "no excuse".

The students of the military academy can only say four words to answer the question of the Changgong:

"Yes, sir!"

"No, sir!"

"I don't understand, sir!"

"There is no excuse, sir!"

Excuses cannot be tolerated. In any case, soldiers should bear the responsibility.

Making and accepting excuses will lead to a series of problems, from resentment, complaint, prevarication, shirking responsibility and procrastination to a vicious circle of partial or total failure. I often do not realize that I am making excuses, because it has become an ignorant and subconscious habit, and this habit has become more stubborn because of the combination with other excuse makers.

"No excuse" is the only, complete and borderless way to achieve the success of individuals, enterprises and organizations; It is a simple and operable core value and action plan based on self-responsibility, goal, obedience, integrity, tolerance and self-esteem, which helps you reshape your team and bring you and your organization to a higher level.

It makes you dare to imagine the heights that you and the enterprise dare not reach.

"No excuse!" The first step in life!!

When you make excuses, success has begun to leave you!!

Zhuge Changqing's research found that successful people are those who have firm confidence and do not make excuses!

Self-improvement and virtue.

God will help those who work hard!!

God will not help lazy people!!

How to have a more successful life?

The answer is - there is no excuse!

As long as you can keenly find opportunities, make productive decisions, and be willing to take responsibility for them, you can have a happy and full life.

"No excuse!" Action plan: take responsibility for yourself

1. Go all out to realize your dream and don't accept any excuse from yourself and others.

2. If you want to rewrite your life, change your thoughts and actions on life. Think about what you dare not think, do what you have not done, and you can get what you would not have.

3. See the strength, courage, wisdom and inner beauty you have. Recognize the excellent qualities you already have and improve other qualities.

4. When you are afraid of failure and rejection, pay attention. This shows that you have approached your inner desire. They herald the opportunity for growth.

5. Be the protagonist of your life story. Throw away the wrong idea that life is a struggle, and you will achieve greater success. Discard the psychological burden you have been carrying.

6. Make a list of excuses you have used, swear never to use them again, and then throw away the torn list.

7. List the decisions you will make that will affect your life and those around you, so that you can more clearly realize the excuses that may be used to avoid making decisions or bear the consequences.

8. Realize that the legitimate reason for not doing something before is no longer the reason. If they are still used, they are just excuses. If a past fact becomes a permanent excuse, you will get into trouble. Whenever you find yourself making excuses, change your mind immediately.

9. Create your life according to the expectations of yourself rather than others. You must have the courage to accept yourself and what you have done, so that you can have a real life. Doing so may damage your relationship with someone, but it will also earn you more respect.

10. Let go of those who are pulled by you as shields and don't hide behind them. You will all experience an incredible freedom to love each other.

11. Take full responsibility for your actions, and your mind will be more relaxed. Never find a scapegoat for yourself, and you will feel stronger, less lonely, and less afraid of the consequences.

……

You can be the protagonist of your life story!!

Zhuge Changqing believed that in life, we should act immediately and not always make excuses.

If I want to release my life, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to get up and give food, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to read and study, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to start my own business, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to work well, I will not make excuses and act immediately;

If I want to do good deeds and accumulate virtue to change my fate, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to exercise, I will not make excuses and act immediately;

If I want to go to bed early, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to be a vegetarian, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

If I want to learn Buddhism, release life and give food, I will not make excuses and act immediately;

If I want to get married, I will make no excuses and act immediately;

........

Zhuge Changqing tells you a way to guard yourself against mistakes:

Summarize to yourself before going to bed every night. If you still waste time, make excuses, and cannot control yourself---

You should slap yourself in the face and scold at the same time, at least 20!!

Continue for one month, and you will enter the standard track!!

Dear predestined person, come on!!

It doesn't matter whether others know this. It is important that you have this basic understanding, which is indispensable for any meaningful achievements. Although your decision-making process is inevitably affected by other people and the environment, it is ultimately up to you to decide whether to take action. The action you take. It largely determines how you spend your life.

Reference materials for this article: "No excuses", Zhuge Changqing's successful culture research

阿弥陀佛，从今天开始，你要说：没有任何借口。并在行动中去实践！！

----- 诸葛长青

   阿弥陀佛。

   福生无量天尊。

    亲爱的有缘者，你是否总是爱为自己找借口？

   就像很多人给诸葛长青写信、新浪博客留言中所说---

    我想读书学习，可是没时间；

    我想自己创业，可是很害怕；

    我想好好工作，可是很讨厌同事；

   我想行善积德改命运，可是很烦躁；

     我想锻炼身体，可是早上起不来；

   我想早睡觉，但是总是喜欢熬夜；

   我想做义工，但是没时间；

   我想义务献血，但是怕疼；

   我想学习放生，可是没时间；

    我想起床施食，可是早晨起不来；   

   我想吃素食，但是做不到；

    我想学佛、放生、施食，但是怕别人说；

    我想结婚，但是怕找不到合适的；

   ........

   阿弥陀佛，你有多少借口啊！！

   亲爱的有缘者，你知道吗，人生短暂啊！！

   多少成功、多少事情被你的借口浪费了！

   诸葛长青建议你，你要立刻行动，停止抱怨牢骚！！

    立刻成为自己的主角----你的人生电影，你才是导演！

   立刻告别睡懒觉----睡懒觉会让你进入懒惰啊！！

    立刻忘掉过去-----过去的事情没有用啊！

   立刻停止忧愁-----忧愁太多没有用啊！

   立刻制定目标----目标会让你成功啊！！

   立刻停止抱怨牢骚----抱怨牢骚没有用啊！！

    立刻行善积德----这是好命运的而基础啊！！

   立刻努力学习----这是增长本领的方法啊！！

    立刻奋斗行动-----行动才会成功啊！！

     .......

   向着自己的目标努力奋进！！

   世上无难事、只怕有心人！！

    诸葛长青推荐有缘者看看一本书《没有任何借口》，学会没有借口、立刻行动。

   没有任何借口-----此书作者是毕业于美国西点军校的杰伊·瑞芬博瑞，他是美国著名的演讲家、培训大师和咨询顾问，毕业于美国西点军校。曾担任空军突击队员和军事指挥官。十多年来，杰伊凭借其在军事领域的杰出履历和训练，将军事原则与商业竞争、企业管理有效融合，在培训和咨询领域声誉卓著。受他指导和培训过的世界500强企业都有巨大飞跃。

   杰伊原来胆子小、没目标、没计划、没有行动力，后来接受西点军校训练后，迅速实现飞跃。

   还是西点军校学生时，就领悟到“没有任何借口”的精神力量。

   军校学生回答长宫问题，只能说四句话：

   “是，长官！”

   “不是，长官！”

   “我不明白，长官！”

   “没有任何借口，长官！”

   借口是不能被容忍的。无论什么情况下，士兵都要承担责任。
   制造和接受借口会产生一系列问题，从愤恨、抱怨、推诿、卸责、拖延发展成为部分或全部失败的恶性循环。经常意识不到自己正在找借口，因为这已经成为一种无知的、下意识的习惯，而这一习惯更因为和其他借口制造者的联合而变得更加顽固。
   “没有任何借口”是唯一的、完整的没有国界的获得个人、企业和组织成功的方法；它是建立在自我责任、目标、服从、正直、宽容、自尊稳固基础上的简单的、可操作的核心价值观和行动计划，帮助你重塑团队，并将你和你的组织带往更高水平。
   它让你敢于想象自己和企业不敢到达的高度。

　“没有任何借口！”人生第一步！！
　 当你找借口的时候，成功已经开始离你而去！！

   诸葛长青研究发现，成功者都是坚定信心、不找借口的人！

   自强不息、厚德载物。

   上天会帮助那些自己努力奋进的人！！

   上天不会帮助懒汉！！
　 如何拥有更成功的人生？

    答案就是——没有任何借口！

   只要你能敏锐地发现机会、做出富有成效的决定，并愿意为其负责到底，那你就能拥有快乐、充实的人生。

  “没有任何借口！”行动计划：对自己负责
   1．全力以赴去实现梦想，不接受自己和他人的任何借口。
   2．如果你希望改写人生，就改变你对人生追求的想法和行动吧。想你不敢想的事，做你没做过的事，你就能得到原本不会有的东西。

   3．看到你已经拥有的力量、勇气、智慧和内在美。认清你已经拥有的优秀品质，完善其他的品质。
   4．当你害怕失败和拒绝时，注意，这表明你已接近了内心的渴望。它们预示着成长的机会就来了。
   5．做自己人生故事的主角。抛弃人生就是挣扎的错误观念，你将取得更大的成就。抛弃你一直以来背负的心理包袱。
   6．列出你曾用过的借口，发誓再也不用它们，然后把撕碎清单扔掉。
   7．列出你将要做出的影响自己和周围人生活的决定，这样做你能更清楚地意识到可能用来逃避做决定或承担后果的借口。
　　8．要认识到，以前不做某事的正当理由现在已经不是理由了。如果还在使用，那它们就只是借口。如果一个过去的事实变成一个永久的借口，你就会陷入麻烦。每当你发现自己在找借口，马上要转变思维。
　　9．根据自己而非他人的期望来创造你的生活。要有勇气接受自己和自己所做的一切，这样才能拥有真正的人生。这样做可能会破坏你跟某人的关系，但也会为你赢得更多的尊重。
　　10．放开那些被你拉来做挡箭牌的人，不要躲在他们背后。你们都将体验到一种难以置信的爱对方的自由。
　　11．对自己的行为全权责任，你的心灵会更轻松。决不为自己找替罪羊，你就会感觉更强大，不孤独，也不那么惧怕后果了。
　　……

 　你可以成为自己人生故事的主角！！

    诸葛长青认为，人生要立刻行动，不要总是借口。

     我想放生，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

    我想起床施食，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

    我想读书学习，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

    我想自己创业，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

    我想好好工作，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

   我想行善积德改命运，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

     我想锻炼身体，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

   我想早睡觉，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

   我想吃素，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

    我想学佛、放生、施食，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

    我想结婚，那就不找借口、立刻行动；

   ........

   诸葛长青告诉你一个警戒自己改过错的方法：

   每天晚上睡觉前给自己总结一下，如果自己还是浪费时间、还是找借口、无法控制自己---

   你就狠狠打自己耳光，一边打一边骂，至少20个！！

   持续一个月，你就进入规范轨道了！！

   亲爱的有缘者，加油！！

   至于别人是否清楚这一点是无关紧要的。重要的是你要有这种基本认识，这是取得任何有意义成就所必不可缺的。虽然你的决策过程难免受到其他人和环境的影响，但最终是你决定是否采取行动。你采取的行动。很大程度上决定了你如何度过一生。
  本文参考资料：《没有任何借口》、诸葛长青成功文化研究

(This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

  诸葛长青中国梦  

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