Master Yinguang: How to ask for a son? How to beg for children

印光大师：如何求子？如何求子女

Good deeds and good deeds will be rewarded. If you want children, you should do good deeds and accumulate virtue.

-----Zhuge Changqing

Yingguang Master, a generation of eminent monks, is admirable for his outstanding wisdom.

Master Yinguang (1861~1940), whose name is Shengliang, whose character is Yinguang, and whose number is often ashamed of monk. The common name is Zhao, the name is Dangui, the name is Shaoyi, and the number is Ren.

The way of seeking a son written by Master Yinguang is in line with scientific principles and is admirable.

It is worth reading carefully.

1、 The Way of Seeking Children

Zhuge Changqing: It is very important to be calm, not angry, and do good deeds and accumulate virtue.

The way to seek children. Many people carry their backs. You want to be thick. He has a virtuous disposition. Fu, Hui, Shou and San. All have enough children. According to me. Only then can we succeed.

The world has no children. Marry more concubines. Take the aphrodisiac often. Always have sex. This is the way to die quickly. It is not the way to seek children. Fortunately, I got my son. It is also a blighted rice seed. It is also difficult to mature if you don't grow up.

The first is to cut off sex and save energy. Or half a year, or at least a hundred days. The longer the better. When it comes to women. We all share this idea. Live in another house. If there are no multiple rooms. Never go to another bed. I never think of my wife as my wife. Think as a sister. I dare not think of evil thoughts. Wait until you have enough. After the woman's menstruation is clean, the weather must be clear and bright. The date is auspicious. A trip at night. You must be pregnant. From then on, we will never have sex. Until a hundred days after the birth of a child, you may go again. After a woman is pregnant, she may not have sex again; Once, the cell thickness is one time, and the fetal toxicity is one time. And the uterus is often open. Causing abortion. Such taboos. Many people don't know. Even those who know. Nor will they. It may or may not be born. Or not. Or weak and short-lived. I don't know I'm not good at intentions. He said that his life was bad. Instead, it will be a routine. Day by day. It is a great fortune not to die.

And be charitable. Do more good deeds. It doesn't need money to benefit people and things. Be kind, say good words and do good deeds. There is no interest, no words, no matter. Full of taihe vitality. full of vigour.

You must also sincerely recite Nanwu Guanyin Bodhisattva and ask for blessings. The more, the better. How many classes to attend in the morning and evening. The layman, the resident, the sitting and the sleeping are all good to read. Sleep well. Be respectful, too. It is better to wear clothes and trousers, not naked. It is better to read silently than to speak aloud. It is difficult to read words silently. You can go to Nanwu. But read the five characters of Avalokitesvara. It's OK to recite the white mantra or not.

So do you intend, act and think. It also makes your wife think, act and think.

Read Guanyin Bodhisattva loudly when giving birth. Till the time of labor, still remember. Do not meditate during labor. Read aloud. The person next to you. Read aloud for him. We managed to have a painless labor. I can't meditate during labor. Send the child out with force. Meditation or suffering from gas sickness.

Once a woman is pregnant, she should not be angry. If you are angry, you will have an abortion. And with a surly spirit, over the son. Son's temperament is regarded as evil. When feeding the baby again. We must be peaceful. If it is contaminated with air and milk, it will become toxic. If you are serious, you will die. It can be as light as half a day. There is no immortal. Being stingy is a small poison. He who does not die must be ill. So love the children of angry women. There are many deaths and diseases. It is the same to feed yourself and hire a nurse. Don't feed your baby if you have a big atmosphere. It must be put down immediately to calm the heart and feed it later. When feeding, squeeze the milk into a half bowl and pour it. If the nipple is wiped and fed again, there will be no disaster.

If you are still angry. I can't feed you even for one day. If you feed, you will not die, and you will also be seriously ill. This matter has not been invented in ancient and modern medicine. Only by experience can we know the disaster.

Women should learn gentleness and modesty from childhood. Later, they gave birth to children. It will be easy, it will be good, it will not die, it will not be sick. All children die of illness when they are young. Most of them are the result of their mother's anger. Less than half of it is my fate to die early. The world is ancient and modern. Children killed by poisonous milk. I don't know how many Ganges there are. It's not sad.

2、 Three requirements for children

Zhuge Changqing: Three things to do for a son are to protect the body and temperance, do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and do a good job in prenatal education.

Three Requirements for Children ◎ ◎

The first is to protect the body and exercise abstinence, so as to cultivate the nature;

The second is to accumulate virtue in order to build a foundation.

The third child is good at teaching, so as not to follow the flow.

These three important things should be implemented as soon as possible. Then read Guanshiyin with utmost sincerity and courtesy, and ask for blessing, wisdom, and the son of Guangzong China. He will be able to fulfill his wish without losing his holy grace.

The first is to protect the body and exercise abstinence in order to cultivate the inborn. If you don't control your appetite, your spirit will be weak and it will be difficult to conceive. Even if you are pregnant, it will be difficult for you to become an adult. That is, adults decide to be weak based on their inborn deficiency. There is neither a strong and brave body, nor the mental power of intelligent memory, and there is nothing to be established before aging. If it is to ask for a son, even if the Bodhisattva fulfills his wishes, people are really deeply indebted to the Bodhisattva.

The second is to accumulate virtue in order to build a good foundation. If you want to be the son of Wisdom and Wisdom, you must be dutiful and respectful to your elders, treat your family members kindly, and show mercy to your servants, who are the family members of this trip. As for the relatives and friends of the township party, they should be advised in harmony. The elderly are good at teaching their children, and the young are good at caring for their elders. Take Dunlun as an example, spare no evil and keep honest, do no evil, practice all good deeds, abstain from killing and protecting life, eat vegetarianism and chant Buddhism, and be willing to live in the West, and never suffer. As a fellow man, he made a sincere speech, so that he could cultivate the cause of victory in the world and become a good citizen of morality.

Those who can do so can learn from others in every move and act. The children born will be able to excel and have great achievements. Bodhisattva can fulfill people's wishes, and people can also comfort Bodhisattva's heart.

The third child is good at teaching, so as not to follow the flow. In ancient times, sages were all formed by the good teaching of wise parents, let alone ordinary people. If the person who asks for a son is willing to use the method of prenatal education, his son must be virtuous and good.

After conception, its description must be dignified, honest and quiet, its language must be honest and peaceful, and its behavior must be filial and respectful. Walk, stay, sit and lie, and often recite the holy name of Guanyin. Whether you are speaking aloud or meditating, you must listen with your ears. Listening brings your heart together, and your merits are greater. If you dress neatly, wash your hands and mouth, read aloud or silently. If you do not wash and go to an unclean place and sleep, you must meditate. Like meditation on merit and virtue, making a sound is incompatible with ceremony.

If you are in labor, do not meditate. If you send the baby out with force during labor, you will suffer from suffocation if you keep your mouth shut. The mother thinks of herself, and the family members are all for help, so they decide not to have dystocia, and there are no post-natal risks. If you can be so sincere in your body, mouth, and mind, and piously recite Guanyin, so that the fetus can have this pure, good, and upright spirit, then its birth will also be extraordinary.

When children begin to learn, that is to say karma with them, those who benefit people and things will prosper, and those who harm people and things will perish. It is important to know that people and things are really self-interested. Harm people and things more than yourself. Good deeds will be rewarded, and evil deeds will be rewarded. As for being a man, we must follow the eight virtues of filial piety, brotherhood, loyalty, faithfulness, propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame to be worthy of being a man. Otherwise, although the form is human, the heart is the same as the animal.

Don't lie, don't scatter, don't touch people and things, don't beat people and swear, don't abuse insects, ants, paper, grain and other things. Behaviour is expected to be beneficial to oneself and not harmful to people and things. It is also necessary to make them chant the holy name of Guanyin so as to eliminate evil karma and increase the good root. When you are young, you will be honest and sincere, and you will not be arrogant.

As mentioned above, good education is great filial piety to ancestors, great kindness to children, and great loyalty to the country and society. I often say that women hold more than half of the power of governing the country and the world. His moral integrity is worthy of the third Tai of the Zhou Dynasty, and his concubine is not worthy of being called Madam Yun. If he wishes to have a son, he will take the law, and his family will be very happy.

◎ ◎ Keep taboos in mind to avoid disasters. Anyone who wishes to have a son must sign a contract with his wife and cut off the desire for half a year to cultivate the congenital nature of the son. When the woman Tiangui is over, she will be pregnant. The days are not over. Don't hand it over. It will stop menstruation and cause illness. It is quite dangerous. It must be a good day and a bright night. Strong wind and heavy rain, thunder and lightning flash, it is urgent to give up.

Book of Rites. Monthly order. Jichun. On the third day of the first thunder, the Qiu people patrolled the road with Muduo and said that the thunder general would make a sound. If someone did not stop, he would have a son unprepared, and there would be a disaster, and the ancient sage king would miss the people's livelihood. The special officer announced this order, and it was repeated in the scriptures. The hearts of the parents in heaven and earth are the same.

Qiu Ren is the official who announces orders. Muduo, that is, ring the bell for everyone to listen. Patrol, yes. Roads, urban streets, and villages. Rong Zhi, this is sex. Unprepared means that the five senses and limbs are incomplete, or the monster is born. A disastrous disaster means that the couple may suffer from a bad disease or death. After being pregnant, they will never have sex, and their children will be physically and mentally strong and have a long life. It is difficult to give birth once after pregnancy, because of the heavy fetal toxicity once, the thick cytosol once. If you are pregnant for a long time, you may have an abortion, or you may have an injured fetus.

3、 Fetal protection

Zhuge Changqing: To protect the baby, you must calm down.

Abortion is the first principle of abortion. Therefore, the mind method of labor protection is to abstain from copulation for the first time. Once a woman is pregnant, she should abstain from copulation. Therefore, in the past, people were pregnant, that is, in another room, and did not sleep with them. Most of them were committed before March, when the desire arose and the uterus reopened, there were many complications of fetal movement. If it is committed after March, it will be thick and difficult to give birth.

You should know that if lust hurts the fetus, it will lead to turbidity and accumulation. Moreover, the child's body is white and turbid, acne poison and sore disease, which are difficult to cure, all because of the parents' carelessness. There is a big relationship between conception at this time. If you know the relationship between conception and labor, you will have no abortion and dystocia. And all the children born are of strong qualifications and gentle temperament. It not only reduces acne and other toxins, but also restores longevity and health. If one foresees this righteousness, he will be happy in body and mind. His son and son, Xianshan, and Pi Zhenjia will benefit the society. The so-called cure before the disease, that is, cure before the disorder, and protect the country before the danger.

1. Antenatal

According to the Sutra of the Earth Treasure Bodhisattva:

'Again, Pu Guang! If, in the future, Yan Fu-ti, Chari, Brahman, elders, laymen, all people, and other people of different races, have a new birth, male or female, and recite this sutra without thinking about it (that is, the original wish sutra of the Tibetan Bodhisattva) as early as seven days ago, and recite the name of the Bodhisattva more than ten thousand times (that is, in addition to the Guanyinsheng chanted on weekdays, add the holy title of "Nanwudi Tibetan King Bodhisattva"), who is a new born child, or male or female, and will be relieved if there is a bad karma, Easy to maintain and live longer. If you are blessed, you can increase happiness and longevity. '

2. Postpartum

According to the Sutra of the Earth Treasure Bodhisattva:

"It is Yan Fu-ti who, when he was born, did good deeds without asking about men and women, or when he wanted to be born (that is, all kinds of good deeds and virtues such as printing scriptures, disaster relief, poverty relief, etc.) , increase the number of houses, make the land, enjoy unlimited happiness, support the children and mothers, get great happiness, and benefit the family members. Or have given birth, be careful not to kill, take all the fresh taste, and supply it to the mother; And gather family members, drink and eat meat, and sing music and strings, which can make children and mothers unhappy. Why? When it is difficult to give birth, there are countless evil spirits and ghosts, who want to eat blood; It is I who made the house and the land spiritual, and protected the children and mother, so that I could get benefits from peace. Such people, when they see happiness and happiness, will set up blessings and answer the land; It turns into killing and gathering family members. Therefore, we will suffer the consequences of our crimes and both our children and mothers will suffer. "

3. Family education development

The chaos in the world is extremely serious. Everyone wants to rule, but they don't know the origin of it. They also want to work hard. Its origin is urgent and should be known. Family education is the rising of talents. The foundation of peace in the world. If we don't pay attention to it, we can't get it.

The first is prenatal education, which is taught at the beginning of nature. After a woman is pregnant, she must act with her heart in mind, be sincere and sincere, and be upright in every move. In particular, it is advisable to cut off the fishy meat forever, and chant the Buddha everyday, so that the fetus can receive the healthy spirit of the mother, and then it will be happy and painless when it is born. The children born must be strict in appearance, benevolent in temperament and intelligent in talent.

At the beginning of knowledge, that is the truth of life. Such as filial piety, brother, loyalty, faith, courtesy, righteousness, honesty, shame, etc. And the sin and blessing of three generations of cause and effect, and the transformation of the six paths of reincarnation. Bibi often has terror and hope in his heart. Then we should chant Buddha and Avalokitesvara in order to increase happiness and longevity and avoid disasters and difficulties.

Don't lie, tell right and wrong, hit and swear. Don't waste paper, grain and everything. Don't eat food indiscriminately. Don't play with your classmates.

A little longer, that is to say, you should read the Supreme Supreme Sensation, Wenchang Yinzhi, and Emperor Guan Jue Shijing, so that you can learn from them and ban them. 11. Give a brief introduction to the general idea, and think it will benefit from later study. Such is the case when you are young. The more you study, the more virtuous and virtuous you will be. Otherwise, if you are willful and arrogant, and form a scum, even if you have talent, and do not know that reading is to learn from sages, the more books you read, the worse.

People who have great evil and evil in ancient and modern times are all people with good talents and great functions. Only because Mr. Yi's parents do not know the sages of teaching and practice. Stop learning words, which is the basis for seeking profit and wealth in the world. Its intelligence is inferior to the bottom. In order to tame and perform the evil drama of abolishing the classics and abolishing the ethics, fighting for the city and land, and killing each other. This kind of trouble is caused by parents and teachers who don't know how to teach their children. Even if you have no great evil, but the sin of corrupting the hearts of the people in troubled times, you should be punished by evil with your children for ever.

I said that godson is the foundation of peace in the world, and goddaughter is the most important. When I was young, I depended on my mother's education. The father cannot always be at home, while the mother cannot always be at home. If the mother is wise, everything she does and says is enough to be Dharma. I am familiar with what I have seen and heard. If we teach them often, we will become accustomed. For example, if the model is good, it will never be bad, so the goddaughter is more important than the godson. A virtuous mother comes from a virtuous woman. If there is no virtuous woman, why should there be a virtuous mother. Without a virtuous mother, how can we get a virtuous child.

This is a very common truth that everyone can do. Those who deplore it are seldom advocated. Those who want to be mothers only know how to coddle, and those who are fathers have no good education. As a teacher, he has never heard of this meaning since he was a child, so he does not know that reading is to learn from sages, and does not teach students to practice what sages say. But I only learned its words and thought it would be profitable. I don't know the great benefit of learning from sages and sages. I and my descendants will never be able to use it.

Seeking profits and benefits, seeking good deeds, is just a small fortune. The remonstrance is not good, and now he is ruined. There are many people who die young and have no children.

The person who is called the three talents together with the heaven and earth has the function of following up the study of the holy world with pre-awareness and post-awareness. If you don't take learning from sages as your business, you are walking the flesh and walking the corpse. Only knowing the pleasure of eating, drinking and eating, men and women, is different from animals. The word "human" is still a pseudonym, and it is also called "three talents" with heaven and earth.

However, human nature is inherently good. Everyone can be Yao and Shun, and everyone can be Buddha. But those who cannot be Yao and Shun, or Buddha, have only sexual virtue, without self-restraint, free from evil and honest, and cultivate morality and wisdom, and cut off greed, hatred and ignorance.

The cultivation of this virtue was initially inspired by the wise parents and teachers, and then he worked hard to cultivate it. Although it has not reached the status of Yao and Shun and Buddha, there is a huge gap between the heaven and the earth for those who go to the fool and those who are buried in human desire.

According to the book, only the sage can't think of being mad, and only the mad can think of being holy. According to the cloud, if you are confused, you will see that Buddha is all living beings, and if you are enlightened, you will see that all living beings are Buddha. Fortunately, it is my chance to be Yao and Shun, to be a Buddha, and to be a man of blood. How could a man of this nature be trapped by human desire and forever be a fool under the sea of suffering. May the world be happy for our country and the world if they are parents, teachers, and children.

4. Family education

Family educator. Motherhood is especially important. If at the beginning of children's knowledge. Its mother is karma. And to be a director. You will know good or bad when you are old. Don't be confused by the evil party's heresy. And be a good man. If you are indulged in childhood. Big is no master. He was swept away by heresy. Let it be anyway. It's a hundred times.

Today. If you do not have karma. It is a special agent for saving the country and the people. If you have done something. No great effect. Take that as a matter, but not implement it. But it was perfunctory. Cause and effect. It is the method of treating both symptoms and symptoms. Ordinary people are at the beginning of their minds. The Tathagata has become a positive consciousness. There is no cause and effect. The madman despises cause and effect as a minor factor. It is for the convenience of the unscrupulous evil. Talk with empty mouth.

5. Educate children

The children of the rich. Don't do more than one thing. In case of disaster. Then there must be no self-reliance. I'm going to hire people today. Operate by yourself. One is to work hard. And can communicate with blood. Second, less leisure. And eliminate all delusions. It is the fundamental way to love children.

6. Men have points, women have returns

Good teaching of children is the foundation of peace, and godmother is especially important. He also said that women hold more than half of the power of governing the country and the world. Because there are few virtuous women in the world. If there are virtuous women, there are virtuous wives and mothers. If there is a good wife and a good mother, it is also rare for her husband and his children to be virtuous.

The school advocates equal rights for men and women, and is ignorant of the world. It is important to note that men have the right to men, and women have the right to women. It is a woman's bounden duty to marry her husband and teach her children, and its power is great. To make women participate in politics is equal rights, which is the chaos of those who do not know what to do.

7. Buddhist children's book

Filial piety: body hair and skin. Accept parents. Parents and me. It is really one. I love myself. Be filial to your parents. Can not humiliate the body. It is Rong Qin.

Friendship: brothers and sisters. Hand, foot, bone and flesh. mutual sympathy. share weal and woe. Brother loves and brother respects. And harmony. Push and love each other. Family blessings.

Respected teacher: Shiyan Daozun. Set an example of human relations. Moral knowledge. The effect is the principle. Keep me upright. Teach me Jame. Disrespect his teacher. How can we benefit.

Choose a friend: He who is near the red will be red. who keeps company with the wolf will learn to howl. Get along with friends. It is harmful and beneficial. The benefits are close. The loser is far away. Persuade and discipline. Duanleihuz.

Cloth clothes: the clothes cover the body. It also protects against the cold. Clothes of large cloth. Cherish good fortune and maintain integrity. Don't envy silk. Splendid and beautiful. We have lost our happiness and longevity. be backward and have no urge to make progress.

Vegetables: Vegetables are hygienic. Meat kills. When you kill, you hate. Its poison is not light. Don't be greedy for meat. You must pay back after eating. When it comes back. What a pity.

Cherish words: words are precious. Far better than the golden pearl. People are wise by words. Otherwise, stupid. There is no word in the world. Nothing can be done. People and animals. The only difference is the name.

Xigu: Five grains in the field. To support the people. Cherish the grain. That is kindness. Those who practice good will survive. Those who are not good die. Cherish the valley and get the blessing. Waste grain suffers.

Xiyin: seventy ancient and rare. It's a snap. There is no more. How dare you be lazy. Work hard. Establish morality and career. Self-interest and altruism. Set a rule for the world.

Justice: every move. Righteousness is taking. Where righteousness lies. be benefited in every way. Small people see good. That is to forget its meaning. Although we get small profits. After all.

Honesty: a blessing in life. Cultivated in previous lives. Take without righteousness. It's poison. Clean but not dirty. Be honest but not greedy. The world worships. Honor is ignorant.

Knowledge of shame: the word of shame. Its benefits are endless. There are close to saints. Nothing is the same as an animal. A dress of shame. There is no need to temporarily unload. My Buddha's instruction. Solemn first.

Loyalty: sincere. Don't be invaded. Do what you do. No one has two minds. I just want to finish my work. No one knows. Such a person. It is worthy of the world.

Keep promise: a person who keeps promise. Don't speak rashly. Do what you say. neither show arrogance nor sing one 's own praises. A man without faith. Everything is false. People hate it. Better than cattle and horses.

Kindness: Kindness and mercy. The vitality of the heart. The more true this heart is. The deeper the blessing. If not. It is bound to be engraved. Even if there is good luck. We have suffered a lot.

No killing: all animals. All have consciousness. cravenly cling to life instead of braving death. Only fate is pity. If the play is stubborn. And kill and eat. Present generation and later generation. Decide to retaliate.

Do not steal: everything that has its owner. Don't steal. Stealing small funeral articles. Stealing causes great trouble. A stolen thing. Take your own happiness. Get cheap. They suffered a great loss.

Don't be lewd: lust is harmful. Hurt the body and lose heart. Although they are husband and wife. Temperance should also be exercised. If it is lewd. More inappropriate. Ancient and modern people with lofty ideals. No one committed it.

Don't lie: words are deeds. It is the original skill. The heart is neither real. What can we do. I hope you will be born later. Don't talk nonsense. say yes and mean no. There is no end.

Don't smoke: Don't smoke. To harm health. His breath often stinks. The sky smokes people. Opium cigarettes. Its poison is extremely strong. Spend money to buy harm. Poor fool.

Don't drink: alcohol is a drug. Drinking will lead to disorder. Drunken is abnormal. If you are rude, you will be punished. It's better not to eat. Don't drink too much. very intelligent. Always keep clean.

No gambling: gambling. Lose heart and lose time. Concentrate on this. The business is abandoned. Limited time. Send the child to play. become bankrupt. There is no end to sin.

Don't be extravagant: extravagant and boastful. Buy evil and buy cheap. Gentleman, look down. The thieves came to rob. coarse clothes and simple fare. Sage ceremony. Present generation and later generation. Each person has his own rules.

Don't be arrogant: Be arrogant and light. The truth is short. People know Iraq well. Learning is scarce. Go to the Holy Place. It is not light on people. There are no saints. Keep your thoughts in your heart.

Don't envy: people have talent and virtue. I should be amazed. The other is society. There must be contributions. If you are jealous. It is a fool. Your karma will win you. Su Shihui thinks.

No prejudice: people have little wisdom. I haven't heard of the main road. Every time you hold your own opinion. I think it's the best. limited outlook. What you see is small. If you climb mountains. See you before.

Don't vent your anger: there are rich people. Air volume or small. Every time it touches my mind. Be angry and grumble. It is no good to vent anger. He worries himself. Comprehend forgiveness. It is priceless.

Shameless to ask: Can you ask. Ask more than you ask. I hope that others will follow me. So start from the bottom. If it is ignorance. You should ask people. Erudite interrogation. Attainments are true.

行善积德必有福报。如果求子女，就要行善积德。

----- 诸葛长青

 印光大师，一代高僧，智慧卓越，令人敬佩。

 印光大师（1861～1940），法名圣量，字印光，号常惭愧僧。俗姓赵，名丹桂，字绍伊，号子任。

印光大师撰写的求子之道，符合科学道理，令人赞叹。

值得有缘者仔细阅读。

 一、求子之道

 诸葛长青：平心静气，莫生气，加上行善积德，非常重要。

 求子之道。人多背驰。汝欲得身体庞厚。性情贤善。福、慧、寿、三。通皆具足之子。须依我说。方可遂心。

 世人无子。多娶妾媵。常服壮阳之药。常行房事。此乃速死之道。非求子之方也。幸而得子。亦如此秕稻种之。或不出、或出、亦难成熟。

 第一要断房事，储存精力。或半年，至少或百日。愈久愈好。当与妇说明。彼此均存此念。另屋居住。若无多屋。决须另床。平时绝不以妻作妻想。当作姊妹想。不敢起一念之邪念。待身养足后。待妇月经净后，须天气清明。日期吉祥。夜一行之。必得受孕。从此永断房事。直到生子过百日后，或可再行。妇受孕后，不可再行房；行一次房，胞厚一次，胎毒重一次。且或因子宫常开。致易堕胎。此种忌讳。人多不知。纵有知者。亦不肯依。故致或不生。或不成。或孱弱短命。不知自己不善用心。反说命不好。反将行房当常事。日日行之。不死就算大幸。 

又要心存慈善。多做善事。利人利物，不一定要钱。存好心、说好话、行好事。凡无利益之心、之话、之事，均不存、不说、不行。满腔都是太和元气。生机勃勃。

 又须至诚念南无观世音菩萨，请求加持。（就依此念）愈多愈好。早晚礼拜念若干。此外行、住、坐、卧、都好念。睡虽好念。也要心存恭敬。宜穿衫裤、不可赤体。宜默念、不宜出声。默念若字多难念。可去南无二字。但念观世音菩萨五字。白衣咒、念也好、不念也无碍。

 汝如是存心、行事、念。亦令汝妇也如是存心、行事、念。

 生孩子时候大声念观世音菩萨。及至临产、还念。临产不可默念。要出声念。旁边照应的人。须大声帮他念。管保了无苦痛难产之事。临产默念不得。以用力送子出。默念或受气病。

女人一受孕、不可生气。生大气则堕胎。兼以乖戾之气、过之于子。子之性情，当成凶恶。又喂儿奶时。必须心气和平。若生大气、奶则成毒。重则即死。轻则半日一日死。决无不死者。小气毒小。虽不死、也须生病。以故爱生气之女人的儿女。死的多、病的多。自己喂、雇奶母喂、都是一样。生了大气，万不可喂儿奶。须当下就要放下，令心平气和，过半天再喂。喂时先把奶挤半茶碗，倒了。奶头揩过、再喂、就无祸殃。

若心中还是气烘烘的。就是一天、也喂不得。喂则不死，也须大病。此事古今医事、均未发明。近以阅历，方知其祸。

 女子从小，就要学柔和谦逊。后来生子。必易、必善、必不死、必不病。凡儿女小时死病。多一半都是其母生气之故。少一半是自己命该早死。天下古今。由毒乳所杀儿女。不知有几恒河沙数。可不哀哉。

 二、求子三要

诸葛长青：求子三要，保身节欲、行善积德、搞好胎教。

求子三要◎◎

第一保身节欲，以培先天；

第二敦伦积德，以立福基。

第三胎幼善教，以免随流。

此三要事，务期实行。再以至诚，礼念观世音，求赐福德智慧光宗华国之子，必能所求如愿，不负圣恩矣。

 第一保身节欲，以培先天者。若不节欲，则精气薄弱，必难受孕。即或受孕，必难成人。即或成人，以先天不足，决定孱弱。既无强健勇壮之身，亦无聪敏记忆之心力，未老先衰，无所树立。如是求子，纵菩萨满人之愿，人实深负菩萨之恩矣。

 第二敦伦积德，以立福基者。欲生福德智慧光宗华国之子，必须敦伦尽分，孝亲敬长，善待眷属，愍恤仆使，此行之家庭者。至于乡党亲朋，俱宜和睦劝导。俾老者善教儿女，幼者善事亲长。以敦伦尽分，闲邪存诚，诸恶莫作，众善奉行，戒杀护生，吃素念佛，愿生西方，永出苦轮。普为同人，恳切演说，令培出世之胜因，咸作守道之良民。

 能如是者，一举一动，悉益自他，一言一行，堪为模范。所生之子，必能超群拔萃，大有树立。菩萨固能满人之愿，人亦可慰菩萨之心矣。

第三胎幼善教，以免随流者。古昔圣人，皆由贤父母之善教而成，况凡人乎。若求子者，肯用胎教之法，其子必定贤善。

从受孕后，其形容必须端庄诚静，其语言必须忠厚和平，其行必须孝友恭顺。行、住、坐、卧常念观音圣号。无论出声念，默念，皆须摄耳而听，听则心归于一，功德更大。若衣冠整齐，手口洗漱，出声念，默念，均可。若未洗漱及至不洁净处并睡眠时均须默念，默念功德一样，出声于仪式不合。

 若至临产，不可默念。以临产用力送子出，若闭口念，必受气窒之病。产妇自念，家属皆为助念，决定不会难产，亦无产后各种危险。果能如此谨身、口、意，虔念观音，俾胎儿禀此淳善正气，则其生也，定非凡品。

及儿初开知识，即与彼说因果报应，利人利物者必昌，害人害物者必亡。须知利人利物，乃真利己。害人害物，甚于害己。作善必得善报，作恶必得恶报。及说做人，必须遵行孝、弟、忠、信、礼、义、廉、耻之八德，方可不愧为人。否则形虽为人，心同禽兽矣。

 不许说谎，不许撒颠，不许拏人什物，不许打人骂人，不许糟践虫蚁、字纸、五谷，东西。举动行为，必期于亲于己有益，于人于物无损。又须令其常念观音圣号，以期消除恶业，增长善根。幼时习惯，大必淳笃，不至矜己慢人，成狂妄之流类。

 如上善教，于祖宗则为大孝，于儿女则为大慈，于国家社会则为大忠。余常谓治国平天下之权，女人家操得一大半者，其在斯乎。其懿德堪追周之三太，庶不负称为太太云，愿求子者，咸取法焉，则家国幸甚。

 ◎◎附记禁忌，免致祸害。凡求子者，必须夫妇订约，断欲半年，以培子之先天。待妇天癸尽后一交，必定受孕。天癸未尽，切不可交，交必停经，致成带病，颇有危险。又须吉日良夜，天气清明。大风大雨，雷电震闪，亟宜切戒。

 礼记。月令。季春。先雷三日，遒人以木铎巡于道路曰，雷将发声，有不戒其容止者，生子不备，必有凶灾、古圣王痛念民生。特派官宣布此令，又复著之于经，其天地父母之心乎。 

遒人，宣令之官。木铎，即铃，振铃俾众咸听也。巡，行也。道路，城市街巷，及乡村也。容止，此谓房事。不备，谓五官四肢不全，或生怪物。凶灾，谓其夫妇，或得恶疾，或致死亡。既受孕后，永断房事，所生儿女，必定身心强健，福寿深长。孕后交一次，胎毒重一次，胞衣厚一次，生产难一次。孕久若交，或致堕胎，及与伤胎。

 三、保胎

 诸葛长青：保胎，必须平心静气。

保胎以绝欲为第一义。故保产心法，首戒交媾，妇一有孕之后，切戒交媾。所以昔人有孕，即另室，不与共寝，恐动欲念也。大抵三月以前犯之，则欲念起而子宫复开，多有漏下胎动诸患。三月以后犯之，则胞衣厚而难产。

要知欲火伤胎，必致污浊凝积。且儿身白浊、痘毒、疮疾，医治难痊，俱因父母不慎也。此初受胎一大关系也。果识得受胎，与临产之关系，则凡有所生，自无堕胎及难产等患。而所生儿女咸皆资质庞厚，性情温良。既少痘疹等毒，又复长寿康健。人果预知此义，则必致身心安乐，子孙贤善，丕振家声，有益社会。所谓治病于未病之先，即含致治于未乱，保邦于未危种种胜益。

 1、产前 

 地藏菩萨本愿经云：

 ‘复次，普广！若未来世中，阎浮提内，刹利、婆罗门、长者、居士、一切人等，及异姓种族，有新产者，或男或女，七日之中，早与读诵此不思议经典（即地藏菩萨本愿经），更为念菩萨名可满万遍（即除了平日所念的观音胜号外另再加念‘南无地藏王菩萨’圣号），是新生子，或男或女，宿有殃报，便得解脱，安乐易养，寿命增长。若是承福生者，转增安乐，及与寿命。’

 2、产后

 地藏菩萨本愿经云：

 “是阎浮提人，初生之时，不问男女，或欲生时，但作善事（即印经、赈灾、恤贫等诸善功德），增益舍宅，自令土地，无量欢喜，拥护子母，得大安乐，利益眷属。或已生下，慎勿杀害，取诸鲜味，供给产母；及广聚眷属，饮酒食肉，歌乐弦管，能令子母，不得安乐。何以故？是产难时，有无数恶鬼及魍魉精魅，欲食腥血；是我早令舍宅土地灵只，荷护子母，使令安乐而得利益。如是之人，见安乐故，便合设福，答诸土地；翻为杀害，聚集眷属，以是之故，犯殃自受，子母俱损。” 

3、家庭教育发隐

 世乱极矣，人各望治，不知其本，望亦徙劳。其本所在急宜知之。家庭母教乃是贤才蔚起。天下太平之根本。不于此讲求，治何可得乎。

 母教第一是胎教，胎教乃教于禀质之初。凡女人受孕之后，务必居心动念行事，唯诚唯谨，一举一动，不失于正。尤宜永断腥荤，日常念佛，令胎儿禀受母之正气，则其生时，必安乐无苦。所生儿女，必相貌端严，性情慈善，天资聪明。

 及至初开知识，即为彼说做人之道理。如孝、弟、忠、信、礼、义、廉、耻等。及三世因果之罪福，六道轮回之转变。俾彼心中常常有所恐怖，有所冀慕。再令念佛、念观世音，以期增福增寿，免灾免难。

不许说谎话，说是非，打人骂人。不许糟践字纸，糟践五谷，糟践一切东西。不许乱吃食物。不许与同里群儿聚戏。

 稍长，即令熟读太上感应篇，文昌阴骘文，关帝觉世经，俾知有所师法，有所禁戒。一一为其略说大意，以为后来读书受益之前导。幼时如是，愈读书愈贤善，不患不到圣贤地位，光宗耀祖也。否则任性骄惯，养成败类，纵有天资，亦不知读书为学圣贤，则读的书愈多愈坏。

古今大奸大恶之人，皆是有好天资大作用之人。只因伊父母先生，均不知教学圣贤，躬行实践。止令学文字，为应世谋利禄之据，其智识之下劣，已到极底。以驯至于演出废经废伦，争城争地，互相残杀之恶剧。此种祸乱，皆彼父母先生，不知教子弟之道所致。自己纵无大恶，而坏乱世道人心之罪，当与彼子弟同受恶报于永劫矣。

 吾故曰，教子为天下太平之根本，而教女为尤要。以人之幼时，专赖母教。父不能常在家内，母则常不离子。母若贤慧，则所行所言，皆足为法。见闻已熟，心中已有成规。再加以常常训诲，则习已成性。如镕金铸器，模型若好，器决不会不好，以故教女比教子尤为紧要也。以贤母由贤女而来，若无贤女，何由而有贤母。无贤母，又何由而得贤子女哉。

此种极平常之道理，人人皆能为之，所痛惜者，绝少提倡之人。俾为母者，唯知溺爱，为父者，亦无善教。及至入塾读书，为师者亦由幼时未闻此义，故亦不知读书为学圣贤，不教生徒躬行实践圣贤所说之道。但只学其文字，以为谋利禄计。而不知学圣贤有莫大之利益，自己与子孙，生生世世，受用不尽。

 谋利禄，谋之善，不过现生得小富贵而已。谏之不善，现生身败名裂，子夭孙绝者，比比皆是。

 人与天地共称三才者，以有以先觉觉后觉，继往圣开来学之功能，故得此尊称。若不以学圣贤为事，则是行肉走尸。唯知饮食男女之乐，则与禽兽何异。人之一字，尚是冒名，况与天地共称三才乎。

 然人性本善，人皆可以为尧舜，人皆可以作佛。而不能为尧舜，不能作佛者，只有性德，无有克己复礼，闲邪存诚，及修戒定慧，断贪嗔痴之修德耳。

 此之修德，最初由贤父母师长而启发之，继则自己孜孜矻矻，努力修持。虽未能即到尧舜与佛之地位，其去下愚之人，日在人欲中埋没者，已天渊悬殊矣。

 书云，惟圣罔念作狂，惟狂克念作圣。经云，迷则佛即众生，悟则众生即佛。幸其为尧舜、作佛、之机在我，有血性汉子，岂肯以此性德，任人欲所锢蔽，永为沉沦苦海之下愚众生乎。愿世之为父母，为师长，为儿女生徒者，各各勉之，则吾国幸甚，全球幸甚。

 4、家庭教育 

家庭教育者。母教尤重。若于儿女初开知识时。其母即以因果报应。及做人之理事为训。则大时便知好歹。不被恶党邪说所惑。而为贤人善人。若小时任性娇惯。大则无主宰。便随邪说而靡。欲其反正。百难得一矣。

当今之时。若不以因果报应。为救国救民之专剂。则纵有作为。无大功效。以彼不以实行为事。但以空谈敷衍了事。因果。乃标本同治之法。凡夫初发心。如来成正觉。皆不出因果之外。狂人以因果为小乘而轻藐之。乃为自便于肆无忌惮之恶作。与空口快活之大话耳。

 5、教育子女 

富贵人子弟。多多一事不做。一旦遇祸乱。则必至无以自立。今全去用人。亲自操作。一则习劳。而能和血脉。二则少闲。而消诸妄念。实为爱儿女之根本办法。

 6、男有分，女有归 

善教儿女，为治平之本，而教女尤要。又曰：治国平天下之权，女人家操得一大半。以世少贤人，由于世少贤女。有贤女，则有贤妻贤母矣。有贤妻贤母，则其夫其子女之不贤者，盖亦鲜矣。

 彼学堂提倡男女平权，直是不知世务，须知男有男之权，女有女之权，相夫教子，乃女人之天职，其权极大。令女子参政等为平权，直是不识皂白者之乱统也。

 7、佛化儿童读本 

孝亲：身体发肤。受之父母。父母与我。实为一体。我爱自身。应孝父母。能不辱身。便是荣亲。 

友爱：兄弟姊妹。手足骨肉。痛痒相关。休戚与共。兄爱弟敬。和和睦睦。相推相爱。家庭之福。 

敬师： 师严道尊。人伦表率。道德学问。是效是则。养我蒙正。教我嘉谟。不敬其师。何能受益。 

择友： 近朱者赤。近墨者黑。朋友相处。有损有益。益者近之。损者远之。劝善规过。端赖乎兹。 

布衣： 衣取遮体。兼以御寒。大布之衣。惜福养廉。莫羡绸缎。锦绣华美。折了福寿。自暴自弃。 

蔬食： 蔬食卫生。肉食伤生。杀时恨心。其毒非轻。勿贪吃肉。吃了须还。还的时候。真个可怜。 

惜字： 字为至宝。远胜金珠。人由字智。否则愚痴。世若无字。一事莫成。人与禽兽。所异唯名。 

惜谷： 田中五谷。以养人民。爱惜五谷。即是善心。修善者存。不善者亡。惜谷获福。殄谷遭殃。 

惜阴： 七十古稀。弹指即过。过则已无。何敢懈惰。努力勤学。立德立业。自利利他。为世作则。 

仗义： 一举一动。唯义是取。义之所在。无往不利。小人见利。即忘其义。虽得小利。究竟吃亏。 

清廉： 人生福泽。前世所修。非义而取。是食毒物。清而不污。廉而不贪。世所崇敬。荣无知焉。 

知耻： 耻之一字。其利无穷。有与圣近。无与兽同。惭耻之服。无得暂卸。我佛训诲。庄严第一。 

尽忠： 一秉真诚。不被妄侵。事亲接物。了无二心。只期尽分。不计人知。如是之人。堪为世仪。 

守信： 守信之人。言不妄发。说到做到。不矜不伐。无信之人。事事皆假。人所厌弃。不如牛马。 

仁慈： 仁爱慈悲。心之生机。此心愈真。福泽愈深。若无此心。势必残刻。纵有宿福。折尽受厄。 

不杀生： 凡属动物。皆有知觉。贪生怕死。唯命是惜。若戏顽杀。及杀而食。现生后世。决定报复。 

不偷窃： 凡有主物。不可偷取。偷小丧品。偷大招祸。偷人之物。折己之福。欲得便宜。反吃大亏。 

不邪淫： 淫欲为害。伤身丧志。虽属夫妻。亦当节制。若是邪淫。更非所宜。古今志士。无一犯之。 

不说谎：言为行表。是本心术。心既不真。行何能正。望尔后生。切勿妄语。口是心非。终无结局。 

不吃烟： 烟俱勿吃。以伤卫生。口气常臭。熏天熏人。鸦片香烟。其毒极烈。花钱买害。痴人可怜。 

不饮酒： 酒是狂药。饮必乱性。醉则反常。越礼犯分。最好勿吃。免致大喝。聪明智慧。常保清白。 

不赌博： 赌钱博奕。丧志失时。专心于此。正事弃遗。有限光阴。送之儿嬉。破家荡产。罪无了期。

 不奢侈： 奢侈夸富。买祸买贱。君子下看。盗贼来劫。布衣蔬食。圣贤仪式。现生后世。人各取则。 

不傲慢： 傲慢轻人。实自呈短。明人知伊。学养俱罕。纵到圣位。犹不轻人。绝无凡圣。念存于心。

 不嫉妒： 人有才德。我当赞叹。彼于社会。必有贡献。若生嫉妒。是谓愚痴。业报夺汝。宿世慧思。 

不偏见： 人有小智。未闻大道。每执己见。以为最妙。坐井观天。所见者小。若登高山。前见自了。 

不迁怒： 有富贵人。气量或小。每因拂意。忿怒牢骚。迁怒无益。自他烦恼。海涵宽恕。是无价宝。 

不耻问： 能问不能。多问于寡。冀人从己。故先自下。若是无知。尤当问人。博学审问。造诣方真。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

  诸葛长青中国梦  

学习圣贤 弘扬善德

振兴中华 造福世界

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1The wisdom of traditional Chinese culture changes the destiny: filial piety to parents+five in one+self-improvement

1 国学智慧改命运：孝敬父母+五合一+自强不息

2Zhuge Changqing's Three Golden Keys to Changing Destiny

2诸葛长青改命运三把金钥匙诸葛长青施食仪轨 （十五步简洁版）

3Zhuge Changqing's Greeting Ritual (15 Steps Concise Version)

3 诸葛长青施食仪轨 （十五步简洁版）

4How to repent: the ritual of repentance and the method of repentance (full version)

4   如何忏悔：忏悔仪轨忏悔方法（完整版）

5How to read the Dizang Sutra: Methods for reciting Dizang Sutra (complete version)

5 如何念地藏经：念地藏经仪轨方法（完整版）

6How to release? The ritual of releasing life

6怎样放生？放生仪轨

7Zhuge Changqing's Repentance Culture: A Case Study of Repentance Methods for Changing Destiny

7诸葛长青忏悔文化：改变命运忏悔方法案例

8Free Life Culture: Free Life Culture in Ancient China

8放生文化：中国古代的放生文化

9Shocking photo of feeding: Buddha, Bodhisattva and Dharma Protector come to the scene

9施食震撼照片：佛菩萨护法神亲临现场

10Feeding Rite Return: the return is changed to simple return

10施食仪轨回向：回向修改为简洁回向