The Way to Success: Keep Your Own and Don't Shame Your Parents and Don't Hurt Your Children

成功之道：守身勿羞父母 创立别害子孙

Whatever you do, you should consider following the law of heaven, stop evil and do good.

-----Zhuge Changqing

People are doing, and the sky is watching.

Good is rewarded with good and evil with evil.

In life, you should always pay attention to yourself, always be alert to yourself, and always do good deeds and accumulate virtue.

According to the article of the Supreme Chancellor's Sensation, there is no way out of luck or misfortune, but people call themselves.

Life's vicissitudes are all between good and evil. You should not be careless when you are alive.

Never do anything against morality in life, otherwise, karma will not be happy at all.

Serious consequences will have a great impact on yourself, parents and family.

How many cases ring the alarm bell after reading through all times and at home and abroad.

There is a sentence in "The Night Tale of the Fireplace" written by Wang Yongbin of the Qing Dynasty, which always reminds the world:

Keep your body and don't dare to act rashly, or you will be ashamed of your parents;

Entrepreneurship needs to be considered carefully, lest it will harm future generations.

How can it be justified to study hard and want to be proud?

It's no good to be a person. Where do you get it if you want to invite Fuqing?

Zhuge Changqing believes that this sentence is worth everyone's deep thinking.

The basic meaning of this passage is:

Keep your own behavior and don't dare to act at will because you are often worried about your improper behavior, which will bring shame on your parents' reputation;

When choosing to create a career, we should also be far-sighted and careful to avoid harming future generations.

And woke many people----

How can you gain glory and wealth without reading the sages' books and learning the sages' wisdom?

If you don't actively do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and don't actively benefit others in the society, how can you get the blessing of God?

The world of mortals is rolling. People should always be alert to themselves.

There are many temptations. People should restrain themselves.

When thinking about good and evil and being alone, we should always pay attention to it.

Confucianism advocates that every night, we should reflect on our own gains and losses.

To reflect on yourself, you should reflect on whether you have violated the moral principles.

The evil should be corrected immediately; We should continue to carry forward the good.

The Disciple Regulations also warned people that "virtue hurts, and brings shame to relatives".

All happy life is a process of stopping evil and doing good.

Be cautious when you succeed, be confident when you fail, and learn more from sages and do more good deeds on weekdays.

Good deeds and good deeds will be rewarded.

Remarks: The Night Tale of the Beside Stove is a famous literary review work in the Ming and Qing dynasties. It evaluates and discusses the literary anecdotes, people, events, articles, etc. at that time and before.

This book was completed by the author Wang Yongbin in the "One Classics Hall" of "Jiayin, Xianfeng, in the Qing Dynasty, in the Qiaoxi Pavilion". "The Night Talkshow of the Beside Furnace", taking "settling down and establishing a career" as the general topic, reveals the profound meaning of "establishing morality, meritorious service, and making a speech" based on "establishing a career" from the following ten aspects: morality, self-cultivation, reading, living in poverty and happiness, godson, loyalty, filial piety, and thrift, and so on The Secret Story of the Small Window is also known as the Three Wonderful Books of Life.

amitabha. Don't do any evil, and do all good. Persistence and responsiveness.

不论干什么事情，都要考虑遵循天道，都要止恶行善。

----- 诸葛长青

    人在做，天在看。

       善有善报、恶有恶报。

    人生时刻要注意自己，时刻警醒自己，时刻行善积德。

   《太上感应篇》曰：祸福无门，惟人自召。

    人生旦夕祸福，全在善恶之间，人生在世，不可不谨慎啊。

   人生切忌做出违背道德的事情，否则，因果报应，丝毫不爽。

    严重的后果，就会对自己、对父母、对家人造成极大影响。

   翻阅古今中外，多少案例敲响警钟.......。

      清朝王永彬所著《围炉夜话》有句话，时刻警醒世人：

    守身不敢妄为，恐贻羞于父母；

   创业还须深虑，恐贻害于子孙。

      读书不下苦功，妄想显荣，岂有此理？

      为人全无好处，欲邀福庆，从何得来？

   诸葛长青认为这句话，值得每个人都深深思索。
    这段话的基本意思是：

   谨守自己的行为而不敢随心所欲任意作为，是因为时常担心自己的行为不得当，而使父母的名声蒙羞；

   在选择创立一项事业时，还要深谋远虑，仔细选择，以免将来危害子孙。

     还点醒了很多人----

   不认真阅读圣贤书、不认真学习圣贤智慧，如何得到荣华富贵？

  不积极行善积德、不积极造福社会他人，如何得到天官赐福？

    滚滚红尘，人们应当时刻警醒自己啊。 

   诱惑多多，人们要克制自己啊。

  善恶思想、独处之时，要时刻注意啊。

  儒家主张，每天晚上，都要反思自己的得失过错。

    反思自己，就要反思自己是否有违背道德天理的地方......。

   恶的，要立刻改正；善的，要继续发扬。

  《弟子规》也告诫人们---“德有伤，贻亲羞”。

   凡是幸福的人生，都是一个止恶行善的过程。

   成功的时候要谨慎，失败的时候要信心，平日里多学圣贤、多做善事。

   行善积德必有福报。

   备注：《围炉夜话》，是明清时期著名的文学品评著作，对于当时以及以前的文坛掌故，人、事、文章等分段作评价议论。

   这本书是作者王永彬“于清·咸丰甲寅二月，于桥西馆”的 “一经堂完成的。《围炉夜话》，以“安身立业”为总话题，分别从道德、修身、读书、安贫乐道、教子、忠孝、勤俭等十个方面，揭示了“立德、立功、立言”皆以 “立业”为本的深刻含义，与《菜根谭》、《小窗幽记》并称处世三大奇书。

  阿弥陀佛。诸恶莫作，众善奉行。持之以恒、有求必应。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

  诸葛长青中国梦  

学习圣贤 弘扬善德

振兴中华 造福世界

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