The foundation of the rejuvenation of the Chinese nation: vigorously promote the culture of filial piety
中华民族振兴的基础：大力推行孝文化
Parents are heaven and earth, parents are Buddha and Bodhisattva, parents are the gods of wealth, and parents are the treasure of your house.
----Zhuge Changqing
The Chinese nation is on the rise.
The great Chinese nation is undertaking the great mission of saving the world and enlightening the world and making strides forward.
Zhuge Changqing is pleased to see that the Chinese nation is bound to rise as the great cultural tide of carrying forward the traditional Chinese culture, learning the traditional Chinese culture, honoring parents, abstaining from killing and releasing animals, and doing good deeds!
Our ancestors, Fu Xi, Nu Wa, and the emperors and sages of all ages, are happy to bless China!
The Jade Emperor, the Queen Mother and the immortals in heaven all praised the leap of the Chinese nation.
All Buddhas, Bodhisattvas, Arhats and Dharmapalas in the Buddhist world are delighted to praise the rise of the Chinese nation!
Nanwu Amitabha, the Chinese nation is bound to rise, and its military strategy is unstoppable!
Blessed life is limitless, and Chinese culture has made great contributions to guiding the world and relieving the world!
Dacheng, the supreme sage, the Chinese filial piety, spread all over the world, enlighten all living beings, and reshape sages!
The rise and revitalization of our Chinese nation is inevitable.
However, the rise of the Chinese nation needs several foundations.
So what is the basis for the revitalization of the Chinese nation?
Zhuge Changqing believed that we should vigorously promote filial piety, and everyone should start from respecting their parents.
If the Chinese nation vigorously carries forward the spirit of filial piety, then the national spirit will be magnificent, and the benevolence and majesty will be incredible.
The great Confucius master said in the Book of Filial Piety: "The nature of heaven and earth is precious to human beings. The conduct of human beings is no greater than filial piety."
Why did Confucius regard filial piety as the first and fundamental principle of life?
In fact, there is a secret in it.
But why do you say that?
Zhuge Changqing believes that parents are----
Parents are heaven and earth, and parents are Buddha and Bodhisattva;
Their parents are the gods of wealth, and their parents are your nobles and the treasure of your houses.
Throughout the ages, sages, celebrities, rich and lucky people are all people who respect their parents.
So what should we pay attention to in respect of filial piety?
Zhuge Changqing believes that filial piety culture is a grand cultural system.
1、 There are three categories of filial piety
Zhuge Changqing: A filial piety moves the world, and those who respect their parents will have great blessings.
1. Honor your parents. Zhuge Changqing believes that filial piety to your parents is the duty of life. If this is done well, your career foundation, marriage foundation, children's foundation and so on will have a basic point. Of course, if you are busy for the cause of the country, it is also filial piety that you can't go home often (see later).
"Disciple Regulations" tells people about Confucianism, "filial piety first", and puts filial piety first.
The Buddha himself said in the Sutra of Buddha Saying Auspiciousness that "it is the most auspicious to take care of parents, love wives and children, and do no harm to work".
The Supreme Lord Laojun said in the "Chapter of Supreme Sensation": "accumulate virtue and hard work, be kind to things, be loyal to others, be filial to others, and be honest to others... Everyone respects them, the way of heaven protects them, and the wealth follows, the evil is far away, and the gods protect them".
As long as you do good deeds, accumulate virtue and honor your parents, you will be touched by heaven and earth, protected by gods, rich and lucky.
2. Honor all parents. Zhuge Changqing believed that to be filial to his parents at home, and to be filial to the parents of the world in society. In this way, the world will be more harmonious.
Why not pull a hair to benefit the world?
As Mencius said, "We are old and old, young and young.".
Think of the old man in the world as his parents, then the world is a family; If the world is a family, then everything will be fine. Looking around China, there are things about filial piety to the elderly everywhere, especially in our country, many people in society, many social organizations and so on.
Confucius once said that "filial piety is the principle of gentleman's education, so it is also the father who respects the world".
Amitabha, it's a sign of our country's revitalization.
In particular, the establishment of nursing homes, the rescue of beggars, the selection of the top ten filial sons and the selection of moral models are all very good deeds.
3. Honor the motherland. Some people also asked Zhuge Changqing, sometimes busy and filial, but unable to go home, is it filial piety? Zhuge Changqing believed that as long as the soldiers, police, armed police, civil servants, and staff of all fronts who dedicate to the peace of the world, the happiness of the people, and the harmony of the motherland, even if they can't go home for a long time, they will do their utmost to be filial, because what they do is great filial piety.
"Filial piety at home and for the country" are all filial piety.
It is difficult to go home because of being busy for the country, the people and the society. This is the great filial piety and great kindness that permeates the world. As long as you write more letters and call home to say hello.
Each of us is a small family. Small families make up big families, which is our China.
If every country in the world learns from China's filial piety to its parents, then every country will unite as the world family.
From this point of view, how important is our mission to educate the world with Chinese culture.
2、 The way of honoring parents
Zhuge Changqing believes that there is no best way to honor your parents, as long as you do it with filial piety.
1. Those close to their parents should visit once a week. Zhuge Changqing believes that filial piety is the most important thing to honor parents. It doesn't matter how much money you have. Every time you go home, you buy some vegetables. Every time I go back, I bring back a smile, a housework, a back beating for my parents, and a game of cards with my parents The details shall be determined according to the situation. Remember, to make your parents happy, you have to be filial to do the best.
2. If you are far away from your parents, call at least once a month.
3. On New Year's Day, no matter how much money you have, you should buy your parents favorite gifts.
4. A special way to honor parents (suggested by Zhuge Changqing).
Zhuge Changqing believes that the best way to honor parents is to accumulate virtue for them. Especially when the family is relatively rich and the parents are not short of anything, the best way to honor their parents is to accumulate virtue for them.
For example, if someone plans to buy thousands of yuan of sea cucumber for their parents, it is better to take out a small part of the money to buy a piece of clothes and release some of the money (or all of it) for their parents. You can accumulate virtue for your parents in this way:
(1) Take money instead of your parents to set free, and pay back carefully (you can pay back with yourself). When you release yourself, you can return to your parents.
(2) Take the money instead of the parents to print the scriptures, and carefully return (you can return together). You can write your own and your parents' names on the book.
(3) Help the poor with their own money instead of their parents.
(4) Do more good things yourself. Whether it is to smile at people, encourage others, take the initiative to pick up ground garbage, take the initiative to help the weak, and so on, we should do more. Some of your good deeds and blessings will return to your parents.
3、 What if your parents love you, hurt you, beat you and scold you?
Zhuge Changqing: Amitabha, everyone and their parents have a lot of predestination. There are two kinds of predestination between children and parents. One is to repay the kindness. Some people are very close to their parents; The second is revenge. Some people quarrel with their parents constantly. Master Yinguang has a good suggestion, which is to treat your parents as Buddha and Bodhisattva. Whether they love you, hurt you, beat you or scold you, you should learn to accept them sincerely. Zhuge Changqing suggested that when you think of your parents, you should first say in silence -- thank you parents, thank you for raising me, thank you for educating me, I can't repay you anyway. By doing so, your heart will always be grateful.
What if your parents are cranky and beat you and scold you?
Zhuge Changqing suggests you do the following:
1. Think of your parents as lifesavers. This benefactor scolds you. Are you angry?
2. Think of your parents as living Buddha and Bodhisattva to hone you. Buddha and Bodhisattva tempered you. How angry are you?
3. The more so, the more filial you are, the real filial piety. "Disciple Regulations" said: "Dear me, how difficult is filial piety? Hate me personally, and be filial to others. The more I scold you and beat you, the more I respect my parents.
4. Parents should teach and listen respectfully; Parents should follow their responsibilities. When your parents educate you, you should listen carefully and respectfully; When your parents scold you, you should seriously admit your mistakes. Even if you are right, you should follow your parents' wishes to admit your mistakes, so that your parents will not be angry. If you contradict your parents, the consequences of your parents' anger are very serious. Zhuge Changqing recommends that those who are destined to understand the connotation of "Filial Piety" and "Disciple Regulations" carefully.
5. If your parents love you very much. It shows that you can do it well. You should continue to do it seriously and reflect on your own shortcomings.
6. If your parents have great karma and often scold you, you should shut up or leave with an excuse. You also have to apologize: I'm sorry to make you angry. After a period of time, or a few days, it would be good if parents' anger subsided.
7. If your parents have a big karma and hit you in anger, you should run away immediately. This is the way that Confucius, the supreme master of Dacheng, taught us. Confucius said that if your parents hit you, you should run away immediately. If you don't run away, your parents will fall into injustice. Mature, slowly persuade parents. Smile to make parents not angry, not angry, and smile to say that everything is happy at home. How to correct parents' mistakes? The method of Disciple Regulation is very good. That is to persuade parents when they are in a good mood. Look at Disciple Regulation and you will understand.
4、 What should I do if my parents' ideas are inconsistent with my own?
Some predestined people asked Zhuge Changqing that he had an idea, but his parents didn't approve of it. What should I do? Don't listen, parents are not satisfied; Listen to your parents and you are not satisfied. What should you do? Zhuge Changqing suggested the following:
1. Compare your parents' suggestions with your own ideas, analyze which one is better and choose the best one. Parents are all for the good of their children. Maybe they are right, maybe they are not perfect, maybe they don't consider your feelings at all. We should learn to think carefully and weigh the advantages and disadvantages. If you can't make up your mind, listen to your parents.
2. Don't contradict your parents. If you don't agree with your parents' suggestions, you can not take them, but don't strongly contradict them. Zhuge Changqing reminded that parents in the world are the least willing to see their children contradict each other. Do you want your children to contradict you? Your dignity is gone. If your parents have big karma and are grumpy, you can quietly implement your own ideas, but don't contradict your parents obviously.
3. Remember, no matter what choice you make, don't regret it. Whether you listen to your parents or don't listen to them, don't regret and complain afterwards.
父母是天地，父母是佛菩萨，父母是文武财神，父母就是你的镇宅之宝。
---- 诸葛长青
中华民族，正在崛起。
伟大的中华民族，正承担挽救世界、教化世界的伟大使命，阔步前进。
诸葛长青高兴的看到，中华大地，开始了弘扬国学、学习国学、孝敬父母、戒杀放生、行善积德的宏大文化大潮，中华民族必然崛起！
我们的人类始祖伏羲、女娲以及历代帝王圣贤，正开心的祝福中华！
天界的玉皇大帝、王母娘娘以及各位神仙，都赞叹中华民族的飞跃。
佛界的各位佛菩萨、罗汉、护法神，正高兴的赞叹中华民族崛起！
南无阿弥陀佛，中华民族，必然崛起，文韬武略，势不可挡！
福生无量天尊，中华文化，引导世界、救济世界，功不可没！
大成至圣先师，中华孝道，遍布环宇，启迪众生，再塑圣贤！
我们中华民族崛起振兴，文武之道是必然的。
但是，中华民族崛起，需要几个基础。
那么中华民族的振兴基础是什么呢？
诸葛长青认为，还是要大力弘扬孝道，每个人从孝敬父母做起。
中华民族大力弘扬孝敬之风，则国风浩荡，善道威武，不可思议。
伟大的孔子先师在《孝经》中说道：“天地之性，人为贵。人之行，莫大于孝。”
孔子为什么把孝道看做人生的第一要义，根本之根本？
实际上，这是有天机在里面的。
为什么这样说呢？
诸葛长青认为，父母是----
父母是天地，父母是佛菩萨；
父母就是文武财神，父母就是你的贵人、就是你的镇宅之宝。
古往今来，圣贤名士、富贵吉祥者，都是孝敬父母的人。
那么在孝敬父母方面，应当注意哪些问题呢？
诸葛长青认为，孝文化是一个宏大的文化体系。
一、孝敬父母分三大类
诸葛长青：一颗孝心动天地，孝敬父母的，必有极大福报。
1、孝敬自己父母。诸葛长青认为，孝敬自己的父母，是做人的本分，这一点做好了，你的事业基础、婚姻基础、子女基础等等就有了基本点了。当然，如果为了国家事业忙碌的，即是不能常回家也是尽孝（见后面讲述）。
《弟子规》把儒家孔子思想告诉人们，“首孝悌”，把孝道排在第一位。
佛祖亲自在《佛说吉祥经》 说道“奉养父母亲，爱护妻与子，从业要无害，是为最吉祥”。
太上老君在《太上感应篇》中说道：“积德累功，慈心于物，忠孝友悌，正己化人…….人皆敬之，天道佑之，福禄随之，众邪远之，神灵卫之”。
只要行善积德、孝敬父母，就会感动天地，神灵护卫、富贵吉祥啊。
2、孝敬天下父母。诸葛长青认为，在家里孝敬自己的父母，到了社会上，就要孝敬天下的父母。这样天下就会更加和谐。
拔一毛而利天下，何乐而不为？
正如孟子所说：“老吾老以及人之老、幼吾幼以及人之幼”。
把天下老人看成自己的父母，那么天下就是一家人；天下都是一家人了，那么一切都就好了。放眼中国，处处都有孝敬社会老人的事情发生，尤其是我们国家、社会上很多人、很多社团组织等，都在大力做好这一点。
先师孔子曾说“君子教以孝，所以敬天下之为人父者也”。
阿弥陀佛，管中窥豹、略见一斑，这是我们国家振兴的征兆啊。
尤其是开展的设立敬老院、救助乞丐、评选十大孝子、评选道德楷模等都是非常好的善举。
3、孝敬祖国母亲。也有人问诸葛长青，有时候忙碌，有孝心但是不能回家，算不算孝敬父母呢？诸葛长青认为，只要为了天下安宁、为了人民幸福，为了祖国和谐，而奉献的军人、警察、武警、公务员、各条战线的工作人员等，即使长久不能回家，也是尽孝心，因为他们行的是大孝。
“在家尽孝、为国尽忠”，都是孝。
为国、为民、为社会忙碌而难以回家，此乃弥漫天地的大孝心、大善举。只要平时多给家里写信、打电话问候一下就可以。
我们每个人都是小家庭，小家庭组成大家庭，就是我们的中国。
如果世界每个国家都学习中国孝敬父母，那么每个国家联合起来就是世界大家庭。
由此看来，我们中华文化教化世界的使命多么重要啊。
二、孝敬父母的方式
诸葛长青认为，孝敬父母没有最佳方式，只要用孝心去做就可以。
1、靠近父母的，应当每周探望一次。诸葛长青认为，孝敬父母最重要的是孝心，钱多钱少无所谓，每次回家都买一点蔬菜。每次回去带回去一个微笑、一次家务劳动、一次为父母捶背、一次和父母打打牌......具体根据情况决定。记住，让你的父母开心，你得孝心就做的最好了。
2、远离父母的，至少每月打一次电话。
3、逢年过节，不论钱多钱少，应当给父母买喜欢的礼物。
4、孝敬父母的特别方式（诸葛长青建议）。
诸葛长青认为，孝敬父母的最好方式，是为父母积德。尤其是家庭相对富裕，父母什么都不缺的，这时候，孝敬父母最好的方式，就是为父母积德。
譬如，有人计划为父母买几千元的海参，不如拿出少部分买一件衣服，把声于部分钱放生（或者全部放生），为父母积德。你可以这样为父母积德：
(1)自己拿钱代替父母放生，并认真回向（可以和自己一起回向）。自己放生的时候，回向给父母也可以。
（2)自己拿钱代替父母印经书，并认真回向（可以一起回向）。捐印经书上，可以写上自己和父母的名字。
（3)自己拿钱代替父母救助穷人。
（4）自己做更多善事。不论是微笑对人、鼓励别人、主动捡拾地面垃圾、主动帮助弱者等等，都要多做。你的行善福报，有一部分会回到你父母身上。
三、如果父母爱你痛你、打你骂你怎么办？
诸葛长青：阿弥陀佛，每个人和父母都是累世的缘分，割不断的。子女和父母之间分为两种缘分，一是报恩，有的人和父母好的亲密的不得了；二是报仇的，有的人和父母之间吵架不断。印光大师有个好建议，就是把你的父母看作是佛菩萨，不论他们爱你、痛你、打你、骂你，你看做是来磨练你的，要学会诚心接受。诸葛长青建议，你一想到父母，就首先要默默的说---谢谢父母，谢谢你们养育了我，谢谢你们教育我，我无论如何去做都难以报答你们。如此做，你的内心就会始终充满感激。
如果父母脾气暴躁、打你骂你，怎么办呢？
诸葛长青建议你做到以下几点：
1、把父母看做是救命恩人。此恩人骂你，你好意思生气？
2、把父母看做磨练你的活佛、菩萨。佛菩萨磨练你，你如何生气？
3、越是这样，你越孝敬，才是真正的孝敬啊。《弟子规》上说：亲爱我，孝何难？亲憎我，孝方贤。越是骂你打你，越是孝敬父母。
4、父母教、须敬听；父母责、须顺承。父母的教育你时，你要用认真、尊敬的心态去听；父母责备你的时候，你要认真承认错误，即使你对了，也要顺着父母的意思去承认自己的过错，这样父母就不会生气，如果你顶撞父母，那么父母生气后果很严重。诸葛长青推荐有缘者仔细领会《孝经》、《弟子规》的内涵。
5、如果父母十分疼爱你。说明你做的可以，要继续认真去做，反思自己哪里还不足。
6、如果父母业障大，经常骂你，你要闭口或者借口离开。你还要道歉：对不起，惹你们生气了。过一段时间，或者几天，父母气消了就好了。
7、如果你的父母业障大，怒而打你，你应当立刻跑开。这是大成至圣先师孔子先师教育我们的方法。孔子先师说，如果父母打你，你应当立刻跑开，如果你不跑开，就会使你的父母陷入不仁义。机缘成熟，慢慢的劝说父母。微笑着让父母不发火、不生气、微笑着说，家和万事兴。如何纠正父母过错？《弟子规》的方法非常好，那就是等父母心情好的时候劝说，具体大家看看《弟子规》，就会明白。
四、父母的想法和自己想法不一致，怎么办？
有些有缘者问诸葛长青，自己有个主意，可是父母不认可，怎么办？不听，父母不满意；听父母的，自己不满意，怎么办呢？诸葛长青建议如下：
1、你把你父母的建议、你自己的想法对比一下，分析看到底哪个好，选择最优的方案。父母都是为了子女好，或许是对的，或许是不圆满的，或许根本没有考虑你的感受。要学会认真思考，权衡利弊。如果你拿不定主意，不妨听父母的。
2、不要顶撞父母。如果你不同意父母的建议，你可以不采纳，但是不要强烈顶撞。诸葛长青提醒：天下父母最不愿意看到子女顶撞啊。换位思考，你愿意你的孩子顶撞你吗？你的尊严就没了。 如果父母业障大，属于脾气暴躁型的，你可以悄悄执行自己的想法，但是不要明显顶撞父母。
3、记住，不论作何选择都不要后悔。不论是你听了父母的，还是不听父母的，事后就不要后悔，不要抱怨。
阿弥陀佛，凡是行善积德，孝敬父母的人，必有大的福报啊。
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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.
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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream
Learn from sages and carry forward virtue
Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world
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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。
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1 国学智慧改命运：孝敬父母+五合一+自强不息
2Zhuge Changqing's Three Golden Keys to Changing Destiny
2诸葛长青改命运三把金钥匙诸葛长青施食仪轨 （十五步简洁版）
3Zhuge Changqing's Greeting Ritual (15 Steps Concise Version)
3 诸葛长青施食仪轨 （十五步简洁版）
4How to repent: the ritual of repentance and the method of repentance (full version)
4 如何忏悔：忏悔仪轨忏悔方法（完整版）
5How to read the Dizang Sutra: Methods for reciting Dizang Sutra (complete version)
5 如何念地藏经：念地藏经仪轨方法（完整版）
6How to release? The ritual of releasing life
6怎样放生？放生仪轨
7Zhuge Changqing's Repentance Culture: A Case Study of Repentance Methods for Changing Destiny
7诸葛长青忏悔文化：改变命运忏悔方法案例
8Free Life Culture: Free Life Culture in Ancient China
8放生文化：中国古代的放生文化
9Shocking photo of feeding: Buddha, Bodhisattva and Dharma Protector come to the scene
9施食震撼照片：佛菩萨护法神亲临现场
10Feeding Rite Return: the return is changed to simple return
10施食仪轨回向：回向修改为简洁回向
date:2020-09-18 15:59:01
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