Care for your parents and family: they need you very much

关爱你的父母家人：他们很需要你

A happy family needs your care and love. Take time to care about your parents and family.

-----Zhuge Changqing

Family is the foundation of career.

In Confucianism, Confucius, the supreme master of Dacheng, ranked filial piety first.

"Disciple Regulation" also said: Disciple regulation, sage training, first filial piety.

Zhuge Changqing believes that no matter how busy you are, you should spend time with your parents or call them every week. Those who are close to home can visit their parents once a week. Those who are far away from home should call their parents once a week.

Recently, Red Star Macalline, the first brand in the domestic household circulation industry, joined hands with Horizon Consulting to investigate the behavior and attitude of urban white-collar workers in love with their families from a third-party professional perspective. The survey covered 15 cities in China and sampled more than 3000 cases, aiming to better understand the status and characteristics of urban white-collar workers in love with their families in the current society. In this survey, the most unexpected "harvest" is that about 3/4 of white-collar workers think they have done quite well in loving their family, but the actual survey results are almost the opposite.

It is reported that the survey results are led by Rob Slychuk&Syak, the top international director, and his creative team, using the first domestic humanistic video and creative video report, "The Absence Proof that Shocks 100 Million People" (hereinafter referred to as "Absence Proof"), using unique post-period special effects, and combining rational data and emotional themes, netizens can examine whether their love for their family has been seriously lacking through unique vision. Whether urban white-collar workers love their home deeply can be directly explained by time.

According to the relevant analysis data of the survey activities, it is very common for urban white-collar workers to leave their families alone. "Love time" has become the "culprit" that hinders family happiness.

The data shows that "Hmm", "OK" and "I know" become the top three most commonly used phrases when talking with parents.

Zhuge Changqing: Dear predestined friends, think about it. Do you call your parents in the same way?

More than 65% of the elderly in the country feel lonely; Long-term lack of companionship increases the probability of pet suffering from depression by 35.2%... These phenomena are deeply reflected in the research report creative video "Absence Proof" launched by Red Star Macalline.

The helplessness of the video and the perception of love for home that falls far short of the expectations of relatives are worthy of reflection and reflection by everyone in society: they think they have made outstanding contributions to the family, but there is still a great distance between their actual behavior and the evaluation and action of love for home, let alone realizing that long-term absence will cause indirect harm to parents, wives and children, and even pets.

To love the family requires a sense of responsibility and more practical and effective action.

Mr. Wang, a foreign enterprise surveyed, said, "Our family has just ushered in a new baby. In order to have a more comfortable life for my wife, children and parents, I work hard every day and work overtime every day for performance. I love my family, so I hope to provide the best living conditions for my family.". But when asked about the last family gathering, it was a memory of one month ago.

In order to keep her hard-won career, Miss Li in Shanghai, who is also a "white bone spirit", stays up late every day and works hard. It is almost the most luxurious thing to chat and eat with her parents. She said that giving her parents enough money every month was her love for her family.

We can't help questioning these successful white-collar workers. Are you really so stingy about giving your time to your family? Don't you really have a party you can refuse? In fact, most urban white-collar workers are more willing to spend their time on gathering with friends and all kinds of social entertainment, but have never set aside time to accompany their families. It can be seen that the so-called depth of love for home is no more than that. Most people confuse material satisfaction with family happiness, and think that loving family is to meet the material conditions of family.

Zhuge Changqing: Actually, family happiness is more important than spiritual happiness.

The heavy work pressure, fierce competition in the workplace and the increasingly distant values have made contemporary white-collar workers lose the true meaning of loving home, which is extremely worrying.

Buddha Sakyamuni once said in the "Sutra of Buddha Saying Auspicious" that it is the most auspicious to take care of parents, love wives and children, and be harmless in work

Red Star Macalline hopes that through the launch of the creative research video "Absence Proof" and the micro-film "Time Gate" starred by Luo Jialiang, it will appeal to the public to love the family with time, make more practical and effective efforts to love the family, more deeply awaken the awareness of love for the family of urban white-collar workers, spend more time with their families, and enjoy the happy time with their families.

Red Star Macalline and Horizon jointly shot a short film, a very good video.

Zhuge Changqing recommends busy people to watch this short video. Your soul should be shocked. This video can be seen as a supplementary textbook of Chinese culture.

I sincerely thank Macalline and Horizon for taking such a good video.

Zhuge Changqing wished them a prosperous career and a prosperous future. Bless all the people in the world who respect their parents and do good deeds!

Appendix video: the eye-catching alibi of 100 million people

http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/pqZHs_HVOl0/

(The picture data of this article is from the network)

幸福家庭，需要你的关心、需要你的爱心。抽些时间关心你的父母家人。

----- 诸葛长青

   家庭是事业的基础。 

    儒家思想，大成至圣先师孔子把孝道排在第一位。

   《弟子规》也说道：弟子规，圣人训，首孝悌。

   诸葛长青认为，不论多么忙碌，每周都要抽时间陪陪父母或者给父母打个电话。离家近的，可以每周看一次父母，离家远的，应当每周和父母打一次电话。

   近日，国内家居流通行业第一品牌红星美凯龙携手零点咨询以第三方专业角度对都市白领的城市爱家行为和态度进行调查，调研覆盖中国15座城市，取样超过3000例，旨在更好地了解当前社会都市白领的爱家状况和特点。此番调研中，最为意外的“收获”是：有约3/4的白领人群认为自己在爱家方面表现相当不错，但实际调查结果却几乎完全相反。
   据悉，本次调研结果由国际顶级导演Rob Slychuk & Syak及他带领的创作班底采用国内首创的人文视频及创意视频报告《让一亿人触目惊心的不在场证明》(以下简称《不在场证明》)，运用独特的后期特效，把理性数据和感性主题结合，网民可以通过独特视审视自己对家庭的关爱是否已经是严重缺失。都市白领们爱家深不深，用时间就可以直观说明。
  根据调研活动相关分析数据显示，都市白领失陪家人的情况十分普遍。“爱家时间”成了阻碍家庭幸福的 “罪魁祸首”。

  数据表明：“嗯嗯”、“好好”、“知道了”成为前三名最常在与父母打电话时被使用的短语。

  诸葛长青：各位有缘者，思考一下，你是否也是这样和父母打电话呢？

  全国超过65%的老人觉得心灵孤独；长期缺乏陪伴让宠物患忧郁症的概率提升35.2%……这些现象在红星美凯龙推出的调研报告创意视频《不在场证明》中得到了深刻的体现。
   该视频所呈现的无奈现状及与亲人期望落差明显的爱家认知，值得每个社会人去反省与思考：他们自以为为家庭做出了卓越的贡献，但实际行为与爱家评价和爱家行动之间还有很大距离，更没意识到长期的失陪会给父母、妻儿甚至宠物造成间接的伤害。

   爱家需要责任意识更需要付诸实际有效的爱家行动。
    接受调研的外企王先生说道，“我们家刚刚迎来一位新宝宝，为了妻儿和父母能有更舒适的生活，我每天努力工作，为了业绩天天加班，我爱我的家人，所以希望为家人提供最好的生活条件”。但当被问到最近一次家庭聚会时，竟是1个月前的记忆了。

   同样身为“白骨精”的上海李小姐为了守住来之不易的事业，每天熬夜奋战，与父母聊天吃饭几乎变成了最奢侈的事情。她坦言每个月给足父母家用费就是她的爱家表现。

  我们不禁拷问这些成功白领，你真的这么吝啬于将时间奉献给家人吗？你真的没有一个可以拒绝的应酬吗？事实上大部分都市白领更愿意将时间花在与朋友的聚会和各种社交应酬之上，却不曾用心挪出时间陪伴家人。可见，所谓的爱家深度也不过如此。更有大部分人将物质满足与家庭幸福混淆，认为爱家即是满足家人的物质条件。

  诸葛长青：实际上，家庭幸福，更重要的是精神幸福。
    繁重的工作压力，激烈的职场竞争以及渐行渐远的价值观念让当代白领迷失了爱家的真正意义，这一现象让人极为堪忧。

  佛祖释迦牟尼佛曾经在《佛说吉祥经》中开示道：奉养父母亲，爱护妻与子，从业要无害，是为最吉祥.

  红星美凯龙希望通过创意调研视频《不在场证明》和由罗嘉良倾情主演的微电影《时间门》的推出，呼吁社会大众用时间爱家，为爱家付诸更为实际有效的努力，更深刻的唤醒都市白领的爱家觉悟，多用时间陪伴家人，享受与家人在一起的幸福时光。

   红星美凯龙携手零点公司联合拍摄了一部短片，非常好的视频。

   诸葛长青推荐忙碌的人们看看这部简短的视频。你的灵魂应当受到震撼的。这部视频可以看做是中国文化的补充教材。

  真诚感谢美凯龙和零点公司拍摄这么好的视频。

  诸葛长青祝福他们事业腾飞、财源广进。祝福天下孝敬父母、行善积德的人富贵吉祥！

    附录视频：让一亿人触目惊心的不在场证  

http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/pqZHs_HVOl0/

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

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