Nan Huaijin: My secret way to honor my parents when I was born outside

南怀瑾：我出身在外孝敬父母的秘密方法（图） 

Zhuge Changqing: Filial piety to parents is the foundation of life. This is also the truth repeatedly preached by classics such as Twenty-four Filial Piety, Disciple Regulations, The Analects of Confucius, The Sutra of the Earth, The Four Commandments of the Goddess, and The Sensation of the Supreme Emperor. Father is Buddha, mother is Bodhisattva. Having parents at home is the baby at home. Zhuge Changqing found that from ancient times to modern times, all the developed and rich people are those who respect their parents. Bless all the people who respect their parents, rich and lucky, rich and prosperous!

-----Zhuge Changqing

There are many ways to honor your parents.

Zhuge Changqing also wrote a lot of suggestions on respecting his parents on Sina blog.

Visit more close to your parents and bring gifts when you go;

Call more if you are far away from your parents. You should go home once a year.

Return the merits of releasing and giving food to parents, etc.

Master Nan Huaijin is not only proficient and admirable in Chinese culture, but also a great filial son.

The secret of his way of honoring his parents is to recite sutras back to them.

Master Nan Huaijin said in "What the Vajra Sutra Says" that the Vajra Sutra is very powerful.

Master Nan Huaijin said:

Let me tell you a secret.

When I was in middle school, I got up at four o'clock every morning. After practicing boxing, I read the Diamond Sutra first.

Why? I don't understand at all; Anyway, I was told that it was good to read the Vajra Sutra, so I read the Vajra Sutra.

(Zhuge Changqing: Buddhism smells bad. It is a blessing to be able to smell it.)

Because in school, I dare not knock on the wooden fish, for fear of being said to be insane, so I secretly get a copy of the Diamond Sutra and read it in the reception room. I am afraid of wolves at the front and tigers at the back.

Once I read "no self, no one, no sentient beings, no longevity", and suddenly felt that I was gone. Where did I go? I don't know! After that, I didn't read it. Later, I realized the truth.

This sutra is so wonderful for my experience. In historical records, there are many more senses.

During the eight years of the Anti-Japanese War, I went out and separated from my parents at home.

At that time, I had only one wish. Before going to bed every night, I must read the Vajra Sutra and the Heart Sutra to my parents.

This is my secret. I don't know my own wish in my heart outside, but I know from my experience that the induction force is very big!

I can only report to you here.

As for the reason why you want to do scientific research, I can tell you a lot of reasons for science, but today is about Buddhism, not science, so we won't discuss it for the time being.

Zhuge Changqing: Filial piety to parents is the foundation of life. This is also the truth repeatedly preached by classics such as Twenty-four Filial Piety, Disciple Regulations, The Analects of Confucius, The Sutra of the Earth, The Four Commandments of the Goddess, and The Sensation of the Supreme Emperor. Father is Buddha, mother is Bodhisattva. Parents at home are babies at home. Zhuge Changqing found that from ancient times to modern times, all the developed and rich people are those who respect their parents. Bless all the people who respect their parents, rich and lucky, rich and prosperous!

Zhuge Changqing's remarks on the Diamond Sutra.

Vajra Sutra is an important Buddhist classic.

The Vajra Sutra is one of the representative works of the early Mahayana Buddhism, and also the outline of the Prajna Buddhist Sutra. Its full name is the Vajra Prajna Paramita Sutra, which was translated by Yao Qinjiu Murashi in Hongshixiang. After its publication, it has been widely circulated in the society. There are more than 100 kinds of notes, such as falsification, annotation, similar eulogy, repetition, righteousness notes, mining, collection, interpretation, scientific interpretation, religious interpretation, resolution, general idea, and direct statement.

The famous four verses at the end of the volume of the Vajra Sutra: "All things that can be done are like dreams and bubbles, like dew and electricity, and should be viewed as such", which is the essence of the Sutra.

The full name of Vajra Sutra is one volume.

It is a classic of Prajna in ancient Indian Mahayana Buddhism, translated by Kumarashi in the late Qin Dynasty.

The meaning of Vajra Prajnaparami Sutra:

1. Vajra: refers to diamond, which means hardness, that is, the hardness of Vajra, which means prajna body; The benefit of Vajra is used as a metaphor for prajna. Through hundreds of calamities and thousands of lives, there are six ways of circulation, and the consciousness is not bad.

2. Prajna: For Sanskrit, Chinese should be translated into wonderful wisdom. (much higher than the wisdom of the world).

3. Polomi: It is Sanskrit and translated into Chinese to the other side. All living beings are trapped in a sea of troubles because of their self-attachment. If you can cross from the sea of life and death to a place of immortality, purity and happiness, you will reach the other shore, and you will be free from the sea of misery.

4. Sutra: The scripture should be interpreted as a path of practice. The way is also constant, and the way is also consistent, and the way is consistent with what should be said.

This sutra adopts the form of dialogue, saying that all things in the world are unreal and unreal, and that the real is the non-real; It is advocated that knowledge should be separated from all aspects and have no place to live, that is, to give up the cognition and pursuit of the real world, to prove the emptiness with the prajna wisdom contract, to break all the names and appearances, so as to achieve the situation of not clinging to anything but recognizing the reality of all laws. Vajra Sutra is one of the important classics on which Chinese Zen Buddhism is based.

The Vajra Sutra was written in ancient India in 494 BC. It is the record of the dialogue between the Buddha Sakyamuni and the elders, such as Xubodhi, and other disciples during his lifetime. It was recorded by disciple A Nuo. It is one of the important classics of Mahayana Buddhism and is often praised by monks and home Buddhists. The Diamond Sutra, which was unearthed in Dunhuang at the beginning of the 20th century, is one of the earliest woodblock prints in the world and is now in the British Library.

What the Diamond Sutra Says was written by Nan Huaijin. This book is a lecture about the Vajra Sutra by Mr. Nan Huaijin, a famous Taiwanese scholar. The author divided the Vajra Sutra into thirty-two grades (equivalent to chapters) according to the classification of Prince Zhaoming of the Liang Dynasty, and then explained them one by one. Each article is summarized with a chant to illustrate my experience.

In Chinese culture, Vajra Sutra is a very influential Buddhist sutra. For more than a thousand years, I don't know how many people have studied the Vajra Sutra, recited the Vajra Sutra, got the feeling because of the Vajra Sutra, and realized the Tao because of the Vajra Sutra. Vajra Sutra is a very special Buddhist scripture. Its greatest feature is that it transcends all religions, but also includes all religions.

What does the Vajra Sutra say? When we study the Vajra Sutra, we should not limit it to the scope of Buddhism. Buddha said in the Vajra Sutra: 'All sages and sages are different because of inaction.' That is to say, Buddha believes that all sages and sages, and all religious leaders who have made achievements in the past and the present, have achieved the Tao; It is only because of different personal levels, different times and places that the way of transmission is different.

Master Jiqun said that reading the Vajra Sutra has incredible merits.

The Vajra Sutra says, "It is incredible to know what is the sutra, and the results are also incredible." It can be seen that the merits of holding this sutra are extraordinary. The following will be explained separately.

1、 Increase happiness: happiness in life is based on happiness. Only with merit can we succeed everywhere and accomplish everything we want. Holding the Diamond Sutra can increase our happiness. In the scripture, the seven treasures of the world, such as Gangesha, Gangesha, Gangesha, and Gangesha have been distributed and calibrated successively, and Gangesha has been distributed and calibrated at three hours every day. In addition, the merit and virtue that Buddha once received was worth 840 trillion yuan, which all other Buddhas have learned to support and accept, are not as great as the merit and virtue of the four verses of the Vajra Sutra. Because the giving of wealth and the dedication of body can only help people for a short time. However, receiving or speaking this sutra for others can make the Dharma stay for a long time, enlighten people's positive knowledge and vision, guide others to improve and become Buddha, and thus obtain complete peace. Therefore, its merits are far beyond the reach of money.

2、 Remove karma: Our world is a world of karma. Because of the difference between good and evil karma created in the past life, the world is very different. Greed, hatred and ignorance from the beginning make us create many bad karma. So in reality, there are always many defects and problems, such as natural and man-made disasters, physical weakness, everything goes wrong, and so on. The holding of the Vajra Sutra can eliminate karma. The Sutra said: "Good men and good women, if they are allowed to read and recite this sutra, if they are contemptuous, it is the sin of the past generation, and should be degraded; for the sake of the contempt of the present world, the sin of the past generation is to be eliminated, and should be obtained the Anuttara-san-chi Bodhi." If they are safe before receiving the Diamond Sutra, they can be despised by others after receiving this sutra. Don't worry about it. This is the reason for heavy crimes and light retribution.

3、 To develop wisdom and reach the truth: The Diamond Sutra is a classic of Prajna, and the first thing is to develop wisdom. The Prajna Sutra says, "Bodhisattva does not live in Dharma, but lives in Prajna Paramita." This Sutra teaches us to live without living, which is to achieve Prajna. The Sutra said: "The Sutra or even the four verses... What's more, some people can read and recite as much as they can, and Bodhi should know that they are human beings, and achieve the highest and most valuable Dharma." The Sutra also said: "If anyone can hear the Sutra again, and have pure confidence, then they will generate the reality, and should know that they are human beings, and achieve the highest and most valuable merit." The achievement of the first and most valuable Dharma is to achieve wisdom and reach the reality.

4、 Eliminating worries: Although the word "worry" does not appear in the Vajra Sutra, Prajna Dharma helps us to relieve our worries everywhere. The Sutra said: "The four phases are the root of the emergence of troubles. Eliminate the four phases and naturally relieve the troubles. This sutra aims to achieve wisdom, and wisdom can eliminate troubles. Life is the source of troubles. The scripture requires us to live without all aspects, and troubles will not arise naturally.

5、 The supreme way of becoming Buddha: learning Buddha is to become Buddha, because Buddha is an enlightened person, representing the complete achievement of wisdom. The Heart Sutra says, "All the Buddhas of the three generations, according to Prajna Paramita, have attained the Supreme Buddha Dharma.".

Zhuge Changqing: Buddhism is profound and incredible.

        诸葛长青：孝敬父母，是做人的根本。这也是《二十四孝》、《弟子规》、《论语》、《地藏经》、《了凡四训》、《太上感应篇》等经典反复宣讲的道理。父亲就是佛，母亲就是菩萨。家有父母就是宝贝在家。诸葛长青发现，古往今来，凡是发达的人、富贵的人都是孝敬父母的人。祝福天下孝敬父母的人，富贵吉祥、财源广进、大吉大利！

----- 诸葛长青

   孝敬父母有很多种方法。

   诸葛长青在新浪博客上也写过很多孝敬父母的建议。

   离父母近的多探望，去的时候带着礼物；

   离父母远的多打电话，每年应回家一次。

   把放生、施食的功德回向给父母亲等等.......。

    南怀瑾大师不仅国学精通，令人钦佩，而且也是一位大孝子。

   他孝敬父母的方法秘密就是念经回向给父母。

   南怀瑾大师在《金刚经说什么》中谈道，金刚经的感应力量非常大。

   南怀瑾大师说道：

　　我给大家讲一个我的秘密。

   我在读中学阶段，每天早晨四点钟就起，练拳运动以后，首先念《金刚经》。

　　为什么念呢？我一点都不懂；反正人家告诉我念《金刚经》很好，我就念金刚经。

   （诸葛长青：佛法难闻，能够的闻佛法是人生的福报。）

   因为在学校里，也不敢敲木鱼，怕被人家说神经病，偷偷的弄一本《金刚经》，到会客室去念。前怕狼，后怕虎，一下子就念完了。

　　有一次我念到“无我相，无人相，无众生相，无寿者相”，忽然觉得我没有了，我到那里去了？不知道啊！以后我就不念了，后来才明了其中的道理。

   此经对我的经验，有这样奇妙。在历史记载中，更有非常多的感应。

   抗战八年，出门在外，跟家里父母分离，生死不可知。

   那时我只有一个愿力，每天晚上睡觉以前，一定要给我父母念《金刚经》、《心经》。

   这是我的秘密，我心中自己的愿力，外面不知道，可是我的经验上知道，感应力量非常大、非常大！

　　我只能向诸位报告到这里。

   至于说，你们要做科学的研究，感应是个什么道理，我可以跟你讲科学的理由一大堆，但是今天是讲佛学的课，不是讲科学的课，暂时就不讨论了。

    诸葛长青：孝敬父母，是做人的根本。这也是《二十四孝》、《弟子规》、《论语》、《地藏经》、《了凡四训》、《太上感应篇》等经典反复宣讲的道理。父亲就是佛，母亲就是菩萨。家有父母就是宝贝在家。诸葛长青发现，古往今来，凡是发达的人、富贵的人都是孝敬父母的人。祝福天下孝敬父母的人，富贵吉祥、财源广进、大吉大利！

   诸葛长青关于《金刚经》备注。

    《金刚经》是佛教重要经典。

   《金刚经》是初期大乘佛教的代表作之一，也是般若类佛经的纲要书，它全称《金刚般若波罗蜜经》一卷，由姚秦鸠摩罗什于弘始祥译出，问世之后，即在社会上广泛流传，篡要、注解、类颂、重演、义记、采微、集解、科释、宗通、决疑、大意，直说等略种注释达一百多种。

   《金刚经》卷末著名的四句偈文：“一切有为法，如梦幻泡影，如露亦如电，应作如是观”，堪称一经之精髓。

   《金刚经》，全称共一卷。

    是古印度大乘佛教般若系经典，后秦鸠摩罗什译。

    《金刚般若波罗蜜经》含义：

   1、金刚：指金刚石，喻坚利之意，即以金刚之坚，喻般若体；以金刚之利，喻般若用。历百劫千生，流转六道，而觉性不坏。

　　2、般若：为梵语，华语当译为妙智慧。（比世间智慧高深得多）。

　　3、波罗蜜：为梵语，华语译为到彼岸。众生因有我执，故陷于烦恼之苦海。倘能从生死烦恼苦海，渡到不生不灭、清净安乐之地，即为到彼岸，即脱离了苦海。

　　4、经：经字当径字解，比喻修行的一条路径。常道也，贯摄也，贯穿所应说义，摄持所化众生。

    此经采用对话体形式，说一切世间事物空幻不实，实相者即是非相；主张认识离一切诸相而无所住，即放弃对现实世界的认知和追求，以般若智慧契证空性，破除一切名相，从而达到不执着于任何一物而体认诸法实相的境地。《金刚经》是中国禅宗所依据的重要经典之一。

　　《金刚经》于公元前494年间，成书于古印度。是如来世尊释迦牟尼在世时与长老须菩提等众弟子的对话纪录，由弟子阿傩所记载。是大乘佛教重要经典之一，为出家、在家佛教徒常所颂持。20世纪初出土于敦煌的《金刚经》，为世界最早的雕版印刷品之一，现存于大英图书馆。

    《金刚经说什么》由南怀瑾编写。本书是台著名学者南怀瑾先生有关《金刚经》的讲记。作者依据梁代昭明太子的分法，将《金刚经》分为三十二品（相当于章），然后逐品作了讲解。每一品均以一首偈颂作总结，以阐发自己的心得。

   在中国文化中，《金刚经》是影响非常大的一部佛经。千馀年来，不晓得有多少人研究金刚经，念诵金刚经，因金刚经而得到感应，因金刚经而悟道成道。金刚经是佛经典中很特殊的一部，他最伟大之处，是超越了一切宗教性，但也包含了一切宗教性。

   《金刚经说什么》我们研究金刚经时，不能将它局限於佛教的范围，佛在金刚经眧说：‘一切贤圣，皆以无为法而有差别’，这就是说，佛认为古往今来一切圣贤，一切宗教成就的教主，都是得道成道的；只因个人程度深浅不同，因时、地的不同，所传化的方式有所不同而已。

   济群法师说，读《金刚经》有不可思议的功德。

   《金刚经》曰：“当知是经不可思议，果报亦不可思议。”可见受持本经功德之殊胜。下面将分别进行说明。
   一、增长福德：人生的幸福是基于福德。有福德才能处处顺遂，心想事成。受持《金刚经》能增长我们的福德。经中先后以三千大千世界七宝布施校量，恒河沙等七宝布施校量，恒河沙等身命布施校量，每日三时以恒河沙等身布施校量，又以佛陀曾经得值八百四千万亿那由他诸佛，悉皆供养承事的功德校量，都不及受持《金刚经》四句偈功德之大。因为财富的布施，身体的奉献，都只能给人以短暂的帮助。而受持或为他人讲说本经，却能令正法久住，启发人们的正知正见，引导他人向上增进以至解脱成佛，由此获得彻底的安乐。所以，它的功德远非财施所能及。
   二、消除业障：我们这个世界是业的世界，由于过去生中所造善恶业的不同，构成了世界的千差万别。无始以来的贪嗔痴，使我们造下许多不善的业力。所以现实中总有许多缺陷及困扰，诸如天灾人祸，身体病弱，诸事不顺等等。而受持《金刚经》能够消除业障。经曰：“善男子，善女人，受持读诵此经，若为人轻贱，是人先世罪业，应堕恶道；以今世人轻贱故，先世罪业则为消灭，当得阿耨多罗三藐三菩提。”如果没有受持《金刚经》之前平安无事，可受持本经之后反而遭到他人的轻视，不必担心，这正是重罪轻报的缘故。
   三、开发智慧，通达实相：《金刚经》为般若系经典，首要在于开发智慧。《般若经》曰：“菩萨不住法，住般若波罗蜜。”本经处处教我们无住，而无住就是为了成就般若。经曰：“随说是经乃至四句偈等……何况有人尽能受持读诵，须菩提，当知是人，成就最上第一希有之法。”又曰：“若复有人，得闻是经，信心清净，则生实相，当知是人，成就第一希有功德。”成就第一希有之法，乃是成就智慧，通达实相。
   四、消除烦恼：《金刚经》中虽然不曾出现“烦恼”二字，但般若法门处处都在帮助我们解脱烦恼。经曰：“无我相、无人相、无众生相、无寿者相。”四相乃烦恼生起的根本，消除四相，自然解脱烦恼。本经旨在成就智慧，而智慧能断除烦恼。住相是烦恼生起的根源，本经要我们不住一切相，烦恼自然不生。

   五、成无上道：学佛是为了成佛，因为佛陀为觉者，代表着智慧的圆满成就。《心经》曰：“三世诸佛依般若波罗蜜多故，得阿耨多罗三藐三菩提。”本经曰：“一切诸佛及诸佛阿耨多罗三藐三菩提法，皆从此经出。”成就般若，方能成就无上佛道。
    诸葛长青：佛学博大精深，不可思议。

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Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

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Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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8放生文化：中国古代的放生文化

9Shocking photo of feeding: Buddha, Bodhisattva and Dharma Protector come to the scene

9施食震撼照片：佛菩萨护法神亲临现场

10Feeding Rite Return: the return is changed to simple return

10施食仪轨回向：回向修改为简洁回向