The question of changing fate: how to get rid of distress, boredom and pain?

改变命运疑问：如何脱离苦恼、烦闷、痛苦？

To change fate, the most important thing is to stop evil and do good, have determination, confidence and perseverance.

-----Zhuge Changqing

A good fortune comes from many years of good fortune and good deeds.

All those who stop evil and do good and accumulate virtue must have good fortune and good fortune.

Many predestined people wrote letters and messages to Zhuge Changqing, asking about the way of fate.

Recently, the predestined person "the rebirth of the eagle" has even written 13 messages, systematically explaining his inner distress. His parents divorced because of their abortion; Because his parents divorced, he resented; Because his career is not smooth, he is degraded, because of the ridicule of others, he has low self-esteem.

However, he still wrote down his life question in pain: Why is he so miserable when others are happy? Is there no way out in life? Is it difficult to change fate?

For this list of questions, in fact, Mr. Zhuge Changqing has written many Sina blog articles and made detailed answers. Today, writing this article again is a reply to "the rebirth of the eagle", and also a general reply to other people who have similar questions. For the reference of predestined persons.

1、 Life is a journey, and the quality of the journey depends entirely on how good or bad people are.

Zhuge Changqing: The quality of life journey depends on his and his ancestors and the number of good and evil in this life. If you do more good, your journey will be smooth; If you do more evil, you will have a bumpy journey; Those who do not do good and do not do evil will have a dull journey.

In fact, you may have been a Martian or a person from other planets.

When the chance is ripe, you come to the earth, and you begin your journey of life on the earth.

From birth to school, work, family and career, entering the twilight years and leaving the world, there are generally about 100 years for you to visit the world.

This game has its own characteristics: you can benefit others and also waste your life; You can read, study and do business all over the world, In short, your life journey plan is completely in your hands.

This journey will make you remember for a lifetime:

If your grandparents and you do many good deeds, your journey: happy, sufficient funds, healthy and long life.

If your grandparents and you do little good, your journey: worry, depression, poverty, physical and mental exhaustion.

Amitabha, life is very dramatic.

In life, because of the seven emotions and six desires, bittersweet and bittersweet, greed, anger, ignorance and doubt, people are upside down, humiliated, sometimes happy, sometimes depressed and angry, sometimes ambitious, sometimes downhearted.

So people raise different questions. Some are upset, some are unhappy in marriage, some are unhappy in career, and some are wealth problems.

So why is life so different?

Buddha Sakyamuni Buddha, after sitting in meditation, cracked the code of life with great power.

This code is people's "karma". Good and evil cause and effect lead to different lives.

The Buddha saw that people in the world were very bitter, so he sent many Buddhas, Bodhisattvas, Arhats and Dharmapalas to enlighten all living beings in the world, which is why many Chinese eminent monks, sages and good knowledge.

The Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother also saw the suffering of the world, so they sent many immortals to the world. The Supreme Lord, the Eight Immortals, the King Lingguan, the City God, and the Land God are all good gods. Seeing the suffering of life, Tai Shanglaojun wrote the Tao Te Ching to remind and warn the world.

Confucius, the sage of Confucianism, also saw the sufferings of life. Therefore, Confucius trained many sages and talents, and spread them all over the country. Tell the disciples to take benevolence, righteousness, filial piety as the foundation, accumulate virtue and do good deeds as the foundation, have lofty ambitions, think of others and correct themselves, and finally achieve the goal of self-cultivation, family unity, governance and world peace. Confucius advocated "taking Yan Hui as an example". Confucius praised Yan Hui and said, "Sage, Yan Hui eats a small basket of rice and drinks a ladle of water. He lives in a poor little room. Nobody can stand this kind of poverty, but Yan Hui still does not change the joy of the Tao.". Xiande, Yan Hui!

2、 How can life become happy, prosperous and healthy?

Zhuge Changqing: The happiness and well-being of life actually comes from stopping evil and doing good, and returning seriously. Everything will be better if we eliminate the karma, resolve the enemies and creditors, and accumulate the blessings. This is "do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and respond to all demands". In fact, Buddha, Bodhisattva and God of Good do not need you to kowtow or light incense at all. As long as you are sincere and positive in your heart, everything will be ok. What Buddha, Bodhisattva and good god like most is that people are good and do good and accumulate virtue.

Is the journey of life bound by fate?

Is there no good fate for those who do evil?

Can't poverty become rich?

Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, good gods and sages told us that as long as we do good deeds and accumulate virtue, we will have a good fate.

As long as you swear to honor your parents, stop evil and do good deeds, life can become rich and happy.

Mr. Liao Fan's "Four Instructions to Liao Fan" is a real version of the practice of life change.

Buddha, Bodhisattva, immortals and sages tell people that if you do good and accumulate virtue, you will be rewarded, healthy, rich and happy.

In the face of many predestined people's questioning about life, Zhuge Changqing always gives them three suggestions.

Many people who are destined to see the Sina blog of Zhuge Changqing know that these three suggestions and three sentences that Zhuge Changqing often said.

Zhuge Changqing's three suggestions for changing fate are as follows:

First, it is suggested to read more basic books such as the "Three Generations of Cause and Effect", "The Supreme Emperor's Induction", "Disciple's Rules", "Jade Calendar Treasure Notes", and "The Four Instructions of the Goddess". Why read these books? The first three books are for those who are destined to find their own shortcomings, and the last two books are for those who are destined to find and practice ways to change their fate. After reading these books, you can read more classics and basic knowledge of Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism to enlighten yourself.

Second, it is suggested to immediately swear to stop evil and do good deeds. Why? Because only when you make up your mind will you be determined to be a good person and do good deeds, otherwise you will fall into the realm of sometimes progressive and sometimes lazy. Zhuge Changqing believes that when you kneel down and make a big wish to stop evil and do good, the world will shake for you and cheer for you. When you do more good deeds, your karma is eliminated, and your enemies and creditors are resolved, your fate will be better. Dharma protectors of Buddhism and Taoism will quietly protect you. This is why many good deeds are rewarded with good fortune.

Third, it is suggested that "read more of Zhuge Changqing's Sina blog, be confident, persevere, and refuel." Why do we suggest to systematically read Zhuge Changqing's Sina blog? Because Zhuge Changqing's blog has systematically expounded the relevant issues. If you look at it systematically, you will understand the connotation. Why do you say "firm confidence, persevere and cheer"? Because this sentence is the core of accelerating the change of life and destiny. As long as you have firm confidence, perseverance and constant refueling, your car of life will quickly change from 30km to 80km, 80km to 120km, Make a rapid leap in your life.

3、 How to get rid of distress, boredom and pain?

Zhuge Changqing: To get rid of misery, boredom and pain, we should basically stop evil and do good, and have determination, confidence and perseverance. Make up your mind, keep your confidence, and be persistent forever. Your future will be prosperous and auspicious. You can usually see more basic knowledge of Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism, and enlighten wisdom.

I carefully looked at the distress of the predestined person "the rebirth of the eagle" and understood his mood.

What factors contributed to his distress?

His distress is the same as that of ordinary people. It is caused by the obstacles of his karma and the obstruction of his relatives and creditors.

The pain of the predestined person's "rebirth of the eagle" is more caused by his family disharmony, his inability to stop sexual immorality and watching pornographic films.

How to quickly reverse this situation?

The method is actually very simple, that is, vow to stop evil and do good, and continue to do good and accumulate virtue, and the fate will change. Determination, confidence and perseverance are very important.

The following are Zhuge Changqing's opinions on "the rebirth of the eagle" to relieve distress, boredom and pain:

1. The "rebirth of the eagle" work is not smooth, which is caused by many obstacles. He has committed many crimes since the end of his life, which has led to greater obstruction in his life. It doesn't matter, just swear to stop evil and do good, return seriously, and resolve the karma and injustice of creditors. Of course, we should also learn to be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness, and respect others. Harmonious interpersonal relationship is the foundation of social survival.

2. In the Buddha family, there is no need for anything. It is completely possible to seek blessings when practicing at home. Stop evil and do good, resolve karma, and avenge creditors, and the good news will come naturally. You should seriously consider the three suggestions of changing fate that Zhuge Changqing often said.

3. Your parents have the spirit of abortion, which leads to a quarrel and disharmony in your family. This is also the reason why your career is not smooth. No matter how many mistakes your parents make, you should also do three things: first, be filial and respect your parents; Secondly, don't complain. Parents are the living Bodhisattva who trains you. If you don't train you, can you quickly realize wisdom?; The third is to work hard and show your talent and career with your own efforts. You should be more filial. If they don't pay attention to you, you can go to see and do your filial piety during the festival. In addition, the alms call on their enemy creditors. Extend your parents' life. Take time to look at the Twenty-four Filial Piety and you will understand the truth. Zhuge Changqing reminded the predestined people that if you are filial to your parents, you will have good luck. Because parents are the living god of wealth, the living Buddha, the living Bodhisattva, and the living god. If your parents don't behave well, you can see them as living Bodhisattvas (just like Tang Monk who took scriptures from the west to undergo the training), and also as the stones to promote your progress. See Zhuge Changqing Sina blog about Confucian filial piety.

4. You can help your parents overcome their karma and accumulate blessings by giving food. Since you know that your parents have the spirit of abortion, then this is your responsibility. You should call your parents' spirit of abortion, and call their enemy creditors who have a bad relationship with their husband and wife and have a quarrel with your parents to participate in the charity. See Zhuge Changqing Sina blog about giving food.

5. You can do good with little money, but you don't have to spend money to do good. You can do more merit without spending money. See Zhuge Changqing Sina blog about Buddhism for details.

6. Your self-indulgence will seriously affect your fate and consume your merits. Ecstasy and watching porn are the most serious consumption of fortune. Correct it immediately. Remember: all evil and lewdness are the first, and the evil and lewdness are very serious. People are not sages, who can make mistakes? Just change it.

7. Doing good deeds and accumulating virtue is the fundamental way to change fate. You need to be confident and persistent.

8. Please refer to Zhuge Changqing's feeding ritual for how to give food and the feeding ritual.

9. Buddha is the one who has the heart to Buddha. There is no need to do all those complicated things. Buddha and Bodhisattva only want people to do good and accumulate virtue, which is enough.

10. Zhuge Changqing suggested that you should read the teacher's Sina blog more, because your question has been explained a lot.

In recent days, after reading the blog patiently, your mind will gradually converge to the normal path.

If you believe in teachers, then you should remember: determination, confidence, perseverance. Do these three things carefully, and you will change your fate, get a good fortune and achieve a new leap in the future.

改变命运，最重要的是止恶行善，有决心、有信心、有恒心。

----- 诸葛长青

  好命运，来自于累世福报和止恶行善。

  凡是止恶行善、行善积德，必有好福报、好命运。

  很多有缘者给诸葛长青老师写信、留言，询问命运之路。

  最近，有缘者“鹰之重生”更是连写13条留言，系统阐述了他内心的苦闷。因为他父母堕胎，导致父母离婚；因为父母离婚，他怨恨；因为事业不顺利，他堕落，因为别人的讥笑，他自卑.......。

  但是，一心向善的他还是痛苦中写下了人生追问：为什么别人幸福他却如此痛苦呢？难道人生就没有出路吗？难道命运就很难改变吗？

  对于这列问题，实际上诸葛长青老师曾经写过很多新浪博文，做过详细解答，今天再次写下这篇文章，算是对“鹰之重生”的答复，也是对其他有类似问题有缘者的总回复。供有缘者参考。

  一、人生本来就是一次旅行，旅途好坏完全取决于人的善恶多少。

   诸葛长青：人生旅途好坏，取决于他及祖辈累世以及此生善恶多少。行善多的，则旅途顺利；做恶多的，则旅途坎坷；不行善也不作恶的，则旅途平淡。

   实际上，或许你也曾做过火星人、其他外星球的人。

  机缘成熟，你来到地球，就预兆你开始了地球人生的旅行。

  从出生、到升学、工作、成家立业、进入暮年、离开人间，一般有100年左右的时间，供你游玩人间。

  这个游玩很有特色：你可以造福他人，也可以浪费生命；你可以读书学习、也可以经商天下......，总之，你的人生旅途规划图完全掌握在你手里。

  这个旅途会让你铭记一辈子：

  若你祖辈和你行善多，你的旅程：开心快乐、资金充足、健康长寿。

   若你祖辈和你行善少，你的旅程：烦恼苦闷、贫穷潦倒、身心疲惫。

  阿弥陀佛，人生很有戏剧性啊。

  人生在世，因为七情六欲、酸甜苦辣、贪嗔痴慢疑，使人们颠颠倒倒、宠辱若惊：时而开心大笑、时而郁闷愤怒，时而壮志凌云、时而垂头丧气。

  所以人们提出的问题就不一样，有的是心情烦躁、有的是婚姻不顺、有的是事业不畅、有的是财富问题。

  那么人生究竟为什么如此不一样呢？

  佛祖释迦牟尼佛，禅坐成佛之后，用大法力，破译了人生的密码。

  这个密码就是人们“因果报应”，善恶因果导致人生命运不同。

  佛祖看到人间的人很苦，所以派出了很多佛菩萨、罗汉、护法神来人间启迪众生，这就是中国很多高僧大德、圣贤、善知识的原因。

    玉皇大帝、王母娘娘，也是看到人间的苦难，所以派出很多神仙来了人间度人。太上老君、人间八仙、王灵官、城隍神、土地神等都是善神。太上老君看到人生的苦难，所以写成了《道德经》提醒世人，告诫世人。

  我们儒家的圣人孔子也看到人生的苦难，所以，孔子培训了很多圣贤人才，遍布全国教化人心。告诉弟子们要仁义孝悌为本，积德行善为基，要志存高远，见贤思齐，修正自己，最终实现修身、齐家、治国、平天下的目的。孔子主张“以颜回为榜样”。孔子赞美颜回说：贤德啊，颜回吃的是一小筐饭，喝的是一瓢水，住在穷陋的小房中，别人都受不了这种贫苦，颜回却仍然不改变向道的乐趣。贤德啊，颜回！

   二、人生如何变的幸福快乐、富足安康？

   诸葛长青：人生的幸福安康，实际上来自止恶行善、认真回向。消除了业障、化解了冤亲债主、积累了福报，一切都会好起来。这就是“行善积德、有求必应”。实际上，佛菩萨、善神，根本不需要你磕多少头、点多少香火，只要你内心真诚、积极向善，一切都会ok。佛菩萨、善神最喜欢的即是人心向善、行善积德啊。

  人生旅途，难道就被命运拘束住了吗？

  难道作恶的就无法有好命运了么？

  难道贫穷不可以变得富足吗？

  各位佛菩萨、诸位善神、圣贤告诉我们，只要行善积德就有好命运。

  只要发誓孝敬父母、止恶行善、多做善事，人生就可变得富足快乐。

  了凡先生的《了凡四训》，更是一部真实版的改命实践版本。

   佛菩萨、神仙、圣贤告诉人们：行善积德就会有福报、就会健康、就会富足、就会开心快乐。

  面对很多有缘者对人生的追问，诸葛长青老师总是给他们三个建议。

  很多有缘者看诸葛长青老师的新浪博客，都知道诸葛长青老师经常说的这三个建议、也是三句话。

  诸葛长青老师常说的改命运三个建议是：

   一是建议多看《三世因果经》、《太上感应篇》、《弟子规》、《玉历宝钞》、《了凡四训》等基础书籍。为什么看这几本书呢？看前三本，是让有缘者查找自身缺点，最后两本书，是让有缘者找到并实践改命运的方法。看了这些书籍之后，可以多看佛家、道家、儒家的经典以及基础知识，使自己开悟智慧。

  二是建议立刻发誓止恶行善、多做善事。为什么呢？因为你只有下定决心，才会立志做好人、做善事，否则就会使自己陷入时而精进、时而懒惰的境界。诸葛长青认为，当你双膝下跪、发出止恶行善的大愿，天地都会为你震动，都会为你加油助威。你做善事多了，业障消除了、冤亲债主化解了，你的命运就变好了。各路佛教、道教护法神都会悄悄为你护佑。这就是为什么很多行善者有福报的原因。

  三是建议“多看诸葛长青新浪博文、坚定信心持之以恒、加油。”为什么建议系统看诸葛长青老师的新浪博客呢？因为诸葛长青老师的博文，对有关问题进行了系统的阐述，系统的看，就会理解内涵。为什么说“坚定信心持之以恒、加油”这句话呢？因为这句话是加速改变人生命运的核心啊。只要坚定信心、持之以恒，不断加油，你的人生之车，就会迅速由30公里变成80公里、80公里变成120公里......，使你的人生迅速发生飞跃。

  三、如何脱离苦恼、烦闷、痛苦？

  诸葛长青：脱离苦恼、烦闷、痛苦，根本上要止恶行善，要有决心、信心、恒心。下定决心、保持信心、永远恒心，你的未来富贵吉祥，指日可待。平时可以多看佛家、道家、儒家基础知识，开悟智慧。

  仔细看了有缘者“鹰之重生”的苦恼，很理解他的心情。

  那么他的苦恼现状有那些因素促成的呢？

  他的苦恼现状和一般人一样，都是累世业障、冤亲债主阻挠所致。

  有缘者“鹰之重生”的痛苦，更因为他家庭不和谐、自己止不住邪淫、看黄片等导致的。

  如何迅速扭转这个境地呢？

  方法实际上很简单，那就是发誓止恶行善、持续行善积德，命运就会改变的。决心、信心、恒心，十分重要啊。

  以下是诸葛长青对“鹰之重生”化解苦恼、烦闷、痛苦的几点意见：

   1、 “鹰之重生” 工作不顺利，是累世业障阻挠所致。累劫以来，他犯过很多罪业，导致此生阻挠大一些，不要紧的，只要发誓止恶行善，认真回向，化解了业障、冤亲债主就好了。当然，工作中也要学会应当学会谦虚谨慎、戒骄戒躁，尊敬他人。和谐的人际关系，是社会生存的基础。

  2、佛氏门中，有求必应，在家修行是完全可以求福报的。止恶行善、化解业障、冤亲债主，福报自然来临。你要认真思考诸葛长青老师常说的改命运三个建议。

  3、你父母有堕胎婴灵，导致你们家庭吵架不和谐。这也是导致你事业不顺利的原因。父母错误再多，你也要做到三点：第一是有孝心，孝敬父母；其次是不埋怨，父母即是磨练你的活菩萨啊，不磨练你，你能够迅速开悟有智慧吗？；第三是努力奋斗干事业，用自己的奋斗展示你的才华事业。你要更要孝顺，如果他们不理你，那么，你过节的时候去看看尽尽孝心就可以。此外，施食召请他们的冤亲债主。为你父母延寿。抽时间看看二十四孝就会明白道理的。诸葛长青提醒有缘人：孝顺父母，自己才会顺风顺水、大吉大利。因为父母就是活财神、就是活佛、活菩萨、就是活神仙啊。如果父母表现不好，你就把他们看做是磨练你的活菩萨（就像唐僧西天取经经受磨练一样），也是促使你精进的磨砺石头啊。详看诸葛长青新浪博客有关儒家孝道的博文。

  4、你可以通过施食为你父母化解业障、积累福报。既然你知道你父母有堕胎婴灵，那么这就是你的责任，你应当召请父母的堕胎婴灵，召请他们夫妻关系不好以及你和父母关系吵架矛盾的冤亲债主参加施食。详看诸葛长青新浪博客有关施食的博文。

  5、资金少，也可以行善，并不是必须花钱才可以行善。可以多做不花钱的功德。详看诸葛长青新浪博客有关佛学的博文。

  6、你的自甘堕落，严重影响你的命运，严重消耗你的功德。邪淫、看黄片，是消耗福报最严重的。要立刻改正啊。记住：万恶淫为首，邪淫罪恶十分严重啊。人非圣贤，谁能无错？改了就好了。

  7、行善积德是改变命运的根本方法。你需要坚定信心持之以恒。

  8、如何施食、施食仪轨，请参考诸葛长青老师施食仪轨。

  9、有心向佛，即是佛。没必要搞那些繁琐的东西。佛菩萨只希望人们行善积德，这就足够了。

  10、诸葛长青建议你还是要多看老师的新浪博文，因为你的问题，实际上已经讲解过很多了。

  近几天，耐心看完博文，你的思维就会逐步汇到正规路途上来。

  如果你相信老师，那么，你就要记住：决心、信心、恒心。做到这三点，认真去做，未来的你，就会改命运、得福报、实现新的飞跃。

  (This article is an original article by Zhuge Changqing, and the pictures are selected from the Internet. Welcome to forward it, and please indicate the source for forwarding)

Introduction to Zhuge Changqing: Zhuge Changqing, the inheritor and promoter of traditional Chinese culture, is willing to "learn from sages, promote virtue, revitalize China and benefit the world" together with people with the same ideals in the world.

(Zhuge Changqing: zhuge8031@163.com ）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

Zhuge Changqing's Chinese Dream

Learn from sages and carry forward virtue

Revitalizing China for the benefit of the world

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诸葛长青简介：诸葛长青，中国国学传统文化传承弘扬者，愿与天下志同道合者一起“学习圣贤、弘扬善德、振兴中华、造福世界”。

（诸葛长青：zhuge8031@163.com）

Zhuge Changqing mailbox：

zhuge8031@163.com

  诸葛长青中国梦  

学习圣贤 弘扬善德

振兴中华 造福世界

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1The wisdom of traditional Chinese culture changes the destiny: filial piety to parents+five in one+self-improvement

1 国学智慧改命运：孝敬父母+五合一+自强不息

2Zhuge Changqing's Three Golden Keys to Changing Destiny

2诸葛长青改命运三把金钥匙诸葛长青施食仪轨 （十五步简洁版）

3Zhuge Changqing's Greeting Ritual (15 Steps Concise Version)

3 诸葛长青施食仪轨 （十五步简洁版）

4How to repent: the ritual of repentance and the method of repentance (full version)

4   如何忏悔：忏悔仪轨忏悔方法（完整版）

5How to read the Dizang Sutra: Methods for reciting Dizang Sutra (complete version)

5 如何念地藏经：念地藏经仪轨方法（完整版）

6How to release? The ritual of releasing life

6怎样放生？放生仪轨

7Zhuge Changqing's Repentance Culture: A Case Study of Repentance Methods for Changing Destiny

7诸葛长青忏悔文化：改变命运忏悔方法案例

8Free Life Culture: Free Life Culture in Ancient China

8放生文化：中国古代的放生文化

9Shocking photo of feeding: Buddha, Bodhisattva and Dharma Protector come to the scene

9施食震撼照片：佛菩萨护法神亲临现场

10Feeding Rite Return: the return is changed to simple return

10施食仪轨回向：回向修改为简洁回向